Dick and dick accessories en masse!
Let me yell this to the world: sex toys aren’t just for cis women!
For trans men, strokers and realistic wearable dicks are holy grail toys. Not only can they provide novel and gender-euphoria-inducing pleasure, but they can help trans masculine people meet specific needs in order to better connect with their partners intimately.
Strokers aren’t all made equal though, and don’t let flashy names or gimmicks get you: some of these are just plain junk. Don’t put junk on your junk, folks! Your genitals (and wallet) deserve more than just a cheap rubber donut that smells like a tire factory. Treat yourself!
No Scrubs
We at Tabooless want to encourage safer sex and safer toys. For that reason, I’m not going to recommend two of the most commonly advertised products for trans men: Buck Angel’s two strokers (the Buck Off, and the Kiss X), or the Good Head Helping Hand.
I had high hopes for the Buck Off, until I saw that it was made with rubber which is a porous unsafe material. The Buck Off somehow is too large for my anatomy, which… rude but in a truly confusing way. It provides no suction, which is kind of half the fun of most toys on this list! Frankly, it would be better suited as a stroker for the head of a penis than a T-dick (It also seems as though Buck Angel’s toys have been discontinued as of summer 2021. Oops!).
The Good Head Helping Hand is equally a bit of a nightmare. It reminds me of those clear gummy bears and smells like one too. Any kind of odd smell from a rubber toy is a huge red flag, and this one is almost nauseating. The toy is also somehow both slick and sticky, which comes from the unsafe material it’s made of (UR3).
If you’re invested in knowing what’s good for your body, take a look at Dangerous Lily’s post about unsafe toy materials. If the melted dildo jar isn’t going to push you towards safer materials, I’m not sure what will.
Again, don’t worry, I’m not coming to take them away from you. If they work well for your anatomy, awesome! Enjoy with gusto! Show that FTM stroker who’s boss! I’m just not going to review or advertise either of these toys with any seriousness.
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Great affordable stroker & mini pump combo |
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Best cheap Realistic Stroker for that gender euphoria! |
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Most customizable FTM sex toys for all sizes & needs |
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Fascination Sleeves in a dick costume! |
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Amazing FTM stroker & prosthetic combo that’ll feel like it’s your own |
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Best air-pulse/suction toys that can double as a FTM Masturbator |
Shotpocket from FTM Pitstop
CONCEPT: 4/5
When I first started taking testosterone, I knew I’d have to prepare for the expected and intense burst of sex drive. It can rock your world, making you feel like a chaffed pubescent teen who spends way too much time alone.
I wanted to try a toy that would make me feel gender euphoria, but also wanted a toy that had suction in order to encourage more bottom growth. (Yes, trans men aren’t immune to dick size insecurities.) The Shotpocket was an excellent first-time toy, and I recommend it constantly!
DESIGN: 3/5
It’s a big blue marshmallow. Ever want to fuck a gusher? This can fulfill that fantasy!
I’m joking, but it’s true. Still… I actually like the design! It isn’t intimidating and is just a fun squishy treat for your junk.
FIT: 4/5
The toy fits so many different sizes! It’s one of the major reasons why I recommend this toy so often. The texture of the silicone is so stretchy and smooth, it seems to fit everyone. However, if you are a bit larger than average (you lucky dog, you!), I would choose something else like GenderCat’s Fascination Sleeve.
USE: 3/5
This is a two-in-one toy, with two very different uses! First, this toy can suction onto your anatomy and be kept on. Please use water-based lube to avoid bruising, because wow that would absolutely suck (pun intended). The suction won’t be as powerful as a dedicated vacuum pump, but for someone looking to just enhance their t-dick or test it out? It’s a wonderful companion for that!
As a stroker, this toy is enjoyable. The texture inside is subtle, potentially to a fault; it’s so smooth that with lube, you can hardly feel the ripples. I would adore this stroker over all others if FTM Pitstop had different textures similar to the Tenga Eggs!
It’s also easy to clean: flip it inside out, wash with soap and water, and leave it air dry!
BOTTOM LINE:
- Excellent first-time FTM stroker
- Affordable, and entirely silicone
- Dual-use: it’s both a stroker and a suction toy
- Squishy fuckable marshmallow, what’s not to love?
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Banana Prosthetics Strokers
CONCEPT: 5/5
The Banana Prosthetics strokers are fantastic. Unlike some products on the market that advertise themselves to be 5-in-1 dicks (stroker, packer, STP, MP3 player, can opener…), the Banana Prosthetics S2 ( the one I tested, but not the only one in their collection! ) does one thing incredibly well: stroking.
