If you’re looking for some good couples vibrator and sex toy options, almost anything will do, really.
But while classic sex toys are fun to use with a partner in ( or out of ) the bedroom, there’s nothing that says “You’re a keeper” more than getting your own couples’ toys.
Sadly, anyone who’s dabbled with dedicated sex toys for couples knows that they’re mostly just another dumb way of getting rid of money.
But we’re now in the 2020s, baby! Couples’ sex toys are at last becoming worth the investment. We are truly living in exciting times.
Now I’m not saying that classic dildos ( realistic or not ), g-spot toys, masturbators, butt plugs, prostate stimulators, and fuck machines have no place in your couple’s arsenal. Heck, I’d even encourage adding those to your bag of tricks!
But today we’re focusing mostly on dedicated couples’ vibrator and toy models over the versatile basics.
We’re also not going to cover pegging toys & strap-ons as we already have a dedicated article on the subject!
Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.
That being said, here’s our list of the best sex toys for couples, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.
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Best couples’ sex toys for enhancing blowjobs |
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Most powerful & rumbly cock rings |
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Best wireless couples’ vibrator for accessible internal play |
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Best long-distance vaginal toy for satisfying size and power |
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Best couples’ vibrator for wireless anal play |
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Waterproof & easy to clean ramps, toy holders, & throes |
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Best wireless & long-distance clit toy |
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Best long-distance couples’ vibrator that can be used during penetration |
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Best wireless & long-distance prostate toy |
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Best wireless prostate vibrator & vibe combo for couples |
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Best couples’ vibrators for simulating sex in a long-distance relationship Kiiroo’s Pearl 2 or Fuse + Pearl 2 |
Cheap Couples’ Toys
Quickshot Boost & Vantage by Fleshlight
Even though the Quickshots are the cheapest Fleshlights available, they’re by no means disappointing.
They’re inconspicuous, cheap, and feel almost as great as any other Fleshlight.
They also double as great toys for couple play since the open-ended design allows for your partner to fellate you while in use.
At the price of being a bit less stealthy, the transparent Quickshot Vantage also gives a pretty good view to your significant other as well!
We suggest using less lube than you would normally use while using it during a blowjob. Since lube will mix up with saliva and, through all that lubrification, you might lose the Quickshot’s great texture.
A good flavored lube will also go a long way in making the experience more pleasant for your SO. Otherwise, if your partner is well hydrated, nothing stops you from going all spit!
The only caveat is that the Quickshot can be quite noisy in use so, if the walls are thin where you reside, this might not be the optimal choice for a nice stealth BJ.
Mid-Range Couples Toys
Atom & Atom Plus by Hot Octopuss
It seems like every other high-end sex toy company has had a go at luxury vibrating cock rings.
But most of these couples’ vibrator rings end up being quite underwhelming when you compare them to the big hole they just made in your pocket.
Here’s why the Atom & Atom Plus beat most other vibrating cock rings:
First of all, If you enjoy deep and powerful rumbly vibrations, this toy is a clear winner. It features 5 incremental vibrations that go from subtle rumbles to bone-rattling reverberations.
A nice plus is that the vibrations are strong enough for the reverberations to be felt throughout his manhood, effectively turning any man into a full-on vibrator.
The Atoms are also rechargeable via USB and both hold a charge quite well.
The only difference between the two models is that the Atom Plus comes with an extra vibrator that is meant to be worn past the testicles for some intense perineum action!
While you can’t boil these silicone cock rings due to their integrated electrical components, since they are fully waterproof, they’re still quite easy to clean.
If you want to fully sanitize them still, a simple 10% bleach water solution along with a good rinse should do the trick
The Atoms both come with a 1-year warranty, so use them to death folks!
Lovense Lush Mini
When couples think of adding a long-distance couples vibrator to partnered play, the Lovense Lush 4 is usually the first thing that comes to mind, but the Lush Mini could be the better choice for some.
It offers the same remote-control magic as its larger siblings, but in a size that’s far easier to wear comfortably for longer stretches.
For many women, fully-sized egg vibes can feel a bit too intense or intrusive during everyday movement. The Lush Mini tones that down without sacrificing power, delivering strong, rumbly vibrations in a more compact shape that’s easier to forget you’re wearing—until it turns on!
It’s also a perfect option for anyone who struggles with any kind of sizable internal toys or finds G-spot pressure uncomfortable.
This makes it an excellent option for couples who enjoy remote-controlled couples vibrators, whether that’s out on a date, during foreplay, or while one partner takes control from across the room (or across the world).
