The prostate is one of the world’s best-kept secrets, especially when it comes to heterosexual men. What can I say, we’re always a little behind, especially when it comes to our own behind.
But thankfully, the most intense orgasms you could possibly have been patiently waiting, tucked just a few inches inside of you. So not all is lost for those of us a bit late to the party. If you’re not late, congrats! You’ll still be able to benefit from this article none-the-less!
As a prostate owner, you can even achieve multiple orgasms!
A thing that most would believe was an exclusive feature of the female body. You could also have dry orgasms all throughout sex, skipping on the refractory period most of us have to deal with after a typical climax.
Prostate stimulation does not only feel amazing but it is also a great way to prevent any sort of prostate-related problems like prostatitis, as well as erectile dysfunction (ED), painful ejaculations, and more.
While there aren’t many downsides to prostate stimulation, two recurring issues usually crop up:
1. Finding the damned thing & knowing what to do with it can take quite a bit of guesswork.
2. Having to twist into all sorts of weird positions to reach it is literally and figuratively a pain in the ass.
This is where prostate massagers come to the rescue. These will make zeroing onto your P-Spot a breeze while still being comfortable to achieve.
It’s also worth noting that, if you have no trouble finding your prostate, and you’d prefer a more hands-on experience any of these G-Spot toys should do as well.
Plus, if you’re a Trans woman, you’ll probably find these models to be much more gender-affirming than the rugged toys found on this list!
How to Use a Prostate Massager
Before we get down to the best devices for the job, let’s have a little primer on what it takes to get the job done!
First, you’ll need a good lube.
Silicone is the best and will last the longest. But if you’re using a silicone-based toy, I’d avoid it as silicones don’t mix well together.
In that case, a thicker water-based lube will work wonders for anal penetration as well. Thicker means it will take longer to absorb through your body and it’ll also make toy textures more manageable.
I’m in, now what?
First, you’ll need to point the head of your prostate toy towards the front of your body.
To prostate is usually located close to a finger’s length ( how convenient! ) towards that direction. So you really don’t need to go that deep to get to your goal.
Relaxation is key to get the most of your experience, so take deep relaxed breaths throughout. It also helps if you’re already stimulated as it will make your prostate more sensitive and accessible. So put your free hand ( or hands ) to good use!
If your prostate massager has a handle, a mix of constant pressure or rhythmical nudges is usually what the prostate craves. Just make sure you’re still pressing towards the front of your body.
If your prostate massager has a perineum arm, you’ll have to rely on breath and small contractions instead of hands-on manipulations. The arm usually acts as a lever so you won’t have to worry about applying the pressure manually. Plus, you can actually stimulate the prostate from the outside by applying pressure to your perineum. So this should also help in making the experience that much more intense!
If you know me, you know that I love the Icicles line of toys. They’re quality, rock hard borosilicate glass toys. But more importantly, they’re actually reasonably priced.
Well, this prostate massager surely is no exception, especially when you consider that it is the cheapest model on this list. With that being said, this prostate massager wouldn’t on the list if it wasn’t worth your attention.
It has a great shape and a nice handle to apply pressure on your prostate without having the prostate massager slipping out of your hands.
The glass body also makes it a very fun toy to do temperature play with. Just use warm or cold water to get the temperature just right.
Like silicone, glass can also be easily sanitized by boiling or throwing in the top rack of the dishwasher.
For a complete beginner, the No. 46 could be a bit much in terms of size, but thanks to its glass body, it’s really easy to insert with the help of a decent lube.
Speaking of good lube, since this is a glass toy, you can use silicone lube without the risk of damaging your precious prostate massager. And silicone being the longest-lasting, most slippery lube around makes this one of the main selling points for this little guy.
The only real downside is that the handle has been known to break when dropped since the glass is rather thin at that point. So to be safe, especially if you like crazy amounts of pressure on your prostate, I would suggest that you go with the nearly indestructible Pfun mentioned below instead.
If you’re not a complete beginner and if you don’t mind the No. 46 not being completely hands-free, you will probably love this affordable prostate massager.
