Double the dildo, double the fun!
…But it also doubles the number of issues you might have to face while looking for the perfect toy for your needs.
It also doesn’t help that most options are made of toxic materials and that even the good alternatives are either badly marketed or explained.
But that’s why I, Jim the Dildo Dealer, still have a job a decade into my sex toy-slinging career! I have solutions and explanations for almost anything related to carnal pleasures after all.
So listen up my horny minions!
First of all, strapless strap-ons are not actually strapless.
That’s right! And that’s what I meant by terrible marketing.
To no fault of their own, a lot of folks who have tried these mislabeled sex toys ended up fully discounting them. You see, unless you have Kegel powers on par with She-Hulk’s, chances are you can’t hold these at all during sex. So you actually need a harness to secure these bad boys into place. And not all harnesses are compatible either ( More on these later )!
But horrible advertising aside, they’re still well worth your attention as they are an awesome way to receive pleasure as you dish it out!
You’re probably using double-ended dildos wrong.
Double-ended dildos are also pretty badly explained, if at all.
The main complaint, especially during coupled play, is that there’s almost always someone being left out as the dildo might be sliding in and out of one person while the other is left with a static dildo.
You see, there are two main ways of using these double-dils and both methods actually require you to hold them at the midpoint: So either you hold the double-dildo in place and both of you move around it, or you stay put and move the dildo back and forth between you two!
Another common issue is that double-sided dildos are often equal on both ends, but no one orifice is made with the same build and preferences. So I suggest you read on as I’ll cover some alternatives that can accommodate both of your unique builds!
Why use a strapless strap-on over a double dildo?
Whether you’re a pegger, a lesbian, or a transmasculine person looking for a fairer way to give some mutual internal pleasure, a double-sided strap-on is like a gift from the gods!
If you’re on the giving end, they feel much more “natural” during play as each push and pull will tug on your G-spot as you go.
Plus, if you’re on the receiving end, there’s something quite hot about knowing that even though you’re bottoming ( or power bottoming! ) your partner isn’t left out of the equation. So it feels much less detached and more intimate than using a standard strap-on.
Why use a double-sided dildo over a Strapless Strap-On dildo?
First and foremost, on top of including all the folks mentioned above, gay men can also enjoy this alternative! Though some transmasculine folks might find this method of play to get in the way of their gender euphoria if they’re not into anal.
The big upside here is that while strapless toys offer 2 different types of stimulation to each partner, this one provides penetrative motions to both users ( instead of rocking for one and in and out for the other ). So if you’re both into that, that’s a big plus here!
Some Double-ended dildos can also be bent enough to be used on a single person for some pretty intense double penetration, may it be in singular or different orifices. In some cases, the center of the double dildo can even be used as a handle to control both ends, instead of having to have both hands occupied! So if you’re as greedy as you’re horny, this option might very well be for you!
Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.
That being said, here’s our list of the best strapless strap-on toys & double-ended dildos, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.
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Affordable strapless strap-on dildos ( Bullet vibe Compatible ) |
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Best strapless dildo for tops who prefer smaller toys ( Bullet vibe Compatible ) |
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Squishiest strapless dildos in multiple sizes and with smaller ends for the wearer |
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Small, cheap, & powerfully vibrating strapless dildo tailor-made for G-spots and prostates |
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Best strapless dildo overall with 3 remote-controlled vibrators & many sizes and colors |
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Rumbliest adjustable strapless dildo with 3 powerful vibes |
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Most stimulating wireless vibrating double-sided strap-on with integrated clit sucker/air-pulser |
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Great affordable strapless-compatible underwear harness |
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Most stable & comfortable harness for Strapless dildos with femme-friendly options |
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Best strapless-compatible leather harnesses |
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Affordable traditional silicone double dildo models for every situation |
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Most versatile traditional body-safe double-sided dildo |
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Stainless double-ended dildo for intense G-spot and prostate stimulation |
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Super powerful vibrating & app controlled double-ended dildo |
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Double-sided suction cups for the perfect DIY double dildo |
Strapless Strap-Ons
Tantus Strapless
Since they’ve been around forever, Tantus’ Feeldoes and Realdoes were probably the most known Strapless dildos in the business. Well, the Strapless by Tantus is their rebranding and update of their old Feeldoes!