Lush 4 by Lovense
Sometimes, holding a vibrator against your body can be annoying, taking you totally out of the moment! In this case, wearables like Lush 4 from Lovense are a fantastic solution for you, especially if you prefer internal rumbly vibes.
The Lush 4 is a brand new version of their popular Lush “egg” style wearable couples’ vibrator, and can be the magic solution you’re looking for.
It’s a teardrop-shaped toy that can be worn inside the body, so you and your partner can experience simultaneous pleasure with the extra bonus of a vibrating toy adding all that extra stimulation.
Granted, know your limits: this is a bigger toy than other popular models from companies like We-Vibe, so having a dick and the Lush inside you might be a bit much. Instead, this might be a good addition during receiving or giving oral sex or when used simultaneously during anal sex!
If you’re both into pegging, its also a fantastic toy to wear under a harness! Just give the controls to your man to up to add a level of surprise.
A huge appeal for wearable toys like these is the possibility of public play.
While that’s a really thrilling idea, it’s slightly louder than you might expect since the Lovense Lush 4 is one of the most powerful egg-style vibrators on the market, with over 7000 vibrations per minute.
It might be more of a “walking around busy streets downtown” kind of public toy versus a “sexy grocery shopping on a Saturday” thing. So it’s definitely the perfect addition to a date night at a loud dive bar or a club where no one will notice your little sexy extra. So cross off the library off your list!
The control “tail” is on the outside so you can easily change the speed or pattern of the vibration but you can actually control the toy from the Lovense app for your phone as well.
Plus, said control tail comes with a beautiful customizable LED light if you want to light up your session like the sexiest glow stick at a rave.
Sync it to your music, control it with taps, or even control it by using it during long-distance phone/cyber sex dates!
This toy is always ready for action, especially since it has a quick charge time of 5 minutes for 1 hour of use.
Lovense’s Hush 2
These excellent wireless butt plugs are bound to be a hit with couples who enjoy a bit of anal play.
The Hush 2 comes in 4 comprehensive sizes, going from 1 inch in diameter to 2.25 inches! So no matter what your level of comfort with anal, the folks at Lovense have got you covered.
It can be controlled via an app on your smartphone or with buttons on the base of the toy. The app isn’t just a fancy controller. Here you can customize your vibrations and let a partner control your toy from any distance, amongst many other extra features!
Plus, the T-bar base is super comfortable to wear over extended periods of time and while on the go, so it’ll absolutely go hand in hand with the remote controls.
Being from Lovense, the vibrations are also strong and rumbly, so there are definitely no complaints here!
Just keep in mind that wireless couples’ vibrator wearables aren’t perfect in general. The wireless signal has a hard time getting through people or limbs, and they have a history of straight-up not working with bigger folks. Sadly, this is an issue with most wireless toys, so we really can’t really blame it on them.
But Lovense is definitely the best one at handling those connectivity issues, so it’s still worth a shot with that in mind!
Liberator
Liberator makes pillows, throws, ramps, and furniture built specifically for sexual intercourse.
All models are very easily cleaned. Their covers are removable and machine washable, so no need to change the entire set of sheets every time things get a bit intense.
Another great advantage is that they also make a lot of positions easier and less strenuous to achieve. So now you can simply enjoy the ride and stop building pillow forts between positions!
They make ramps and wedges made to align any man’s/pegger’s appendage directly onto their significant other’s G-Spot/Prostate.
The angle provided will even work whether you’re on your back or on your belly!
Plus a ramp allows the person on the bottom to get comfortable and just enjoy the ride instead of getting progressively cramped up, being stuck in an awkward position.
If you want to keep things simple, their super soft, absorbent, and waterproof throws are also a lifesaver.
They’ll also work against whatever fluids you throw at them, may it be lube or your own. So if you’ve got a squirter on your team, you’re welcome.
I also love that they come in multiple colors and sizes.
Want to include dildos & g-spot toys during play?
If they don’t have suction cups, the Bonbon & the Wing are perfect for that.
Whether you just want to watch the action or live up some kind of threesome fantasy without including other people into the mix, these pillows will hold your toys in place without a hitch.
A fan of the unbelievable strength of the Magic Wand?
You probably already know how unwieldy it is to use during intercourse.
Well, Liberator’s Axis and Wanda aim to fix that, giving you a hands-free and comfortable experience during sex or solo play.
For men, there are also their Fleshlight mounts.
The On a Mission and Top Dog mounts are both great options if you feel like enacting your threesome fantasies without the risk of adding an extra party to your already solid team. It’s also a pretty decent option if she just likes to watch!