Before I say anything else, know that Aneros is a company that specializes in prostate massagers almost exclusively. So needless to say that these guys know what they are doing.
Aneros makes some of the best prostate massagers for beginners along with some top-notch alternatives for experienced users as well.
Their smallest models are no bigger than a finger and their larger models will provide the most intense P-spot pressure out of the whole collection.
Aneros prostate massagers are also completely hands-free, so all you have to do is insert them and let them do their work.
Thanks to this, along with the girth found on the smaller models, these hands-free sex toys are an absolute essential for beginners.
They still do require a little bit of practice to get the hang of it.
Relaxation and micro-contractions will go a long way towards getting you there. So if you don’t succeed on the first shot, don’t despair and keep on trying and you’ll get there in no time.
The best options they offer are the Syn, Trident, and the Progasm line:
The Syn models are made of silicone and are the best beginner models since they’re squishier and less intense than their counterparts. They come in the smallest Eupho shape and the ever-popular Helix shape as well.
Also, the little handle is pretty useful if you want to add extra pressure to your prostate. This helps in making your Syn toys still relevant as you progress and get a bit more advanced in the practice.
The Trident models are made out of body-safe brushed plastic. A material that is much more rigid than what the Syn models offer. Thanks to this, they offer stronger hands-free pressure & can be used with silicone lube as well.
They come in all the classic shapes offered by Aneros. With the Eupho being the smallest, followed by the MGX, the Helix, and the biggest being the Maximus
The Progasm models are the biggest models in the collection. Made for experienced users, they come in the classic brushed hard plastic and “Ice” material.
“Ice” is a smooth & transparent plastic alternative that is reminiscent of glass toys, an option that makes insertion much easier along with a good lube. The Progasms are compatible with silicone lube and come in two different sizes.
While you could easily just get one of these and call it a day, eventually it would probably be a good idea to invest in a bigger model. This is especially true if start with any model smaller than the Helix. Additionally, If you start with the Syn collection, you might eventually want to graduate to the Tridents for the extra pressure.
Otherwise, these prostate massagers are a great place to start and you could almost end there and still be satisfied for next the years to come.
Many sizes that go from very forgiving to very intense
Tantus is one of the leading brands of silicone toys. So when it came time to make a prostate massager, they knew they had to hit the ground running. With the supervision of Mr. Wills, a respected sex blogger, they went on to achieve just that.
The Prostate Play is not exactly for beginners, but its intense shape is hard to resist. Another neat feature is that the ribs at the base will help to secure the massager in place without a slip.
To top it all off, the included vibrating bullet can easily be swapped with the amazingly rumbly Tango, which turns this great toy into an amazing one.
So if you can’t afford the more powerful prostate toys just yet, it still leaves room for a good eventual upgrade eventually.
The Bullet being removable also means that you can clean this massager with ease by simply boiling the whole thing or throwing it in the top rack of the dishwasher.
If you want an intense shape and vibrations without sacrificing the ease of cleanup of your usual motorless designs, this is definitely your guy.
Plus, if you eventually decide to replace the included vibrator with a Tango, the final score could easily go up to 90, if not more.
Grippy base that's prevent it from slipping out
Easy to clean & maintain
Vibrator is underwhelming and is pretty much meant to be replaced with something better
There’s something about Njoy’s toys that is very classy, while still being rugged and manly.
The Pfun is basically the deluxe edition of the No.46 mentioned above. But this time around, it’s made out of heavy-duty surgical stainless steel!
Everything that was said about the first entry is still true, except that this thing is much heavier. And while you might think that weight wouldn’t play much of a role stimulation-wise, there’s a “je ne sais quoi” about it that makes the experience much more intense.
These two prostate massagers are also about the same size, with the Pfun being a tad larger. The shape of the Pfun is also better than it’s glass competitor. Furthermore, while it takes some effort to break borosilicate glass, it would be almost impossible to break this little guy.
The only downside is that since this prostate stimulator is pretty heavy, it is definitely not hands-free if you’re standing up. So if you’re planning on standing or walking around with this guy inserted, you probably would be better off to go with one of the other options.