Let’s get into it.
DESIGN: 5/5
This is very possibly the most realistic stroker I’ve tested ( other than the Hot Rod, but more on this one later! ). I’m pretty sure it’s modeled after a bio-penis and not sculpted, which completely takes it to a whole other level of realism.
Plus, it comes in a ton of realistic color skin tones! So it’ll fit you no matter what!
FIT: 5/5
When I saw the size of the hole for the stroker, I was a bit nervous that I had ordered the wrong size. (That’s not a brag, just a concern!) The owner of the company, however, assured me that their product was made differently than other silicone strokers on the market currently. Exciting!
He was absolutely right, this dick fit like a dream. Since the product was made out of incredibly stretchy silicone, it’s much softer than anything else I’ve tried and it fits like a glove… Or, uh, more like a sock but you get the image.
USE: 5/5
I didn’t realize how much I would love this toy. I’m always excited to try a new trans masc product, but when I tried this toy I knew it was different in a way that had to be experienced.
I love the current lineup of FTM strokers on the market; most of them are dual-purpose and can be used as a pump as well. However, sometimes I can find the suction a bit too stimulating for a simple session, you know?
Most strokers for trans men are made to stick onto your dick with suction, which can be a bit too intense sometimes. There are hardly any strokers for people who want the experience of having the FTM equivalent of a Fleshlight, but this firmly feels like that.
This was squishy in a way where the inside of the toy felt delicate and more realistic than any other. I’m sold!
BOTTOM LINE:
- If you’re looking for something without intense suction, this is it.
- Really the closest thing to a cis man’s Fleshlight!
- Looks and feels like your own dick in use, which is very gender euphoric!
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Fascination Sleeve from GenderCat
CONCEPT: 5/5
For a fuckable tube, this is seriously luxurious. With 14 different color choices, three sizes, and two distinct internal textures, the Fascination Sleeve is worth trying!
DESIGN: 5/5
It’s like… fucking a squishy soft wheel for a roller skate…. which is not a bad thing! (Wheels for skates are so fucking cool, don’t lie!)
I received a Fascination Sleeve in a shimmery teal color and a similar blue pearl color. They are gorgeous, and the silicone is premium quality. Don’t be surprised if you catch yourself eyeballing the hypnotizing silicone swirls, or anxiously squishing the toy during another Zoom meeting.
FIT: 5/5
So I fucked up.
Initially, I was humble and went with the “medium” size. This was an amateur move, and as a sex toy reviewing professional, I was a bit embarrassed when I realized my mistake. Luckily GenderCat kindly included a Fascination sleeve in their largest size. Huzzah! It fits like a glass slipper given by a fairy godparent!
In my opinion, unless you are very small, go a size up. Don’t make the same mistake I did! When wearing the sleeve, your bottom growth will get a bit bigger from the increased swelling (the good kind of swelling). Sure, the medium size does fit but after a few minutes, it pinches and chafes.
Unless you’re into that kind of mild genital torture, go a size up. Trust me.
USE: 4/5
Hello hello, this bad boy almost has it all!
First off, and I will stand by this brave yet controversial opinion: bumps are the best texture. There, I said it! They work so well for my anatomy, I think I audibly giggled when I was testing it out.
The largest size was in the ridges texture, which was nice but sometimes a bit overstimulating for me. I wish it had a bit less of a sharp edge to it, but otherwise absolutely fantastic.
BOTTOM LINE:
- Do you customize everything you own? This FTM stroker is made for you (literally).
- Excellent quality across the board
- Wondering about your size? Size up a bit to prevent any painful pinching.
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Top of the Cocks: Gender Extender by GenderCat
CONCEPT: 5/5
What an absolute chad of a product. I knew I’d like this product, but didn’t realize it would become so dear to me which is saying a lot for a silicone suction dick.
The Gender Extender increases my euphoria by leaps and bounds. I don’t have much bottom dysphoria, but when I attach this bad boy to my body, I get a surplus of gender euphoria. Extra euphoria, as a treat!
DESIGN: 5/5
You beautiful, simple dick. It’s more detailed than a simple packer, but not so detailed that it becomes unsettling. This is the denim jacket of dicks: goes with everything, is customizable, and looks so damn good.
The skin tone is a bit light for me, but that could have been avoided if I was a little more careful with the color I picked. (In my defense, I apparently forgot that sun tanning is a thing that occurs during the summer.)
