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Best Latex Clothing, Leather, & BDSM Lingerie for Men & Women

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Fetish wear has a place whether you’re the most vanilla of folks, a complete gimp, or anyone in between.

So whether you’re looking for some light BDSM lingerie, sensory-enhancing latex clothing, or hot leather gear, man or woman, you’re in the right place!

To cover most common fetish wear kinks we’ll also be discussing beautiful lingerie and leather strap-ons that won’t cramp your style as well as jock wear and pup play gear. So I’m sure you won’t feel left out, no matter what tickles you!

Now if you’re looking for smaller pieces of bondage & BDSM wear like chokers and restraints, make sure you check out our dedicated article on the subject.

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Off-the-rack & made-to-measure latex clothing

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Latex Clothing

Latex Clothing & latex Lingerie for latex bondage

There’s something undeniably hot about latex clothing ( also known as rubber when thicker or in the gay male scene ). 

While it’s hard to put your finger on why it became so iconic and beloved, my bet is on the fact that it offers a total sensory experience to its users and participants.

The way it hugs the body and presents it to others in its best shiny light. The sounds accompanied with every motion, and the light pressure all over your skin.

What’s more, touching your second skin almost feels like you’re on MDMA in the way it enhances the sensations of touch. The light latex bondage offered here is also a small form of restraint, forcing you to slow down and fully be engulfed in the moment.

There’s also a clear aesthetic that’s just sinful in the best ways, which is a great way to set the mood for a wild night.

For a full-body catsuit, made-to-measure is really the only way to go, which can easily take up to 6 months to receive. But for anything else, off-the-rack options are your best bet!

The thinnest latex I would go for is .25mm. It’s light and will bend easier with the body, at the price of being more fragile. Anything thinner than this won’t be durable enough to justify the price.

On the other hand, .75mm is more restrictive, tight, and durable while still being wearable. Anything in between these two thicknesses should be perfect depending on your needs!

Stockroom’s in-house Syren line is one of the best off-the-rack options when it comes to latex wear.

They have beautiful hand-made pieces for both men & women ranging from full-on dresses to smaller pieces latex lingerie.

Hell, these fine folks even designed garments for Batman and Catwoman, for crying out loud! And that’s where half of people’s latex fetishes come from, from my calculations.

Mr-S-Leather’s Rubber garments are sadly strictly for men. But what’s on offer here is quite amazing.

Mr-S took their leather expertise and transferred to latex clothing flawlessly.

Their thick rubber latex and strong bonding makes these garments super durable too, which is perfect for dudes who like to go extra hard in the paint!

If you are looking for made-to-measure full-body latex catsuits and don’t mind long waiting times your best sources are definitely Libidex or LatexCatfish if you’re looking for something cheaper ( but with extra long wait times ).

They’ve been leaders in the industry for the longest time, so they’re absolutely worth a look if you’re looking to get fully gimped out!

Just keep in mind that you’re better off going thicker ( .44mm to .75mm is a good sweet spot ) with catsuits as they are more likely to tear. 

Latex Clothing Care & Clean Up

For cleaning, buy yourself a bottle of Viviclean, as household products come with too large a margin of error, which could ruin your beautiful fetish wear.

  • As soon as you take off your latex clothing, rinse in warm water ( not so hot its uncomfortable on the skin ) and lay out to dry on a drying rack with the outside of the clothing facing out overnight.
  • Once dry, squirt some Viviclean ( follow the ratios on the bottle ) in a bucket or sink filled with hot water.
  • One by one introduce your latex clothing, swirling them and handwashing them in the water.
  • Now flip every garment inside out and repeat the above step.
  • If the water gets pretty dirty, empty out the liquids, refill with water and Viviclean, and continue cleaning until it only leaves clean water.
  • Empty the water and this time only fill with hot water and no Viviclean and give each item a good rinse individually and leave them inside out on the drying rack.

It is time to move to shining! Grab a bottle of Vivishine and get right to it! There’s no need to wait for the garments to dry here as it’ll waste time and collect dust.

  • Fill your container with warm water again, squirt just a few drops of Vivishine in.
  • By now your garments should be SUPER sticky, so swish them in the water until the stickiness turns into slipperiness.
  • If it’s slippy enough to allow it, turn the latex clothing inside out again, leaving the outside facing out again and repeat the above step on the outside.
  • Once everything is slippery and shiny again, just leave it on the drying rack one final time! 
  • If done properly, you should not need a dressing aid to put the items back onto yourself once the time comes to gear back up! If not, just get yourself some Vividress silicone to avoid any incompatibilities with your garments.

Lastly, here’s how to properly store Latex clothing:

  • Store your garments in plastic containers as opposed to hanging them as this could deform them over time. It’s ok if your clothing touch.
  • Either leave the lids slightly cracked open, or optimally, drill 2-4 holes into it to let them breathe.
  • Every couple of months, take your clothing out and refold them so the fold lines change spots every now and then.
  • Twice a year, if you don’t wear them at all, put your latex clothing through a full wash cycle to keep them fresh and clean the container as well.