This is an amazing prostate massager if you’d like a bit more control over your prostate stimulation.
It is also so durable that it might very well outlive you.
This hands-free prostate massager is by no means for beginners. But if you have some decent anal experience under your belt, get ready to fall in love.
If you only look at the shape, and not the crazy features it comes with, this silicone toy is essentially a hybrid between a butt plug and a prostate toy. The neck is also pretty wide compared to the more traditional prostate stimulators. Meaning that it’s perfect for anal training or if you simply like the feeling of dilation.
If what was just said doesn’t deter you, know that it gets much, MUCH better.
First of all, the head of the prostate toy rotates. Providing that rhythmical pressure the prostate is known to love. But what really makes this male toy really shine is that there are rotating beads in the neck of the plug as well, giving you a sensation of getting rimmed by a robot with a tongue that never tires.
The Rimmers’ Model M sports 5 different speeds of rotation and 5 incremental vibrations controlled bya handy little wireless controller. It is rechargeable through USB thanks to a neat little magnetic charger and it comes with a hard carry case to protect it on the road.
Prostate stimulation, two different simultaneous rotations, vibrations, AND wireless control?!
If you’re looking for a prostate massager that does it all, this is it, folks.
Lovense is mostly known for making toys for sex cam performers, being pretty much the only company making devices that natively react to the spectator’s tips.
Most of their toys are also pretty good for long-distance relationships or public play since their toys can be wirelessly controlled via any smartphone.
The Edge is no different and while it seems visually and functionally identical to the Bruno or Hugo mentioned further down, it does have a few interesting unique features. Like Lelo’s effort, it offers pretty strong vibrations, with motors on both the perineum and prostate, as well as being rechargeable.
Just keep in mind that if you’re a beginner, you would be better off with the more accessible Hugo or Bruno since this prostate massager is a bit more on the thicker side.
So why would I add a prostate massager that is essentially a slightly larger clone of another product in this list? Well, it’s because tricky old Jimmy kept the best for last, of course!
The Edge features a completely adjustable prostate arm. So If you’ve had issues in the past with the fit of your prostate toys, this is as good as it gets.
The only real issue I have with this prostate massager, and this applies to most Bluetooth toys, is that connection can be a bit hit and miss at times. If the signal has to go through a person, or even just a leg, it might not reach its destination.
Whether you need a customized fit, a cheaper option to the remote-controlled Hugo, or even if you’re just looking for a good LDR toy, this toy will be absolutely fit for the job.
Alright, I know these dildos aren’t prostate massagers per se but, when it comes to prostate stimulation, they could definitely rival with a lot of the toys mentioned on this list.
Plus I needed to at least add one entry for those of us who enjoy penetration.
So if you are less about direct pressure or the set and forget kind of mentality some of the previous toys offer — or even if you just want to add more variety to your prostate tool kit — this entry is definitely for you.
This is because proud owners prostates across the world have fallen in love with New York Toy Collective’s Pack & Play toys.
This is all thanks to their pronounced (yet soft) heads, known to reduce even the most demanding of dudes into puddles of their former selves. Plus, with their large base, these dildos are also perfect for pegging!
While the Pack & Play Dildos were originally meant to be worn by Trans Men, cisgender guys should definitely not let that deter them. That’s simply because the posable shafts meant to easily be tucked away in pants ( That’s basically what packing means ) can also be used to get the perfect angle for penetration! And we all know how picky with angles a prostate can get.
Another great selling point is that NYTC offers a multitude of gorgeous colors to pick from, so it’s perfect if you’re not that into dicks in general.
But those who prefer their dildos as realistic as possible should rest easy since most of their toys come in many shades of natural skin tones as well!
Though they aren’t branded as such, the Pack & Play dildos are some pretty amazing prostate & pegging toys and you should definitely consider them. Especially if you’re into penetration!
Plus, if you buy from them, you get to support an awesome independent, sex-positive, and queer-friendly company. Something that is well worth considering when you’re voting with your money!
Dual-Density ( Squishy yet stiff )
Gorgeous marbled colors as well as natural ones
Pronounced head feels great on g-spots & prostates alike
Yep, Njoy again. Can’t you tell that I love this company already?