Both models are also very easy to clean, even if they’re the only liberator models without removable covers. Simply wiping with a bit of soap and water should be enough for most situations.
High-End Couples Toys
We-Vibe Moxie+
If you guys like the idea of wireless sex toys for public play or long-distance relationships but she’s not that into insertable vibrators, you don’t have a lot of options left.
But let’s face it, most panty clit vibes are utter trash. They’re usually a mix of weak vibrations, bad placement, and horrible connectivity.
If that’s been your experience as well, get ready to get your mind blown by We-Vibe’s Moxie+!
The Moxie+ is a remote-controlled panty vibe that’s held in place by a powerful magnet.
It can either be remote or app-controlled.
Since We-Vibe is a long-time leader in couples’ vibrator toys, you’ll also benefit from their signature app, packed with helpful features for folks in long-distance relationships as well as for people just looking to get off on go!
Being the makers of the extremely popular & powerful Tango, I had a lot of expectations when it came to the vibrations.
While the Moxie+ doesn’t reach the heights of Tango, I’m happy to say that the vibrations are still pretty impressive nonetheless!
At its maximum strength, it’s actually pretty similar to the Tango’s 3rd setting, which is definitely no slouch.
The only real downside is that since this toy’s motor isn’t inside the wearer & pretty powerful, it’s noisier than most wireless vibes.
So if you’re all about that public play, make sure to only use it in noisy environments. It’s definitely good for the streets & movies, but absolutely bad for your inlaws and the library!
We-Vibe Chorus & Sync O
I’ve seen every iteration of We-Vibe’s flagship couples vibrator and I’m happy to say they’ve finally perfected the formula.
The Chorus & Sync O are made to clamp onto a woman’s pubic bone and provide simultaneous vibrations to both the clitoris and the G-Spot.
This handy shape is great for hands-free play but it is also made to be used during penetration.
It also helps that these take very little vaginal real estate, so it is possible to use a dildo or a partner’s penis at the same time while inserted!
These little couples’ vibrator varieties rumble like they’re at least twice their size.
The We-Vibe 1, 2, 3, 4, and 4 plus were all pretty underwhelming in terms of vibrations. Very strange since We-Vibe makes the amazingly rumbly & compact Tango. But now, the Chorus is pretty much on par with what the Tango has to offer with the Sync O following closely behind.
Another issue that was common with all the previous iterations was the hit-and-miss fit of the toy. But again, this was fixed with their fully adjustable body. A feature that was kept in this new iteration of the toy.
The Sync O and Chorus can both be controlled from any distance with the aid of a smartphone or controller.
And while these have plenty of functions by themselves, you can get even more through the app. You can even make your own patterns and sync your toys to the sound of music!
Still, like any other Bluetooth vibes, if you wish to have your partner control it in public, you’re better off doing it over 4G/5G or wi-fi as opposed to straight from their Bluetooth.
Also, closing your legs while sitting or being extra curvy might get in the way of the signal, so keep that in mind before making the jump.
We-Vibe Sync O VS Chorus Comparison
Now that we’re done with the similarities, let’s talk about what makes each toy unique!
In terms of features, both toys are as close as they get compared to the rest of the roaster, but they do differ wildly in some key parts!
You probably already noticed that the insertable ends are completely different.
What this means in practice is that the Chorus has more pinpoint and slightly more powerful vibrations.
On the other hand, the Sync O offers a more stable fit ( less risk of popping out! ) and allows for more skin contact with the g-spot while simultaneously providing vibrations.
So it’s all a matter of what you’re looking for more pinpoint vibrations and power or a more intimate and stable fit!
One feature that is unique to the Chorus is the included squeeze remote.
With the squeeze mode on, the harder you squeeze the remote the harder your toy will vibrate. And while it may sound gimmicky at first, it’s quite organic to have the intensity rise this way as we tend to naturally clench as we close in on a climax.
This also leaves you with all sorts of creative ways of using the remote. For example, you could give the remote to your partner and get off on their pleasure as they squeeze and react to your actions!
When the squeeze mode is off, it is also a great plug-and-play alternative to using the app as a remote. This is especially useful when you’re in the bedroom by yourself or with a partner as phones can be a bit distracting when you’re trying to get up close and personal with yourself or someone else. And it sure beats the limited controls found directly on the toy.
The remote also acts as a Bluetooth relay when you’re out and about. A feature that is particularly useful on the go since having the toy between your legs can interfere with the Bluetooth signal at certain angles.
Lastly, the Sync O is slightly cheaper with a longer battery life ( 1h30 vs over 2 hours! )
We-Vibe Vector+
It’s understandable that men might feel a little jealous of the two previous We-Vibe toys. But luckily We-Vibe just released the Vector+, a prostate equivalent to the Chorus!