The new models have been updated with a squishier yet still firm silicone but not all updates are welcomed ( more on this later ).
The Strapless Classic is non-realistic and has a matte finish which is a nice switch compared to the original’s slick, dust-collecting finish. Though you’ll want to use a little bit more lube to offset the extra drag if it’s uncomfortable for you.
The Real Strapless, on the other hand, is the realistic alternative, for those who prefer something a little more closer to reality.
All Strapless models come in 2 sizes, 3 different colors, and with bullet vibrators for extra stimulation.
This is definitely a step down from the originals as there are way fewer colors & sizes to pick from. Which made the Feeldoes/Realdoes super accessible to anyone.
Sadly, just like the originals, the bullet placement here is more for the giver’s clitoris as it is situated at the base of the toy. It’s also worth noting that the included vibe is a bit of a placeholder. So I would ditch the cheap bullet vibe and get something stronger like the Tango if you want it to be actually satisfying!
Tango by Fuze
The Fuze Tango is like a hybrid between the Share & the Sharevibe.
Its shape lies between the semi-realism of the share and the non-phallic look of the Sharevibe, but like the latter, its bullet vibrator placement aligns nicely with the wearer’s clitoris.
The silicone is not too rigid and not too soft, so if you can’t agree on the density of your toy, this might also be the best compromise.
Now it’s not all good middle grounds here as just like the Shares, the Tango sadly only comes in one size.
It also has a much smaller g-spotting end for the wearer.
Therefore, if you felt like the above toys seemed almost perfect only to be let down by the girth of their “bulbs”. This is a perfect option for those of us who are far from being size queens/kings!
While it doesn’t come with a vibe, it is compatible with most regular bullets!
This is great news as it’ll accommodate the amazing Tango vibe & its alternatives!
I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or if it was totally done on purpose, but Fuze’s Tango and We-Vibe’s Tango are sort of a match made in heaven!
Vixen Creations’ Nexus
If you’ve read any of my articles, you probably know I’m a sucker for Vixen Creations’ toys. They pretty much single-handedly started the double-density dildo revolution with their Vixskin blend, and even their non-Vixskin standard toys are just as beautiful and squishy.
So if you’re looking for squishy or double-density strapless dildos, this is definitely your best choice!
These Strapless Strap-ons also deliver plenty of squishes, no matter if you pick the standard silicone or dual-density Vixskin options. So either way, they’ll both feel great and natural internally.
What’s more, the pliable nature of the silicones on offer will also allow for more flexibility with your angles. And variety is the spice of life, isn’t it?
The Nexus in standard silicone comes in 2 different sizes & semi-realistic builds.
These two options, named the Junior and the Senior both have beautiful blueish-purple hues and should satisfy most folks looking for “small” to “regular-sized” toys.
I still wish there were dual-density options for those who enjoy smaller/non-realistic toys, but the silicone here is still super nice and squishable, so it’s definitely still worth your attention.
The largest size of the 3, the Peacemaker, is the only realistic and dual-density model.
It comes with a realistic and large 2-inch dildo on the receiving end. This large realistic option also comes in Caramel, Vanilla, and Chocolate, so it is perfect for any size queen/king/x with a taste for realism!
The dual-density silicone also makes the insertion much more manageable than you’d imagine thanks to the extra squishy outer layer.
All models come with much smaller internal ends for the wearer.
They’re slimmer and more dildo-like than most other models on this list. But they still put a nice emphasis on the G-spot nonetheless.
So if the top in your duo isn’t into big toys, they’ll probably love this option. Most folks should be able to enjoy these toys though size queens who like to top might want to skip these for some of the larger bulbs on this roundup.
Right before we get into some pricey premium vibrating strapless dildo options, let me first present you this small powerful & affordable alternative.
