An Interview with Mayaji, A Modern Sexual Shaman
Among Mayaji's many skills and trades is tantric sex work and she was kind enough to speak with me about her experiences in that role.
Stories
What you REALLY Want & The Dark Side of Fetishization
Fetishes aren't always totally harmless. Depending on how you indulge, they can also be very dehumanizing and damaging to others.
Frigging & Fucking! The Kinky Origins of Fuck’s Milder Sibling
When we hear someone use ‘frig’ in place of fuck, we tend to assume they must be trying to be polite. But it wasn’t always so!
Trans Dystopia Is Now: The True Cost of the New Trans Bills
It is an agonizing time for trans people. As of now, there are over 492 bills around our right to exist. So where do we go from here?
An Exploration in Rule 34: Warily Reviewing Classic Porn Parodies
Here's an experiment: As a non-fan, I picked a selection of infamous porn parodies & watched them. Did they change my mind? Time to find out!
Polyamory as a Tool for Self-Discovery and Growth
Polyamory can be incredibly challenging. So let me offer some tips for how to use this lifestyle as a tool for self-discovery & growth!
This or That? Challenging the Limiting Gender Binary
We seem to be fixated on clearly defining people, but people are not all that clearly definable. So how do we break out of gender Jail?
Revenge of the Mystery Sex Chair (Everyone Loves a Sequel)
Readers, you’ve wanted to know more about the mystery vintage sex chair. You can finally stop e-mailing us, the sequel is here!
What the Hell Is Ecosexuality & Why You Should Care
We can all agree that the Earth needs some love. That's exactly why we're doing a deep dive on ecosexuality, a radical eco-activism movement!
Pay Per View: The Real Cost of being a Professional Porn Watcher
As a content formatter for PornHub, the next months would end up being the most entertaining, traumatic, and mind-bending times in my career.
The Link Between Cross-dressing, Sissy Play & the Queer Community
How does crossdressing relate to the LGBTQIA+ community? Gender and sex was always a huge chaotic pile, but let's try to sort this one out!
I Did Strip Karaoke And Lived To Tell The Tale
I recently gave Strip Karaoke a try at the Montreal-based "Bareoke" event and it opened my eyes in a way I hadn’t expected!
What’s In A Name? Reviewing 4 Celebrity-Endorsed Sex Toys
Dakota Johnson, Demi Lovato, Cara DeLevigne, & Lily Allen have all endorsed sex toys. So I've tried them all to see if they're worth the hype!
7 Things Learned Watching Netflix’s Love Is Blind
After watching two whole seasons of Netflix’s reality show "Love Is Blind", let's say that I’ve learned a few things worth exploring...
Road to Top Surgery: What to Expect & Survival Tips
I recently hit a major transition milestone: I got top surgery! So here are a few tips I’ve learned along my own top surgery journey.