The 10 Best Pegging Toys and Strap-Ons for Couples

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Intro

Amongst heterosexual couples, pegging is more popular than you'd think. Yet it is strangely one of the more taboo subjects in sexuality today.
Which leaves us mostly blind as to what are the best pegging toys and strap-ons available on the market.

Well as you may have figured it out on your own, here at Tabooless, we aren't big fans of taboos. So today we're really excited to bring you this list of the best pegging harnesses and toys for beginners and pros alike.

Now keep in mind that the selection covered here is boiled down to the bare essentials and there are many more amazing toys that would be perfect for pegging.
So make sure to read our unrealistic dildo list along with our realistic dildo article to make sure you don't miss a thing.

Also, if the man in the duo feels like he needs a bit more anal or prostate training, our buttplug and prostate toys articles should help as well.


Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.


That being said, here’s our top 10 list of pegging toys and harnesses, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.

Best Pegging Strap-Ons

 

Sili Saddle

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Now, I know this isn't an actual strap-on, but this toy will make any harness encounter much more comfortable to the wearer.

The Sili Saddle may look like nothing, but it's a super versatile little lump of squishy silicone.

It was invented by a woman suffering from genital distress to help her achieve discomfort--free masturbation.
The resulting toy is a super soft and squishy silicone pad shaped to work harmoniously with the female anatomy.
So if direct contact is uncomfortable for her during masturbation, this is a great non-penetrative toy to have.

And turns out, it can do much more than help women with sensitive bits get off.

You see, a big issue with using strap-ons is that vigorous pegging almost always ends with a beat up mons for the person wearing the harness.

And this is where the Sili Saddle can help. The Sili Saddle will stick to almost any dildo with a flat base providing some well deserved cushioning for your abused pubic mounds.

If the dildo situation is a bit more complex ( like having a suction cup ), you can always secure the Sili Saddle in a pair of panties and put the strap on over the whole getup.
Of course, if you're using a G-String or a brief style strap-on, you could just secure the Sili Saddle in there without needing to use any underwear to keep it in place.

A lot of folks also use the Sili Saddle to add some cushioning while bike riding.
So let's just say that if you're a bike riding, pegging loving lady, you really need this in your life!

Conclusion

Couples will mostly benefit from the Sili saddle if they need some shock absorption during pegging.

But if the lady of the house is very sensitive to the touch or suffering from vaginal irritations, it's a great aid for making masturbation more comfortable and pleasurable as possible.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Budget Harnesses

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For pegging aficionados, it's no mystery that finding a comfortable, stable and cheap pegging harness can be a full-time job.

So for this entry, we will cover the cheapest harnesses that are still worth your attention.

 

Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness

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While most Vac-U-Lock compatible harnesses will only work with Vac-U-Lock toys, this one gives you the option of using the Universal O-Ring System as well.

So it gives you a ton of compatibility whether you want to use the very stable but limited Vac-U-Lock System or any other dildo with a base.

The kit comes with a Vac-U-Lock Adapter, Differently Sized O-Rings and plenty of strap-length so it can fit bigger girls as well.
Of course, you should cut the straps to your desired length if you don't want them dangling about.

The Supreme Harness is unisex and is the most comfortable harnesses in the Vac-U-Lock collection in part due to the back support that won't dig in your skin as you thrust.

If you do decide to use Vac-U-Lock toys with the Supreme Harness, know that the beat up mons situation discussed in the Sili Saddle entry is even worse than with standard dildos. That's all thanks to the hard plastic backing found on each Vac-U-Lock adapters.  So if you go that route, the Sili Saddle mentioned above is almost mandatory.

 

Rodeoh Harnesses

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Rodeoh makes brief-style strap-ons that are essentially a cheap alternative to the great Spareparts Tomboi Harness.

Each model comes outfitted with a stretchy adjustable O-ring, so you won't have to carry multiple rings to accommodate all your dildos.

They are also compatible with "Strapless" dildos thanks to an opening aligned with the O-Ring. Rodeoh also offers a model called the duo that is specifically made for this as well.

Just know that the Stretchy O-Ring isn't the most durable, and you might have to completely replace your harness after some time. But at such a low price, this isn't too dramatic.

They also aren't as stable as the panty and brief-style harnesses from SpareParts and definitely not as stable as most traditional jockstrap or G-string style harnesses. 
Nothing too surprising since they are essentially just underwear with O-Rings.

But if you're looking for a cheap brief-style harness, it doesn't get any better than this.

 

Tantus Harness Kits

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The harnesses included in these kits are some of the most basic harnesses on this list.