At around half the price of the next options, what you get here is still pretty impressive. It’s got slightly more power than the options below and has just as many motors as them too ( 3 in total ) so no clit, and orifice is left without some vibrations!
Just keep in mind that the starting speed starts already a bit strong, so its a bit tougher to warm up to the vibes here. If you do need to warm up, I would suggest starting sans vibrations, then turn it on. It’s gonna be a bit of a shock, but less of a shock than going straight to vibin’.
It’s a perfect toy if you’re into pegging or smaller toys + g-spot stimulation.
If you’re a pegger looking to please a peggee, the small size along with the aggressive curve is pretty much tailor-made for prostate stimulation. Plus, the silicone has enough stiffness to keep the pressure on such a pressure-responsive spot!
Of course, smaller vaginas will also appreciate the small size, especially if they love G-spot stimulation, where said curve will also come in handy.
As expected, being such a bargain, this toy is still flawed in a few key ways.
Other than the vibrations starting a bit strong, I’d say that the controller also leaves a lot to be desired. It’s basically just a cheap piece of plastic that feels quite dated. It’s weird stuff considering that all of Orion’s toys come with some pretty nice controllers. It also doesn’t offer granular controls like the next options.
I also tend to prefer strapless dildos that are entirely made of silicone only, but this one comes with a plastic piece attached to the bottom of it. It’s not on any of the insertable parts, thank god. But as the fluids flow, they’re bound to get lodged in the creases, making cleanup more of a bitch than it should.
My last point will really depend on your preferences: Ridges. Lots of ridges.
I think the ones on the bulb are great as they help keep things in place. The ones on the G-spot/prostate end are also welcome as this works very well with how these spots react, though it could be a problem for those who really don’t enjoy internal texture. But the ones on the clit end could definitely be a problem to easily irritated clits since the silicone is quite firm here.
Strap-On-Me’s Vibrating Strap-on
No more pussyfooting around, the toys you’ve been waiting for have arrived! Hell, the following two entries are probably the best strapless strap-on dildos you can get as of today!
Strap-On-Me’s vibrating strapless dildo features 3 remote-controlled rumbly motors with independent controls!
With one vibrator at the tip of the dildo, one for the clit of the wearer/base of the dildo, and one in the G-spot bulb, not one sensitive bit will be left out!
This is especially awesome as most ( if not all ) vibrating strapless dildos only really provide vibrations for the wearer’s clitoris. You might get a tickle from the reverberations on the receiving end, but it’s usually far from enough.
As if it wasn’t enough, each motor has one constant vibration mode along with 2 extra patterns, and each mode has 3 adjustable strengths.
However it is worth noting that while the patterns can be independent of each other, the strength of the toy will carry through all motors. So you do have to agree on when to turn things to 11 here!
To make things more manageable, individual vibes can be turned off with a long press of a button without affecting the other motors. So if you need a break but still want to let your partner enjoy their vibrations, it is still possible.
The shaft of the dildo is also entirely adjustable thanks to a rigid yet malleable wire running through the toy.
So if the person on the receiving end prefers intense P/G-spot stimulation, a straight dildo, or something in between, it’s all possible with only this one toy!
This strapless dildo comes in 3 different sizes & colors so it definitely should fit most folks!
More sizes mean more potential users, so it is definitely welcome, as no one should be alienated from this great new toy.
The bulbous end is also shaped in a way that can actually facilitate holding onto it without a strap if your Kegels are strong enough.
This is not to say that I suggest doing this for most people, but if it’s what you’ve been looking for, this is less impossible than with most other Strapless toys.
Lastly, the Strap-On-Me’s Vibrating Strap-on is waterproof ( but not submersible ).
So not only is it shower-friendly, but it’ll also come in handy when comes time to clean it up.
But if you want a toy that will work in the bath/jacuzzi, I suggest you jump to the next entry!
Lovense Lapis
The biggest competition to the Strap-On-Me’s double-ended vibrating strap-ons is this rumbly BAMF right here!