FIT: 5/5
The fit is similar to GenderCat’s Fascination Sleeve, so again I’m immensely grateful they sent multiple sizes! The largest size fits like a dream, which is also a bit of a dick-ego boost.
USE: 5/5
Warning: the suction can be intense. Be mindful of that, and use way more lube than you think you’ll need. These guys totally eat up lubricant, so you might have to reapply if you’re planning on wearing this a bit longer than a simple 5-minute quickie.
Be careful about using it for long periods of time. Use tons of lube, take breaks, and don’t go overboard! You will not suction cup your t-dick into being a massive chode overnight.
One of my play partners came over just hours after I received the package (heh), and it was… glorious. Do you know how much gender joy I felt when I took off my pants and had the visible boner of my fantasies? The toy can suction on and stay put, so I was able to move around a lot more than I expected.
The toy is thick, and the silicone is very sturdy. Texture-wise, it’s not the most realistic feeling but that doesn’t take away from the merits of the product!
When my partner put his mouth around the Gender Extender… well, I might have died? I’m not sure, it was too much gender euphoria and sensation combined. (I guess that makes me a ghostwriter? Nyeh heh heh.)
A bit of a downside for this product is that it can be a bit tricky to wash. I cut a piece of sponge to fit inside so I can wash out all the lube, plus another sponge to dry it out as much as possible. It’s not like the Shot Pocket that can be flipped inside out to clean or dry.
BOTTOM LINE:
- This toy won my heart, it is my champion.
- It’s a bit pricier than the others but incredibly worthwhile.
- Between two sizes? Go for the bigger one!
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Transthetics Hot Rod
CONCEPT: 5/5
If you’ve read my last article on the best trans play-prosthetics, you probably already know I’m a big fan of the Transthetics Hot Rod.
It’s beautiful, has a gender euphoric “bounce” when suctioned onto the body, and can even be used with a partner. It has everything you can imagine wanting in a dick! I mean, you can even add a bullet vibe discreetly in the toy. Come on!
DESIGN: 5/5
Look at this shaft. Look at it! It’s beautiful, I’m very surprised by the overall look of the Hot Rod.
The color selections from Transthetics look multidimensional, and suit my skin tone well! Like, in a “wow my dick went on vacation and got a sunny tan” kind of way.
FIT: 5/5
I’ve said it before, I love the way the Hot Rod fits on my body. Not only does the toy fit my body physically well, but I feel physically more attractive with it on.
Having said that, I know a couple of people who have had difficulty with the Hot Rod due to having fleshier pubic mounds. If this is an issue for you, keep that in mind and possibly reach out to the company to see what can be done if your heart is set on buying the Hot Rod.
USE: 4/5
Out of all the firm silicone strokers or prosthetics of this style, this is very likely my favorite. It feels like the Swiss Army Knife of dicks! Fantastic all around and wearing it feels incredibly affirming, even (and especially) solo.
However, due to the firmness of the dick, it feels sometimes better suited to partnered sex than solo sex. It’s a bit harder to “jack off”, but still incredibly enjoyable.
I really love how practical (and hot) this prosthetic is, and I’m sure you will too. If you’ve been thinking of this prosthetic, just try it!
BOTTOM LINE:
- Most realistic & affirming toy on this list
- It’s a dick that you can easily bring with you on a date, or just use solo.
- For solo play, it’s very intense due to the suction power. But if it’s too much that can be remedied by taking small breaks.
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Honorable Mention: Trans-Friendly Suction / Air-Pulse Toys
These previous bad babes are all manually operated toys, as in, Fleshlights for transmasculine folks. But strokers aren’t limited to simple manual operation. Cis folks enjoy a variety of automatic and feature-packed strokers and there’s no reason why this shouldn’t apply to us as well!
If you are looking for an awesome suction toy that is large enough and with textured insides akin to any self-respecting FTM stroker, Satisfyer’s Curvy 1+ definitely fits the bill ( and your bits! ).
Alternatively, if you fancy, Lelo’s Sila is another great choice with plenty of suction, power, and room! These toys are awesome for people who enjoy high-tech vibrators, while also wanting to have a more gender-affirming experience.
I won’t be going into a deep dive in this article as I’ve already covered both of these toys in our previous air-pulse toys for trans men article. So head on over there for more information!
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Again, we would like to thank GenderCat, Transthetics, Banana Prosthetics, Number One Laboratory, & Shevibe for sending us some of the toys included in this review. This roundup wouldn’t’ve been possible without their help!