 

Leather Lingerie & Gear

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Gay biker bars in the 1950s may have started the leather fetish, but today this love for leather has gone mainstream and knows no gender or sexual preference!

Verdict: Leather is hot, there’s no doubt about it.

Other than looking sexy as fuck, leather gear has the advantage of being the most durable material on this article.

This makes it a perfect material for especially wild nights, sturdy restraints, or for those who like to stretch their investments into the future.

Well-taken care of leather wear will not only last forever but it’ll only gain character with time.

Mr-S-Leather is basically THE SPOT if you’re a man who’s looking for some leather fetish wear.

Everything here is made in house by true veterans of the craft.

It doesn’t matter if you’re just looking for a dope harness for some leather bondage, a leather kilt for easy access, or the most stylish motorcycle jacket good enough for the open road but even better at opening legs.

If you can imagine it, they make it, and probably better than anyone!

The Stockroom is a good place to look especially if you’re a woman who’s feeling a little left out from the world of leather.

The harnesses, corsets & waist cuffs on offer here are sexy beyond belief and will highlight your feminine form in a way that’ll be almost impossible to resist!

Plus, Stockroom is one of the oldest fetish stores around, so you can absolutely trust them!

Bijoux Indiscrets is another great option for women.

But this time around these are more decorative pieces than something you could attach a rope to.

These are so beautiful and subtle enough that they can also be easily worn while out and about over your clothing as a fashion statement that slightly hints at your wilder side.

Leather Care & Clean Up

If your leather gets a little dirty, a quick wipe with a damp cloth should be enough. Upholstery wipes is another great thing to have handy in those situations.

Just make sure to properly dry your leather lingerie and garments after doing any of this to avoid mold from forming. 

If your leather gets extra dirty, Saddle Soap will be your best friend. Brush it on with a wet soft-bristled brush in circular motions and ensure not to miss folds and creases. With a dry cloth, wipe any excess soap and liquids.

After any deep cleaning, it is important to condition your leather to restore the healthy oils leather needs to stay as new.

To condition leather, whether it’s post-clean-up or just because your leather is starting to look dry and/or discolored, you will need black dubbin if your leather is black and discolored as well as 4-way leather care.

To restore coloration in specific spots, start with the Dubbin and rub it into the leather, and then wipe off any excess residue left from the process. Once dry, you can buff the leather with a soft dry cloth to restore the shine of your piece.

If your leather isn’t discolored, move on to the next step directly.

Now follow the instructions on your leather care product to condition the leather. Just be careful not to put too much at one time and soak through the leather. You can always layer up if the leather needs more care.

 

BDSM Lingerie

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Alright, let me be honest, this entry is a bit of a catch-all for “I wanna dress sexy with a BDSM vibe, but latex and leather isn’t the only thing around”.

I don’t know if you know, but doms aren’t always leather-clad and subs aren’t all rocking full gimp regalia. Variety is the spice of life, if BDSM wasn’t enough of an indicator for you!

Playful Promises is one of my favorite spots to shop women’s BDSM lingerie ( or just plain lingerie, really ) as they hold a lot of the best brands out there.

Wolf & Whistle, Thistle & Spire, Regalia, Bettie Page Lingerie, Hustler, and of course, their in-house brand, just to name a few!

If you want to stay with the BDSM vibes, head over to their erotic lingerie section and just buy everything! If you don’t know where to start, I’m a huge fan of Regalia’s decorative PVC body harnesses & the vintage BDSM looks of Bettie Page lingerie, but that’s just me!

 

Andrew Christian & AD Fetish are a tie for me when it comes to male lingerie.

If you’re looking for decorative harnesses, underwear that leaves little to the imagination, and sexy-as-hell club wear, they have you covered.

AD Fetish also makes a pretty cool latex clothing alternative labeled “Rub” ( seen above ), which is a less fussy, fragile, and hard-to-maintain version of latex. It still offers a similar look and feel but since it isn’t latex, it allows them to mix & combine materials you wouldn’t usually find on those garments. Real cool stuff, if you ask me!

While they are typically gay brands, straight dudes should not dismiss them because, let me tell you, no one does male sexiness better than the boys! 

Agent Provocateur & Mariemur are amazing high-end women’s options for the classiest BDSM lingerie aficionados.

That goes without saying that it’s pricier than the above alternatives. But the stuff offered here borders on high fashion.

Mariemur offers elevated takes on leather, latex, and traditional lingerie, while Agent Provocateur sticks with the realm of traditional lingerie, but with a mix of goth and retro cabaret aesthetics!

If you can afford it, pick your poison and never look back!

 

Leather & Lingerie Strap-Ons

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Are you a dominatrix pegging extraordinaire? Are you a Sapphic harness pro with a penchant for the good things in life? Or maybe you’re a trans masculine fella who’s looking to match their style to their play-prosthetic game?

Well, you’ve got to ditch your crappy PVC harness with backpack straps and get yourself a sinfully sexy strap-on harness my friend! 

Most of the non-leather harnesses here are also super easy to wear under your clothes like regular underwear so it’s super convenient on a night out!