Both the Strap-On-Me and the Lovense sport 3 powerful motors that can be remotely controlled, but the similarities mostly end here.
For one, the vibrations on the Lapis are even rumblier than the ones found on its competitor. Which should come to no surprise from the likes of Lovense.
You’ll also find the wearer’s insertable end to put more focus on the G-spot than the Strap-On-Me.
This Lovense strapless strap-on is also entirely waterproof/submersible as opposed to splashproof only. So if you like your baths and jacuzzis, this one can follow you anywhere you like to get frisky.
The remote control situation is also different as you’ll be using your phone and an app to control the Lapis.
This has advantages and its own pitfalls since not everyone likes carrying their phone into the bedroom and a phone is always larger than a tiny handheld remote. But the app allows for wayyyy more control and customization over your vibrations ( including syncing to music, etc. ).
We-Vibe, in my book, figured this out best by including both small handheld remotes and app control for their toys. But with the Strap-On-Me and Lovense, you’ll have to rely on personal preferences.
One of the best parts of this double-ended strap-on is its adjustable nature.
The neck here is not only flexible, but actually adjustable, which should help to adapt to the wonderful varieties of female anatomies. There isn’t a pubic mound, G-spot, and clitoris that is at the same height or size, so this is definitely a godsend.
I’m a huge advocate of adjustable toys, so I absolutely welcome the Lapis with open arms!
The biggest downside with the Lapis compared to the Strap-On-Me is that it only comes in one size and one color. So if medium size and hot pink aren’t your thing, you’re shit out of luck, partner!
At least give us something for size queens and some color variety for the stud lesbos, plus a few skin tones for the trans masculine folks and this would be the best vibrating strapless strap-on around!
Strap-On-Me’s Multi Orgasm Strap-on
The Multi Orgasm Strap-On is basically the same toy as the above Strap-On-Me, but with a clit sucker, a bit more power, and an extra smaller size!
The clit sucker/air-pulse addition is a pure stroke of genius, especially for tops who struggle to achieve orgasm while using strap-ons.
Those types of stimulators, popularized by the likes of Womanizer & Satisfyer, are now synonymous with yanking orgasms right out of even the toughest clits, so believe me when I say you’ll appreciate the extra help!
Lining these up during play might be a little tough at first. But with a well-fitting harness, a little adjusting, and patience, you should still be able to get things nice and secure!
The extra smaller size is also definitely welcome, especially for total pegging novices or particularly snug vaginas! Hopefully, they bring this smaller size to the vibrating model as well in the future!
Plus, if the bottom is out of the house, the clit sucker along with the vibrating bulb is a great solo masturbation tool.
With clit suckers being almost universally loved, this is truly two toys in one here and you’d be almost crazy not to enjoy it on your own!
Pro tip: The dildo can even act like a handle to help you zero in on the clit. Plus, it’s something to hold onto as you lose your mind!
With the new electromagnetic charger, this new iteration is also fully submersible underwater!
So while the shower was the limit with the vibrating model, this one is a true little love submarine!
Strapless Dildo Harnesses
Rodeoh Harnesses
These brief-style harnesses are essentially the most affordable option for strapless strap-on users.
While the photos might be a bit confusing, the panel behind the O-Ring can actually be opened to allow a strapless dildo to go through.
Just keep in mind that the integrated stretchy O-Ring and underwear aren’t the most around. So you’ll probably still have to support the shaft a touch as you play if you don’t want it to wobble around.
But at such a low price, this isn’t so dramatic as the other options are quite more expensive.
While the models offered are very trans-masculine and tomboy friendly, there really aren’t any feminine options offered here.
But if you’re not a diehard femme or if you’re looking for a cheap brief-style harness, it doesn’t get any better than this!
Spareparts Hardwear Harnesses
The Spareparts harnesses like an evolved version of your standard harness.
They’re packed with features that really modernize what strap-ons should be in the 2020s.