But the fact that they're bundled with beautiful non-phallic silicone toys from Tantus make these kits extremely valuable for people who are just starting out.

Tantus offers kits with straight smooth dildos as well as models with intense g-spot curves.

Just don't be fooled by the harnesses that come with a bullet vibe.
The bullets themselves are rather cheap, but what's even worst is the placement of the bullet pockets.
You see, the people who made these harnesses seem to have no knowledge of female anatomy and unless your clitoris is near your belly button, you won't get much out of these.

The harnesses are still fine by themselves once you've discarded the bullet vibes, so don't let that deter you, especially if you're looking for a great deal.

 

Conclusion

These are all great options if money isn't easy to come by or if you're just trying to figure out if pegging is for you.

If these options are still too rich for your blood, you should also check out this DIY Scarf harness, which is a great option to use on the go.
Otherwise, we're big fans of the beautiful rope Harness by the great Artemisa FemmeCock.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Supreme Harness
Worldwide: Amazon

Rodeoh Strap-Ons
U.S. & Canada: SheVibe
U.K.: UberKinky

Tantus Harness kits
Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Spareparts Hardwear Strap-ons

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The Spareparts harnesses are the evolution of the traditional harness.
These futuristic harnesses for futuristic people are also the most comfortable and durable strap-ons you can buy today.

All models are outfitted with durable Elastic O-rings that will accommodate a large variety of dildos and they will all work with double or "strapless" dildos as well.

The material you will find on the SpareParts harnesses is also extremely comfortable, breathable and the material dries almost as fast as you wet it.

One of our favorite features is the hidden pockets on top and under the O-Ring meant to stash away some bullet vibrators.
Bullets secured in there are easy to trigger through the material. This way you won't have to dig in there every time you want to change speed.
So if you fancy a bit of vibration during play, you'll probably love those handy little pockets.

There's also a fabric separating the dildos and bullets from your skin that can be opened to accommodate any "Strapless"/ Double dildos you might want to use.

The Joque is their most stable and popular model. It's a jockstrap style harness that is very stable and perfect for vigorous play.

The brief-style Tomboi, Lingerie and Theo harnesses are a bit less stable but often considered more convenient since you can simply slip them on like normal underwear without having to deal with straps or anything like that.
It's also pretty easy to just hit the town wearing them like regular underwear, always ready for action.

The Tomboi also comes with an extra 3rd pocket on the side for condoms or extra bullet batteries.

The Lingerie Harness can be converted from a booty panty to more traditional underwear and comes with optional garter belts.
Let's just give the lingerie fans out there a moment to compose themselves.

Conclusion

If you're looking for the one harness to rule them all, the SpareParts HardWear gear is pretty hard to beat.

So whether you go with the very stable Joque or their convenient underwear-style harnesses, you'll be sure to go home with one of the best pegging strap-on you can get today.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Aslan Harnesses

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If you're more into the old-school cool of leather harnesses, we'd argue that the only ones you will ever need are the Aslan Harnesses.
They're simply some of the most comfortable and durable leather harnesses you will come by today.

We also love that Almost all their models can be converted from Jockstrap style to G-String style harnesses without much effort.
Want to give easy access to the good stuff? Switch to Jockstrap. 
Want a nice base to hold your "Strapless" dildos? Switch to G-String.
One pegging harness, all sorts of kinky possibilities.

These leather harnesses also come in all sorts of colors and we're big fans of their Prince themed purple harness.
So strap on the Purple Rain Avant dildo, put on your Raspberry beret and Get off! ( If you can't tell, Jim the Dildo Dealer is a big Prince fan ).

On the other hand, if you're quite the minimalist, they also offer a few cheaper options like the leather Commando and the simple harness which is made Nylon straps.
They're stable but not the most comfortable harnesses you will find in their collection, so wearing some underwear under them will probably help.

And If you like the Idea of "Strapless" dildos but never could find the perfect fit for you, you'll love their Double Up Dildo Cuffs.
It's essentially a dildo holder for the wearer that you can attach at the bottom of your strap-on.
Thanks to this add-on, you can attach any dildo or buttplug with a base and enjoy some penetration of your own.

Another Attachment that is worth a whole lot of praise is their Driver Pad, which acts like a Sili Saddle that can be secured onto your harness to protect your poor mons from abuse.

Conclusion

If you're all about that old school cool or you just love that BDSM swag, a great leather harness is a must. 
And if you go with Aslan, you'll be sure to get the best leather pegging strap-on money can buy.

