Puppy Love: A Beginner’s Guide to Pup Play & Gear
Curious about puppy play? This guide should definitely help you to start exploring and developing your idea of what you want it to be for yourself!...
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Gender Euphoria & Why You Don’t Need Dysphoria to be Trans
Here's a radical idea: You can be trans without having gender dysphoria. Heck, trans folks can even have something called “gender euphoria” instead!...
This Misunderstood Affliction Called Sex Addiction
To the detriment of the individual & those around them, we're quick to jump to conclusions when it comes to sex addicts. Here's the truth behind the stigma....
What’s at the Core of Your Kinks? Everything you need to know about CEF
Most are aware of the 5 Love Languages. CEF is similar but for erotic experiences. Read on to learn how this concept can dramatically improve your sex life. ...
Tell Me What You Want: How to Talk your Way to a More Fulfilling Sex Life
We have to communicate what we want one way or another, and sometimes the best way to do that is to, in the words of the great Dan Savage, USE YOUR WORDS....
Sexual Services for the Disabled: When Law goes Against Human Rights
In the way we treat the disabled, we seem to be pretty on par in consideration of their needs. But when it comes to sex, their needs often go unnoticed....
A Beginner’s Guide to Safe Sex Work in the Age of the Internet
If you come prepared, online sex work can be a pretty safe alternative to its in-person counterpart. These guidelines should get you well on your way!...
Netflix’s Sex Education: Cumming of Age Never Felt so Good
Is Netflix's Sex Education worth your time? Read on to find out why sex advice from a teenage virgin might just be what the doctor ordered....
Fear & Avoidance in Tinder Land: A Survival Guide for the Sexually Avoidant
What's the difference between asexuality and sexual avoidance? And what should you do if you want to conquer your fear of sexual intimacy?...
What You Say When You Don’t Say A Thing: A Guide to Nonverbal Intimacy
Nonverbal cues make up over 60% of the communication pie. Where consent is concerned, we want as much of that pie as possible!...
Detransitioners Aren’t The Enemy ( And Why You Might Be )
With detransition either being ignored by the trans community or used as a weapon against them, detransitioners are sadly often caught in the crossfire....
Not All Monsters: The Inconvenient Truth About Non-Offending Pedophiles
The challenging reality of Virtuous pedophiles. Individuals who see their desires as an unfortunate orientation, making a conscious effort not to offend....
10 Reasons Why Outlander does TV Sex Better than Most Other Shows
You may have heard from adoring fans and nay-sayers alike that Outlander is basically soft-core porn, and I would say that doesn’t quite do it justice....
The Polyamorous Guide to Talking Yourself Out of a Jealousy Attack
Polyamory can be like getting a Ph.D. in jealousy management. But what can you find yourself in the middle of a jealousy attack? ...
Loving Like it’s 1999: Dating for the Appless Among Us
Maybe it’s time to make dating without the aid of apps the new retro-cool thing. Everything else from the 90s has been back for ages, so why not dating?...
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Sex Toys
Puppy Love: A Beginner’s Guide to Pup Play & Gear
Curious about puppy play? This guide should definitely help you to start exploring and developing your idea of what you want it to be for yourself!...
The Guy-Guide: Troubleshooting FTM/FTX Sexual Issues and Kinks
In the first article, we discussed the various everyday issues that transmasculine folks can encounter. Now let's cover the fun stuff... The sex stuff!...
The 8 Best Anal Beads For The Butt Connoisseurs
With anal beads, there are a ton of ways to turn a potentially pleasurable experience into a living nightmare. But not if we have something to say about it!...
The 3 Sex Toys Veteran Reviewers Would Bring On A Desert Island
13 Sex Toy Reviewers are stranded on an island after a flight to a convention takes a turn for the worst. These are the 3 toys they would save and why....
The Magic Wand Guide: Model Comparisons, Accessories & Alternatives
In this article, we will discuss the history, the differences between models, accessories, as well as the alternatives to the legendary Magic Wand....
Jim The Dildo Dealer’s Big Bad Dildo Guide
Hard time deciding on the perfect dil? By the end of this article, you should be up to speed with everything you need to know to make an informed decision. ...
10 Kinky Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas That Put Rose Petals To Shame
Do we really need another article suggesting us to get rose petals and candles to get our significant other in the mood on valentines day?...
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Gender Euphoria & Why You Don’t Need Dysphoria to be Trans
Here's a radical idea: You can be trans without having gender dysphoria. Heck, trans folks can even have something called “gender euphoria” instead!...
Detransitioners Aren’t The Enemy ( And Why You Might Be )
With detransition either being ignored by the trans community or used as a weapon against them, detransitioners are sadly often caught in the crossfire....
How to Survive the Never-Ending Cycle of Coming Out
Coming out is meant to be an activity to reclaim your public image. But people often underestimate how repetitive coming out can be. ...
Transitioning Isn’t The End… It’s the Beginning
How did I get here? How hard have I worked to get to this point. Wasn’t transitioning supposed to keep me from feeling this way?...
Questions You Were Too Afraid to Ask Trans People (But I’ll Bravely Answer)
In this callout culture, It's easy to scare off well-meaning curious folks. So in an effort to turn the tides, I'll answer all your most burning questions!...
Not All Gays Are Welcome: Where Can We Go & What It Could Be
At most queer events, it feels like queer women are welcome, but the spaces are rarely comfortable enough for us to actually flirt and hook up....
Never Too Late: Women Who Fall in Love with Women in their 30s and Beyond
Women are coming out and finding partners later in life — and it’s a nice reminder that it’s never too late to live the life that will make you happiest....
Masculinity & The Problem With Being Desired
As opposed to women, there is an absence of healthy examples of masculine sensuality. But for most men, this is just the tip of the Iceberg. ...
Queer Yet Feeling Like An Outsider Within the LGBTQ+ Community.
Why would someone whose sexual or gender identity fitting the profile of LGBTQ+ choose to dissociate themselves entirely from the community?...
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