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Aslan Leather makes some of the best leather strap-on harnesses with that traditional BDSM look you’re all looking for.

They’re just as usable and stable as they are beautiful, so there’s no compromises here.

Plus, if you’re a vegan, they also have great vegan leather options!

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Strap-On-Me on the other hand focuses on making the biggest variety of beautiful feminine lingerie strap-ons. 

Strap one of these bad boys on and never again will your strap-on clash with the rest of your beautiful lingerie sets! Oh yeah, and they also make a nice range of garter belt-compatible harnesses!

Best Pegging harness spareparts hardwear review

Spareparts Hardwear are famous for their quick drying and stable non-leather harnesses with hidden pockets for condoms, vibes, etc.

But some tend to forget that their underwear & lingerie harnesses are just as awesome as their flagship strap-ons. 

While limited there are great options for both tomboys, trans men, and the most femme of folks ( garter belt compatible too )! And these harnesses are the most stable on this list along with Aslan’s!

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Rodeoh is like heaven for tomboys and trans-masculine folks.

They have a nice selection of boxer briefs and traditional masculine underwear for all your strap-on needs!

So whether you’re looking for a gender-affirming play-prosthetic harness, or you’re all about a nice touch of gender-bending while doing your pegging duties, Rodeoh has your back!

 

 

Jock and Sportswear

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More of a gay male fetish, the whole jock thing is still quite easy to understand to the uninformed. 

It’s actually hard not to fantasize about open-ass jockstraps, form-fitting singlets, changing room shenanigans ( I mean, they get quite homoerotic IRL without having any gays involved! ), or giving that jocky homophobic bully a piece of your mind ( and piece! ).

So yeah, it’s a huge common fetish, which means, lucky for you, you have a ton of great choices in that department!

Mr-S-Leather is a great one-stop shop for the sports fetish genre.

Most big brands are here, Cellblock13, Nastypig, Sk8erboy, Code22, as well as their in-house stuff. Just head over the the sports section and make all your jock dreams come true!

AD Fetish you won’t find on Mr-S, but they’re definitely worth a look!

AD Fetish’s entire catalog comes with a very masculine sportswear flavor, which is awesome because here you’ll find jock-style options to items that aren’t usually blended with that genre. 

They still offer plenty of the classics like singlets and jockstraps, but they also make interesting hybrids like sporty harnesses, and jock rub clothing reminiscent of latex/rubber.

Andrew Christian is also worth a mention since they have their own take on the jock stuff.  

Again, you’ll find all your classic sportswear here, but also interesting blends between sport and club/festival wear. Many of their options are also very twink-friendly, as opposed to the strictly hypermasculine stuff sold by AD.

 

Hoods

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Hoods are awesome for many reasons.

They can be a great way to do BDSM sensory deprivation (think blindfolds, but for most of your senses). They’re also beloved for keeping anonymity at a play party or BDSM event. Or simply a great way to show your subservience to your dom, by handing your independence completely over to them. 

These are also THE way to complete the gimp outfit. Just pick your favorite material for your body, and just find a hood to match that material and you’re set!

Mr-S-Leather makes the best leather hoods, there’s just no real competition here really.

There are plenty of options here, with full sensory deprivation hoods, modular hoods where you can selectively free or restrain senses, gag hoods, pee fetish hoods, you name it.

They also make hoods in all the other materials you might want, like Latex/rubber, neoprene, etc. So no matter what you need to match your outfit, chances are they’ll have it!

The Stockroom is a great spot for more affordable options or feminine decorative hoods.

They also have some pretty cool premium styles as well.

While not as extensive as Mr-S, they have a nice range of options and materials to pick from too!

 

Puppy gear

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There’s nothing more BDSM than making someone your bitch and there’s no better way to make someone your bitch… than actually making them your bitch!

It’s an unexpectedly common fetish that only has gone up in popularity as of late, so we just had to cover it!

Mr-S-Leather to no one’s surprise, is back for this entry! 

I mean, Pup Play literally has its own section on this site, so you know they’re serious. And you already know they take their leather seriously, so you’re in for a treat. 

There’s absolutely everything you might need here ( and more ) from masks, to paw restraints, and knee pads. Everything here is made in-house and is of the upmost quality, which you should know by now by the end of this article!

You can even get your plug or show tails here as they also sell my top pick for those ( more on them below ) as well as harnesses to hold your show tails.

The Stockroom again is a great spot for some affordable options.

I also like their alternative designs for pup masks and they also hold cute feminine alternatives for the masks as well.

I’m also a fan of their take on paw restraints, which you should definitely take a look at if you’d like more variety than what Mr-S offers.

Oxballs & SquarePegToys simply make the best pup-play tails.

The colorways here are both gorgeous and they are made of a silicone rigid enough to keep your tail happily pointing towards the sky but squishy enough to waggle around as you move.

You have two options here, tail plugs, which are perfect for anal lovers, and show tails which you wear on a harness instead. These are pretty sweet even if you’re into anal as they land in a slightly more natural spot!