Cheapest Places to buy:

U.S. & Canada: SheVibe
U.K.: UberKinky

 


Best Pegging Toys

 

Tantus Silk & Sport Dildos

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You might recognize these from cheap strap-on Tantus bundles.
Well here they are again and with plenty of reasons to back it up.

The Tantus silk dildos are simply some of the best pegging dildos for beginners.

They come in 3 very gradual, untextured and forgiving sizes, which is perfect whether you prefer small toys or if you want to work your way up to something larger.
And to make things even easier on debutants, they are flexible and come in a shiny frictionless silicone finish.

A lot of dudes out there are also going to appreciate that they all come in 2 gender neutral colors being black and purple.
So if you're tired of looking at pink and flesh colored dildos, you can thank us later.

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And once you're used to these, you should definitely check out the Sport Tantus dildo which shares tons of similarities with the Silk pegging dildos.

It's essentially the same toy with a curved and bulbous end, perfect for prostate ( & G-Spot ) stimulation as well as offering plenty of length for when you want to go deep!

Conclusion

These are some of the best beginner pegging dildos you can get your hands on today.

Of course, there are plenty of other great Tantus toys in their extensive library, so if you feel a bit more adventurous, you should definitely check these out as well.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Silk
Worldwide: SheVibe

Sport
Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Dilators and Star Dildo by Fuze

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It's kind of a surprise ( even to us ) that this little unknown company is all over this article. But if we'd have to guess, one of the higher-ups sure is versed in all things pegging.

Fuze offers a great set of dilators originally made for women with certain medical conditions as well as trans women going through sexual reassignment surgery.
But these dilators also double very well as gradual pegging dildos since they come adorned with a handy base.

The Fuze Dilators comes in 5 sizes, so they're even more gradual and forgiving than what Tantus offers with their Silk line.
They're also more tapered than the Tantus pegging dildos mentioned above. 

And while size 4 and 5 come with holes for bullet vibes, you won't get much out of them during pegging since these vibes tend to be easily triggered when in a harness.

Another caveat is that the larger models come with some pretty small bases, so unless you have a perfectly sized O-Ring for it, they might just slip out.
Of course, this could be easily fixed with a cheap Spareparts O-Ring Stabilizer.
Otherwise, to keep it simple, graduating to the Tantus Silk toys by the time you get to the bigger dilators is usually a great idea.

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On the other hand, the Fuze Star has none of these problems and comes with a large & strong suction cup base that that should be more comfortable to the wearer during pegging.
The suction cup is also great for solo practice when "sugar buns" isn't home to help out.

Sadly this great beginner pegging dildo only comes in one small size ( just about under an inch wide ), and we would love to see it have the same treatment as the Dilators.

All of the Fuze toys mentioned above all come with a silky finish.
And while they aren't as frictionless as the Tantus toys mentioned above, they are nowhere near as grippy as some of the other matte silicone toys on the market.
It's also nothing that a bit of extra lube won't fix.

Conclusion

You can never have too many beginner pegging dildos, and these are excellent ones at that. 

Of course, not everybody is starting out. So the next toys will be better if you're already accustomed to ye olde butt stuff.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Dilators
Worldwide: SheVibe

Star
Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Fuze & Wet for Her Clitoral Dildos

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If the strap-on wearer isn't too keen on penetration or just prefers good old clitoral stimulation, "strapless" dildos are probably the last thing they want to strap onto during a pegging session.

So if you felt left out in this land of abundant strapless dils, you can put those emotions aside since, as always, Jim the Dildo Dealer has your back.

The Fuze and Wet For Her Fusion dildos are meant to rub against the wearers' clitoris as they peg.
They are compatible with "strapless" / double dildo ready strap-ons like the Rodeoh, Aslan & Spareparts harnesses.

Both companies also offer plenty of different sizes and colors but there are some key differences.

The Fuze Dildos have non-realistic as well as realistic options and they come with a socket for a bullet vibe ( perfect for the great Tango ) that aligns perfectly with the wearers' clitoris.

The Wet for her Fusion dildos are more minimalistic & they offer a bit fewer choices in terms of sizes and colors. They also don't come with a bullet hole either.
But you will find their shape to be even less phallic than the non-realistic options from Fuze.

If you don't mind Realistic dildos, the Mustang Royale by Vixen Creations is probably the most comfortable one of the bunch. It comes in 3 realistic colors and you'll also benefit from their amazing dual density silicone.

Conclusion

These dildos are perfect options for people who would like a "Strapless" dildo alternative for strap-on wearers that prefer clitoral stimulation over penetration during pegging.

