What you REALLY Want & The Dark Side of Fetishization
Fetishes aren't always totally harmless. Depending on how you indulge, they can also be very dehumanizing and damaging to others.
Relationships
Legend of the Lost Libido: Things to Consider & Try When Sex Gets Boring
Sexual rejection hurts. But what if we’re the ones doing the rejecting? Read on if you've lost ( or never found ) your libido!
Nothing Breaks Like a Heart: How To Survive Emotional & Sexual Rejection
Rejection hurts. But let’s take a note from science & DBT and treat these rejection pains like real physical wounds.
The Kinkster’s Guide To Surviving a Threesome
It’s happening. But how the heck do you even begin to plan for this? Zack Zoetic, your Trans Agony Uncle extraordinaire is here to help!
The Dos and Don’ts of Hooking up With Trans People
This week, your favorite Trans Agony Uncle will walk you through hooking up with a trans cutie, without making a massive ass out of yourself!
Demisexuality 101: What’s lust got to do with it?
For demisexual, it’s a sigh of relief to have a word and a community that matches your experiences. For non-demisexual folks, it’s a little more confusing.
Why Most Straight Men Completely Avoid Their Prostates
Ask the average straight man to describe the scope of his anal explorations and you'll find that most have never met their very own prostates. Why is that?
The Ins and Outs of Public Sex: How, Why, and Where to Indulge
No one wants to get in trouble with the law because of their sexual kink. So read on to know how to indulge in this risky yet thrilling past time safely!
Apart Together: Staying Sexually Connected During the Quarantine
If you’re struggling to connect with your partner during these physically abstinent times, I’ve devised a few exciting ways to bridge that gap!
What’s at the Core of Your Kinks? Everything you need to know about CEF
Most are aware of the 5 Love Languages. CEF is similar but for erotic experiences. Read on to learn how this concept can dramatically improve your sex life.
Tell Me What You Want: How to Talk your Way to a More Fulfilling Sex Life
We have to communicate what we want one way or another, and sometimes the best way to do that is to, in the words of the great Dan Savage, USE YOUR WORDS.
Sexual Services for the Disabled: When Law goes Against Human Rights
In the way we treat the disabled, we seem to be pretty on par in consideration of their needs. But when it comes to sex, their needs often go unnoticed.
Fear & Avoidance in Tinder Land: A Survival Guide for the Sexually Avoidant
What's the difference between asexuality and sexual avoidance? And what should you do if you want to conquer your fear of sexual intimacy?
What You Say When You Don’t Say A Thing: A Guide to Nonverbal Intimacy
Nonverbal cues make up over 60% of the communication pie. Where consent is concerned, we want as much of that pie as possible!
Loving Like it’s 1999: Dating for the Appless Among Us
Maybe it’s time to make dating without the aid of apps the new retro-cool thing. Everything else from the 90s has been back for ages, so why not dating?