I know I mentioned this toy in the G-Spot guide and I know I referred you to that article earlier as well. But it simply is just that good.
It’s good to know that these toys aren’t for the uninitiated and they’re definitely not “set and forget” like many of the hands-free prostate massagers I’ve already covered.
These give you a much more hands-on experience, so it is crucial that you know what you are doing. But once you get accustomed to them, these two offer some of the most intense leverage that you will ever find in any other prostate massager.
Like the Pfun, they are also made of ultra-hygienic, nearly indestructible surgical stainless steel. This means they can be sanitized fully and they both work pretty well for temperature play as well.
The pure wand is also long enough to invite another partner at the other end may it be a man or a woman since the shape is amazing for G-Spot stimulation as well.
There are two options to choose from, being the Pure Wand, and the Fun Wand.
The Pure Wand has two differently sized ends, one small beginner friendly tip and a much more sizable end for when you want to crank things up to 11. It also sports the most intense curve of the two.
The Fun Wand is perfect if you don’t care much about the bigger end of the Pure Wand.
Instead of a large tip, this one has anal beads that double pretty well as a handle when needed.
So if you or your significant other are into anal beads, this could be a pretty awesome alternative.
And these guys are HEAVY! So if your home ever gets invaded in the middle of some nighttime fun, you could definitely take another man’s life with one of these.
Needless to say that this is a must-have for anyone who needs all the pressure and versatility they can get.
But it might be a bit of overkill for those only looking for a prostate massager for prostatitis.
Most intense shape out of any prostate toy
Insane amounts of leverage thanks to the length and curve
We-Vibe has really been spoiling women with recent releases like the Moxie & Chorus, along with already established classics like the Tango & Rave. I always loved the brand but always from a distance as they never really made anything substantial for us men.
Then they released the We-Vibe Vector and boy they did not disappoint!
The Vector is small yet powerful, so it’s perfect for beginners and pros alike.
I’d even argue that it’s the best prostate massager for beginners who enjoy a bit of vibration.
Plus, small powerful vibrating prostate toys are really a rarity in the prostate massager world. So I’m definitely not complaining about this new release!
As most self-respecting vibrating prostate toys, We-Vibe’s Vector spots 2 vibes. One internal while the other rests conveniently on the perineum. You can even use the vibrators individually, letting you warm yourself up with some perineum action before getting serious with the prostate vibe!
The Vector also borrowed an important feature from the Chorus: Its adjustable neck.
Or did it borrow it from Lush’s Edge?… Who cares, we need more adjustable prostate massagers!
It’s a feature that makes the Vector much more likely to fit your anatomy. And if you’re feeling up to a challenge, you can also adjust the curve to apply even more pressure to your prostate. It’s like multiple toys in one, baby! Broke boys unite!
Of course, this wouldn’t be a We-Vibe toy without some nice features for couples.
So, if you’re into public play and/or are in a long-distance relationship, get ready to like this toy even more!
The included remote is a welcome addition as it is a bit more convenient in the bedroom. Heck, it even makes solo play better.
But the phone app offers way more options and ways to customize your experience. It allows you to use the Vector from any distance and it’s also more convenient to use in public if you’re into that!
The We-Vibe Vector is packed with features and is suitable for both beginners and pros.
Plus, if you’re in a relationship, you’re partner is bound to get a kick out of it as well!
Can be controlled via an App or Remote
Can be worn on the go
Easy to clean
Bluetooth can be finicky ( Like all other bluetooth devices )
While Lelo has released other prostate toys before the Bruno & the Hugo, they didn’t leave that much of an impression in terms of shape, strengths, and innovation.
Enter Bruno & Hugo.
Both toys feature very strong rumbly vibrations, two heads including one that vibrates on the prostate and the other on the perineum. Directly on the prostate massager, there’s a simple 1 button interface. You simply press it to start the toy and press again to cycle through the 6 powerful modes.
The silicone covered body is not too big either. So while this might not be the perfect first-time prostate massager, it is still pretty accessible to most.