Just keep in mind that if direct and/or vigorous pressure is uncomfortable for your clitoris, you're probably better off using the Sili Saddle instead.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Fuze
Worldwide: SheVibe

Wet for her
Worldwide: SheVibe

 

"Strapless"/ Double Dildos

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As you may have noticed, up to this point, every time we've written "Strapless" it was never without quotation marks.

That's because we can't stress enough that these are NOT made to be used without a strap-on.

While some really powerful kegel kung fu masters might be able to hold onto these with only the strength of their own vaginal walls, most of us puny humans won't be able to achieve such feats. Especially when things get wet and slippery!

This doesn't mean these toys aren't great, quite the opposite. It only means that they're victims of consistent false advertising.

The real thrill of these double dildos is that they provide internal stimulation to both the wearer and the receiver. So if you'd like some penetration of your own during your pegging sessions, these are well worth considering.
It's also the only type of strap-on dildos that gives that kind of instant feedback during play.

Of course, if you don't enjoy a ton of pressure on your G-Spot, these probably won't do it for you.

Also, most of the models offered come with some pretty lackluster vibrators.
So we highly suggest investing in something like the powerful Tango by We-Vibe so the vibrations actually do something instead of being dampened by all that silicone.

Now that the disclaimers are out of the way, here are some of the most popular models:

 

Feeldoe/Realdoe by Tantus

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If you've heard about "Strapless" dildos, chances are you know about the Feeldoes & Realdoes.
All models are rather rigid, so if hard toys aren't your thing, you might have to consider the other toys below.

The Feeldoes are non-realistic and have a shiny finish that offers almost no friction during play.

The Realdoes, on the other hand, are a realistic looking alternative with a matte finish that feels soft to the touch. The matte texture will also cause more drag, so be sure to use extra lube while pegging.

Both models come in 4 sizes (being the Classic, the Slim, the Stout, & the More which is extra long) and they offer models with bullet vibes for extra stimulation. 
Just ditch the vibes and get something stronger if you want to feel anything!

 

Fun Factory Share & Sharevibe

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These Fun Factory toys are some of the most refined looking strapless dildos we've ever seen.
They all come with a silky smooth matte finish, so keep some extra lube close if you want to avoid drag.

Fun Factory's options are also less rigid than the Feeldoes & Realdoes so it's easier to hit all sorts of different angles while going down to plow town.
This can be a bit of a problem with the original Share since it has a tendency of dangling down when not supported. But it shouldn't be that much of an issue when worn with a harness.
It also has been fixed with Sharevibe's new improved shape.

One thing worth considering is that the G-Spot end for the wearer is much larger than most other "Strapless" bulbs.
So if girth is a problem for the lady in the relationship, this might not be the best option.
Otherwise, if intense G-Spot stimulation is her thing, she will feel right at home.

On the other hand, the ShareVibe is even less phallic than the Original, and has a pretty decent Vibe included that is rechargeable and submersible under water.
Most importantly, the placement of the bullet vibe hole aligns perfectly with the wearers' clitoris.

The big caveat is that the bullet vibe is much larger than your standard bullet.
So you won't be able to fit the great rumbly Tango inside of your toy if you ever need an upgrade.

 

Tango by Fuze

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The Tango has a lot in common with the Sharevibe, it has a similar shape and Bullet placement ( no bullet included this time ) but, this time around, the G-Spot Bulb is much smaller. So it is perfect for a wearer who isn't all about that girth.

Most importantly, as opposed to the Sharevibe, it is compatible with regular bullets as well as the amazing Tango Vibe... which probably explains the name of this double dildo, now that I think about it. 

It's also not too rigid and not too soft, so if one of you prefers hard and the other soft, this is the perfect compromise.
And compromise is at the center of every healthy relationship!

 

Vixen Creations' Nexus

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Regular readers know we're suckers for Vixen Creations' toys and these are no exception.

They are the squishiest double dildos on this list.
This means you can hit all sorts of crazy positions without straining your bits too much and the middle of the toy acts a bit like a Sili Saddle, preventing mons and tailbones to collide in a catastrophic fashion.

The insertable end meant for the wearer is also slimmer than any other G-Spot Bulbs on this entry.

They come in 3 different sizes with the first two being the Unrealistic Junior and Senior.
The last size is the Peacemaker which sports a realistic and large 2-inch dildo on the receiving end. This large realistic option also comes in Caramel, Vanilla, and Chocolate.
So if you guys dig big toys, well, you're welcome.

 

Conclusion

While these toys aren't really meant to be used without strap-ons, they are solid options for strap-on wielders that crave a bit of penetration as well.

