Demisexuality 101: What’s lust got to do with it?
For demisexual, it’s a sigh of relief to have a word and a community that matches your experiences. For non-demisexual folks, it’s a little more confusing.
Zack Zoetic
A Dick Worth the Pick: A Review of Emisil’s ER01
The Emisil ER01 is a state of the art prosthetic penis meant for packing and playing. This week, your favorite trans agony uncle puts it to the test!
Ministry of Bigotry: A Primer on Transphobic Logic & the JK Rowling Scandal
Wingardium Levio— oh no you didn’t! JK Rowling doubled down on her transphobic comments. While disappointing, it does reveal a lot about transphobic logic.
Life After Transition: 3 Unexpected Differences Living as a Man
Nothing could have prepared me for the differences between being perceived as a woman in society to being seen as a man, especially as a queer man.
5 Niche WTF Toys and their Reasons for Existing
For every one person that finds generic teacher-student roleplay to be a thrilling fantasy, there’s at least 5 more who’s tastes border taboo or impossible.
Apart Together: Staying Sexually Connected During the Quarantine
If you’re struggling to connect with your partner during these physically abstinent times, I’ve devised a few exciting ways to bridge that gap!
Gender Euphoria & Why You Don’t Need Dysphoria to be Trans
Here's a radical idea: You can be trans without having gender dysphoria. Heck, trans folks can even have something called “gender euphoria” instead!
What’s at the Core of Your Kinks? Everything you need to know about CEF
Most are aware of the 5 Love Languages. CEF is similar but for erotic experiences. Read on to learn how this concept can dramatically improve your sex life.
Fear & Avoidance in Tinder Land: A Survival Guide for the Sexually Avoidant
What's the difference between asexuality and sexual avoidance? And what should you do if you want to conquer your fear of sexual intimacy?
Detransitioners Aren’t The Enemy ( And Why You Might Be )
With detransition either being ignored by the trans community or used as a weapon against them, detransitioners are sadly often caught in the crossfire.
The Polyamorous Guide to Talking Yourself Out of a Jealousy Attack
Polyamory can be like getting a Ph.D. in jealousy management. But what can you find yourself in the middle of a jealousy attack?
How to Survive the Never-Ending Cycle of Coming Out
Coming out is meant to be an activity to reclaim your public image. But people often underestimate how repetitive coming out can be.
Transitioning Isn’t The End… It’s the Beginning
How did I get here? How hard have I worked to get to this point. Wasn’t transitioning supposed to keep me from feeling this way?
Questions You Were Too Afraid to Ask Trans People (But I’ll Bravely Answer)
In this callout culture, It's easy to scare off well-meaning curious folks. So in an effort to turn the tides, I'll answer all your most burning questions!
Game of (Love) Thrones: Investigating The Mystery 1970s Sex Chair
Standing there, it was unabashed and awkwardly splayed out like an overly confident park flasher. It was an odd, octopus-shaped chair. But what was it for?