The Vector+ is one of the smallest, most beginner-friendly vibrating prostate massagers there is.
Plus, being coupled with We-Vibe’s signature powerful rumbly vibrations, prostate pros won’t be disappointed by this toy either. The small size is still absolutely welcome as it is a rare sight in the world of prostate vibrators, with larger toys dominating the scene.
Like most vibrating prostate massagers, the Vector+ comes with 2 vibes, one for the prostate and another one for the perineum. You can even choose between which motor you want to be active, allowing you to warm up with the perineum vibe and finish the job with the internal vibe!
Another important feature borrowed from the Chorus is the fully adjustable neck.
A neat feature that will allow almost anyone to find a perfect fit.
Not only can you better adjust the Vector+ to your anatomy, but you can also deepen the curve for a more intense pressure once you’re ready for more.
Of course, the Vector+ wouldn’t be considered a couple’s toy without its remote and App.
Just like most other We-Vibe toys, these additions make the Vector+ an amazing couples’ and long-distance relationship toy.
Your partner can take over the toy in the bedroom, out in public, or even across countries if needed!
Of course, the remote is more convenient to use in the bedroom, but the app offers more options to customize your vibrations. So you might want to bring your phone along if you want as many features to play with as possible.
Hugo by Lelo
The Hugo is a prostate and perineum vibrator that comes with a wireless controller with some pretty unique features.
Its silicone-covered body is not too big either. So while this might not be the perfect first-time prostate massager, it is still pretty accessible to most.
It can be used in the shower or bath without any problems. And to top it all off, it’s USB rechargeable and covered by Lelo’s great warranty.
The real kicker is Lelo’s SenseMotion wireless controller. And what a difference it makes!
First of all, the remote adds much more control over the vibrations themselves. You can customize the 6 function’s strength to small incremental amounts. So if the prostate in the couple likes a more gradual climb, it can be well worth the investment.
Then you can turn on the SenseMotion!
This neat little feature allows you to either gradually raise the vibrations by tilting the toy up to 90 degrees or make the vibrations more intense the harder you shake the controller.
…And this would be just a bad gimmick if the controller didn’t vibrate!
That’s right! The vibrations in the controller imitate any vibrations found on the prostate massager itself.
If hearing this doesn’t spark your imagination, let me help you get the ball rolling.
If alone, he could put the controller on the shake mode and masturbate with it, holding the vibrating controller under his penis. As he gets more into it, the prostate massager will vibrate more and more intensely as well, making it a very organic experience.
If with a partner, she could masturbate herself with the vibrating controller and you would both be riding the same wave! Or she could put in on tilt mode and act like she’s the Caesar of his prostate!
Kiiroo’s Pearl 2 or Fuse + Keon
Kiiroo is the leading brand in Teledildonics.
If you’re not informed on the matter, this means that they make Dildos that can sync their motions with other toys, at any distance.
A unique feature that makes long-distance relationships and penetrative sex a possibility!
But all of these devices work perfectly well on their own as well, so they won’t only be good for connected sex.
The Pearl 2 is Kiiroo’s basic model and the Fuse comes with a clitoral stimulator attached.
The Pearl 2 and the Fuse were originally meant to be paired with Kiiroo’s Onyx 2. And while the Onyx 2 is alright and sports some impressive technology, it’s usually not enough to bring men to climax all by itself. To add insult to injury, it’s honestly nothing remotely close to real sex.
Thankfully, the Keon changed all that.
Basically, it’s meant to hold a masturbator and do all the motions for you.
It is also compatible with any of the classic Fleshlights ( though you will have to use them inside the Kiiroo masturbator shell ), so that gives you plenty of choices to pick from. They offer gender-neutral models as well as replicas of any orifices you can normally have sex with.
The Keon can be used alone or be controlled by someone else via the Kiiroo dildo of your choice amongst many other exciting features!
If you’re not inspired yet, I can think of many ways to use these couples’ sex toys.
The obvious being long distance with her playing with her Kiiroo toy and him feeling the motions being recreated live on the Keon.
P.S.: The Kiiroo toys don’t even have to be inserted vaginally or anally, virtual blowjobs and hand-jobs are totally acceptable as well!
But if you enjoy looking at each other masturbating, you could simply use your respective couples’ toys in the same room and share the sensations in unison.
Like a bit of BDSM? Strap the Keon on Mr. and stroke the Kiiroo toy with your hands and just look at him squirm.
The possibilities are really endless!