What’s more, Spartpart Hardwear’s offerings are some of the most comfortable and durable harnesses you can buy today.
The durable Elastic O-rings will accommodate a large variety of dildo sizes and, of course, strapless dildos, thanks to movable panels behind the dildo opening.
The material on all their harnesses is also extremely comfortable and breathable, and is also dries almost as fast as you can wet it! Which comes in pretty handy during sex, as you might imagine.
Another underrated extra feature is the hidden pockets above and under the O-Ring meant to hold small vibrators.
Bullets secured in there are also easy to trigger through the material of the harness. So you won’t have to dig in there every time you want to change speeds.
So if the wearer wants some extra vibrations, they’ll love those handy little pockets!
The Joque is their most stable model as it’s the closest thing to a traditional strap-on. So if vigorous play is your thing, that might very well be the harness for you!
The Tomboi is their standard underwear harness. It’s a bit less stable but often considered more convenient since you can simply slip them on like normal underwear without having to deal with straps. It’ll also fit nicely under clothes if you like to get freaky on the go!
The Lingerie harness is a lot like the Tomboi. But it is more femme-friendly and comes with optional garter belts as well. So if you’re a feminine person looking for an underwear-style harness, this is the one for you!
Aslan Harnesses
If you’re more into the look of traditional harnesses, but still want something that’ll fit strapless dildos, these are the strap-ons for you!
Not only do Aslan’s strap-ons look awesome, but they’re also incredibly comfortable compared to other leather harnesses of this type.
Most of the leather alternatives usually tend to dig and chafe, but by some kind of sexy black magic, Aslan somehow manages to circumvent that completely.
While they can easily be converted from Jockstrap to G-String mode, you’ll want to stick to the G-string position for them to hold your Strapless Strap-ons.
Still, it gives you some good flexibility if you use traditional dildos as well since the jockstrap mode can easily give you access to the wearer’s bits when needed!
One leather harness, so many possibilities!
Double Dildos
Colours Double & DP Pleasures
During my research & experiments, it was actually pretty difficult to find decent traditional double-headed dildo models that were both body-safe and not absolutely rock-hard.
Brands really make it difficult to stay away from unhealthy jelly toys in the double-dil department.
Colours’ take, while still quite firm are still squishier than most alternatives.
As the makers of the super soft Coloursofts dildos, it’s a bit strange to me that they didn’t opt for that silicone instead as it is much closer to the classic jelly toys, minus the toxic materials. But it is still squishy enough to be enjoyable.
Thankfully, they offer 2 different models that should fit most use cases.
Their standard “double” is flexible enough to use with a partner on the other end, but a bit too stiff to do solo double penetration on oneself.
The “DP” model on the other hand comes in a U shape with one standard end and a smaller end clearly meant for anal. Since it’s thinner at the center, it’s great as a double penetration dildo may it be in one orifice or two different ones at a time. And while the bend is slightly awkward, it can also be used on two different people at a time! So it is still decent for partners with different size needs!
Ruse Double-Ended Dildos by Blush
These double dildos are a lot like the “double” from Colours but maybe a touch more versatile thanks to their naturally curved bodies.
This means that they’ll be good for partnered play but also much more forgiving as a solo double penetration dildo. Though for that specific use case, it is a tad less forgiving than the Colours DP as both ends come in the same size! And while the toys still want to splay out when used in the same orifice, it is not impossible to achieve with a bit of effort.
While using this with a partner, on the other hand, the natural U shape is also great for hitting prostates and g-spots if you’re both facing in the same direction.
Both options coming from Blush are larger than the ones from Colours.
So the “Slim” sort of works as a Medium ( 1.5″ diameter ) and the “Thick” as a large ( 1.75″ ) alternative to Colours’ smaller size ( 1.25″ ).
I don’t know if it’s an illusion due to the fact that there’s more silicone involved, but the “Thick” model does feels a touch squishier than the “Slim” model which has near identical firmness to the Colours.
Pure Wand by Njoy
Now you probably think I’ve gone fully insane after complaining about how body-safe double dildo models are often too firm. But hear me out!