They both can be used in the shower or bath without any problems. And to top it all off, they’re both USB rechargeable and covered by Lelo’s great warranty.
The real difference with the pricier Hugo is that it comes with Lelo’s SenseMotion wireless controller. And what a difference it makes!
First of all, the remote adds much more control over the vibrations themselves. You can customize the 6 function’s strength to small incremental amounts. So if your prostate likes a more gradual climb, it can be well worth the investment.
And if you want, you can turn on the SenseMotion.
This neat little feature allows you to either gradually raise the vibrations by tilting the toy up to 90 degrees.
The second mode makes the vibrations more intense the harder you shake the controller. And this would be just a bad gimmick if the controller didn’t vibrate.
That’s right, the vibrations in the controller imitate any vibrations found in the prostate massager itself.
If hearing this doesn’t spark your imagination, let me help you get the ball rolling ( get it? ).
If by yourself, you could put the controller on the shake mode and masturbate with it, holding the vibrating controller unde your penis. As you get more into it, the prostate massager will vibrate more and more intensely, making it a very organic experience.
If with someone else, he or she could masturbate themselves with the vibrating controller and you would both be riding the same wave! Or they could put in on tilt mode and act like they were the Caesar of your prostate!
While the Bruno works well by itself, the vibrating remote of the Hugo makes it a much more versatile massager. It is a better option for someone who prefers a more gradual climb, or for anyone in a relationship.
So if you can afford it, definitely consider the upgrade!
Can be controlled wirelessly
Vibrating remote mirrors the vibrations in the toy
If you took most of the best features of every prostate massager in this list and crammed them all into an elegant & accessible toy, you’d get the Revo Slim.
This prostate massager is covered in silicone, has 6 powerful vibration modes that vibrate on both the prostate and perineum. The Revo Slim is also USB rechargeable and comes with a 1-year warranty.
The insertable end rotates in whichever direction you want it to and has two different speeds of rotation. And if you know a thing or two about the prostate, you know that this is very good news.
This prostate toy can also be remote-controlled from up to 30 feet away. Furthermore, it can also be controlled with buttons found directly on the prostate massager itself. This way you don’t have to manage two set of batteries if you prefer to ride solo.
Compared to its previous iterations, the Revo Stealth and Intense, the Slim is smaller, stronger, more durable and completely safe to use in the bath. So it’s definitely an upgrade.
Still, if you would rather have something a bit bigger to squeeze on, the Revo Stealthor the next entry will probably work better for you. But in case you decide to go with the Stealth, just keep in mind that this prostate massager is not safe to use in the bath like the Slim is.
Whether it’s for solo or couple play, the Revo Slim, is an all-around winner.
So if you can’t decide between any of these other toys, this might be the perfect compromise.
The Loki Wave is the first toy for men to include Lelo’s WaveMotion technology.
It’s a unique function originally designed for Lelo’s best-selling G-Spot & Dual toys.
But the G-Spot is not the only nerve cluster in town that enjoys that type of stimulation. And luckily, Lelo listened and gave us this amazing prostate stimulator.
I mean… just look at this thing go:
Now, you will need some decent anal experience to enjoy the Loki Wave since it’s about twice the size of the Hugo. But if you can fit about two fingers in there comfortably, this shouldn’t be too much of a problem. And rest assured, the Loki Wave is also relatively easy to insert since it has a nicely tapered tip.
The Loki Wave is also made of medical-grade silicone, rechargeable, fully waterproof and vibrates strongly on the perineum and prostate with 10 different modes to pick from. And even though it has a handle, it is also completely hands-free if you want it to be.
The Loki Wave also works impressively well with women!
Just make sure to sanitize it properly with a 10% bleach water solution followed by a good rinse beforehand if you want to avoid any complications!
I only wish that the vibrations were just as strong as the Hugo and Bruno, and the motions just as fast as the Revo Slim. But I’m nitpicking here.
With all things considered, the WaveMotion technology along with the size and the dual vibrations of the Loki Wave are more than enough and certainly won’t leave you underwhelmed.
Completely hands-free ( with the option of using the handle )