If you were looking for more traditional double-ended dildos, the Dorcel ( 16 inches ) and the Ruse by Blush ( 18 inches ) are some of the only body-safe options we're aware of.
Otherwise, the double dildo connector for Vac-U-Lock toys is another great option if you want to customize each other's ends to your liking.

Cheapest Places to buy:

Feeldoe/Realdoe
Worldwide: Tantus

Share/Sharevibe
U.S. & Canada: SheVibe
U.K.: LoveHoney

Tango
Worldwide: SheVibe

Nexus
Worldwide: SheVibe

 

New York Toy Collective Pack-N-Play Dildos

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Now here's another indy company that has made its way into our cold, cold hearts.
Sex positive and offering all sorts of great appendages for Trans men, almost anyone can enjoy their quality products. 

Proud owners of G-Spots and Prostates have all fallen in love with their pack and play toys for their pronounced heads known to reduce most people into puddles of their former selves.
It also helps that the articulated metal spine coupled with the squishy silicone exterior essentially turn these toys into excellent dual-density toys.

While Pack & Play Dildos are mostly meant to be worn by Trans Men, this doesn't limit any cisgender folks & trans women to use them either.
With posable shafts that you can tuck away in your pants, this feature can also be used to get the perfect angle for penetration.

Another great selling point is that they offer a multitude of gorgeous colors for their toys. So whether you're looking for natural skin tones or beautiful & colorful options, there's bound to be something for you.

Conclusion

New York toy collective offers some amazing g-spotting & pegging dildos.
And if you buy from them, you get to support an awesome independent, sex-positive, and queer-friendly company. 

Cheapest Places to buy:

Worldwide: SheVibe

 

Large Sex Toys

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For the dudes who like to take it a step further with either girth or length, large sex toys are almost mandatory.

Sadly, body-safe large toys are pretty hard to come by, with porous and toxic materials dominating the market.
So we've compiled a list of the best large strap-on compatible toys just for you, beloved readers!

Just keep in mind that the larger dildos in this list probably won't fit the Spareparts and Rodeoh harnesses.
So you're better off going with a traditional strap-on system and get the right size of O-Rings for these large toys.

So here are some of the highlights:

 

Large Tantus Toys

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While Tantus doesn't specialize in huge toys, they still offer some solid and affordable options.

Tantus also has more visually appealing and minimalistic designs compared to the competition. A nice change when it comes to large sex toys.

 

Large Vixskin Dildos by Vixen Creations

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Vixskin is one of our favorite dual density combos.
Sadly there's isn't much to pick from in terms or large dildos but what is offered is still pretty solid.

Another big plus is that, while these toys will look very big in use, they offer plenty of squish, so they'll be less intense than a lot of larger toys. 

 

Split Peaches

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Sadly, Minimalistic, cute or whimsical isn't what you're usually expecting from large sex toys.

This is what makes Split Peaches so unique in the land of size queens and large insertions.

Every single toy comes in many sizes, from beginner to very large and they also offer a ton of beautiful color choices as well.

 

SquarePegToys®

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SquarePegToys® is not only one of the most innovative companies on this list, but they also offer some of the largest silicone toys you can find today.

So whether you're looking for a huge dildo, long depth exploration tools, fisting toys or even a wagging tail butt plug, they've got you covered.

And you'll get to pick between either their super squishy and gorgeous bronze or graphite silicone or their firmer black silicone, with some toys offering more traditional colors as well.

Not all their toys are strap-on compatible though, so make sure the toy has a base or balls before buying.

 

Mr. Hankey

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On top of selling traditional large realistic dildos, they also hold plenty of fantasy options that would give Bad Dragon penis envy.

And if you're looking for large sex toys, they offer some of the largest silicone toys you will ever find.

Another big plus is that almost all their toys come with Vac-U-Lock holes.
And when coupled with this great Vac-U-Lock harness made specifically for large toys, you'll be sure to get the most stable large toy pegging experience you can get.

 

Conclusion

For guys who enjoy large sex toys during pegging but don't want to risk buying toxic dildos, these should do nicely.

Just make sure you have the right size of O-Rings on hand before strapping these on.

Cheapest Places to buy:

There's a lot of toys represented here. Click through the links in the entry itself to find out about the best places to buy!

 

Author Details
Founder & Editor Tabooless

Jimmy is a veteran sex shop worker and currently a freelance illustrator & head honcho at Tabooless.net.

In his spare time, he enjoys traveling, breakfast for every meal, and shooting the shit with his kitty cat.

His goal is to create a better world by making sure no naughty bits are left behind.

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