Being too firm is mostly an issue when it comes to textured dildos or solo double-penetration. But…
If both partners are really into intense P/G-spot stimulation, Njoy Pure Wand’s intensely curved stainless steel body will absolutely provide it!
It also helps that it has two differently sized ends: one smaller, beginner-friendly tip and a more sizable one on the other side. So both partners or orifice types can easily be accommodated.
But the star of the show is really the frictionless & intense curve meant apply a ton of leverage to G-spots and prostates alike. And if you know a thing or two about these little bundles of nerves, you’ll know that pressure is their kryptonite!
Now if you find the curve too intense and would prefer something more akin to a dildo, you might prefer Le Wand’s Arch.
It’s basically like if you took the Pure Wand and straightened it out. So it’ll be a bit more versatile but much more forgiving on your prostates and G-spots!
Lelo Boomerang
The Lelo Boomerang is proof that double dildos don’t have to be glorified pieces of bendy silicone.
So if penetration alone sometimes leaves you thinking, “Is that it?”, this toy happily answers with, “Absolutely not.”
What makes the Boomerang stand out is its dual-motor design that delivers impressively rumbly vibrations!
The companion app is another big win. There are loads of patterns to play with, and some create an almost rhythmic “push-and-pull” sensation that makes partnered sessions feel even more natural, if that makes any sense. Let’s just say that the vibes & features in this toy are dangerously good at convincing you that bedtime can wait another hour.
My only real complaint is that both motors are linked together; Not everyone’s body craves the same type of buzz, so giving each end its own controls would’ve made the Boomerang an easy five-star toy.
Keep in mind that compared to your average floppy silicone double dildo, the Boomerang has a much firmer build.
That means you might have to wiggle, shuffle, and negotiate your way into the perfect position, but once you get there, it holds its shape beautifully. It’s kind of a middle ground between regular silicone double dils and the Njoy. It’s not a bad thing, but your orifices might crave something else, so it’s worth a mention!
Double-Sided Suction Cups
Double-sided suction cups can either turn most dildos into suction dildos or turn any of your two favorite dildos into a double-headed dildo!
As you may have noticed, there aren’t a lot of choices when it comes to body-safe double-ended toys. So this is definitely a cause for celebration! Especially since there are so many great body-safe toys out there that have MUCH better materials & designs than what most silicone double-sided dildos have to offer.
Plus, orifices are pretty unique to the individual, so it allows you to perfectly customize your double-ended dils exactly to the liking of both parties concerned.
It’s also an awesome way of finding new ways to play with a familiar favorite!
If you need dildo suggestions, look no further than our realistic, abstract & non-phallic, fantasy, squirting, & XL dildo guides for everything you need to know.
Sinnovator’s Double-Sided Suction cups are the closest Lustart equivalent for folks who want to match their suction cup’s colors with their dildos.
They come in tons of colors & sizes, so it’s super easy to find a perfect match for your dildo that’ll look like it was exactly made for it.
Of course, since they ship from the U.K. expect extra shipping fees if you’re ordering outside of Europe.
Uberrime probably makes the most powerful & customizable double-sided suction cups I’ve ever seen.
These bad boys come in multiple sizes and almost any color you can imagine, so it’s great for any dildo color or size. But the suction is really the star of the show here.
I’ve found this new contender to work well even on more textured surfaces, which is a pretty rare thing!
Lustarts Double-Sided Suction cups are probably the most beautiful option.
They come in tons of sizes and gorgeous marbled colors and work extremely well as they were designed to handle large toys. Just expect long shipping times as they’re hand-made and shipped by the same person who makes them!
CONCLUSION
Let’s face it, the available traditional double-ended dildos kind of suck! They’re either toxic or cheaply made. But these double-sided suction cups allow you to turn some of the best silicone dildos around into top-tier double-sided dildos!
So even if you opt for some of the cheapest dildos found on our “best of” lists, you’ll still get something better than what is currently made today!
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