It’s been a rough few years, and even though it has left a lot of us pretty darn broke, it doesn’t mean our needs vanished in the process. Hell, stressful times call for more vigorous masturbation than ever!
So what happens if you’re a broke gal with growing needs? Sex toys can be damn pricey after all.
Plus, cheap toys tend to be made out of toxic materials or just plain underwhelming!
Luckily for you, I’ve been doing this job for years and all this time & experience in the field helped me uncover plenty of affordable hidden gems that are not only safe but are also quite pleasurable nonetheless!
I’d suggest these toys to you even if you had all the money to spare, so we aren’t compromising here, folks.
With the toys & tools on this list, it doesn’t matter if you’re Pre-Op, Post-Op, or Non-Op. If you’re AMAB, transfeminine, & penny-pinching at the moment, this is the listicle for you!
Even if the toys seem like they’re meant for a specific scenario, read on as this selection is specifically catered to fit most, even if transition is very unique to the individual.
Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.
That being said, here’s our list of cheap sex toys for trans women, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.
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Cheap portable and powerful Magic Wand alternative |
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Pocketable & affordable Wand & Tango alternative |
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Best cheap beginner dildos for post-op & anal training |
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Budget “G-spot” toys for Trans women |
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Best rumbly G-spot vibrators with suction cups |
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Best budget body-safe dildos sorted by size |
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Great cheap body-safe butt plugs |
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Awesome & affordable gender gear |
Your New Favorite Wand
If you speak to any self-respecting trans woman with a masturbation habit, she’ll point out her Magic Wand ( or its growing list of alternatives ) as the hero of most of her best jilling sessions.
The reason for this is that it is powerful enough for pre-op/non-op women or even post-op folks who’ve lost a bit of sensitivity.
This is mainly due to the fact that the vibrations travel so deeply into your body that they can stimulate even the internal erogenous structures of your anatomy.
Plus, using a wand is definitely less dysphoria-inducing than a lot of the other alternatives for people who didn’t/won’t get bottom surgery. Hell, they’re so powerful, you can even use them over clothes if you’re more comfortable that way!
How does wand work on folks without bottom surgery?
Pre-Op/Non-Op folks can simply lay back and run the wand from the perineum to the tip of your anatomy and enjoy the gender-euphoric orgasmic waves that ensues!
The only problem is that the Original Magic Wand is 10 bucks too expensive to make it onto this list, and the newer versions of the Magic Wand & its alternatives are even more expensive than the OG!
Wands just aren’t synonymous with cheap! Except for one wand that is…
Orion’s “Your New Favorite Wand” is almost as powerful as the OG Magic Wand, but it is smaller, cheaper, & Rechargeable!
Of course, it won’t be as powerful as a mains-powered full-sized wand, but it is still quite impressive for its size! Plus, thanks to its large head, it’s still compatible with Magic Wand’s large range of attachments!
Thanks to its smaller size, it’s also easier to integrate during partnered sex or to throw into your bag as a travel buddy.
YNFW comes in a nice gender-neutral yellow and has 5×3 different modes: 1 constant vibration, 4 patterns, and 3 levels of intensity for each mode.
The vibrations start quite strong, so if you’d rather build up to it, I suggest starting away from your most sensitive regions and work your way there or play over clothing to dampen the vibrations.
I also love that it comes with a silicone head, a feature that beats even the Original Magic Wand’s textured PVC head.
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Blush Limited Addiction
Now, while tons of trans women swear by their wands. The small pocketable nature of bullet vibes is still hard to ignore.
This presents a new problem for those of us looking for a cheap toy since your standard affordable bullet is usually way too buzzy and weak to satisfy the needs wands can easily satiate.
What I usually suggest to transfeminine folks ( and women in general, to be fair ) is the rumbly Tango by We-Vibe. It’s so powerful it’s like a mini baby wand you can throw in your pocket!
But sadly, this bullet isn’t exactly cheap…
Enter the Limited Addiction, the almost perfect cheap Tango alternative!
Of course, being so cheap, this build won’t feel as luxurious as its competition and you’ll have to sacrifice a few premium features like being 100% silicone and the vibrations being a touch buzzier than the Tango.
But all things considered, it is still truly awesome for the price.
Plus, have you seen a groovier-looking set of toys? I think not!!
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Tantus Silk
If you like the idea of penetration, whether you’re post-op or pre/non-op, some training might be in order!
Butts and brand-spanking-new vaginas definitely require some patience in the beginning and golly do I have just the right beginner’s dildos for you, young padawan!
What makes the Silk so appealing as a starter dildo is that it come in 3 sizes, starting from VERY small to slightly above average and they are virtually frictionless!
The advantage of having dildos that are near identical in nature makes progressing in sizes that much easier. Plus, there aren’t any intense coronal ridges, textures, or a matte finish to get in the way of your progress. These are truly perfect beginner dildos.
I also love that they come in pretty gender-neutral colors like purple & black. So if you have a boyfriend who’s into pegging or are just sick of pink for every toy, no one will be offended!
For an extra 10 bucks: She-Ology Dilator Sets
I know it says these are more of an investment, but since they come in sets, they end up being way less expensive than the Silks in the long run. The big advantage here is that these can really gradually help you work your way up to full-size dils & dongs!
There are two sets, a beginner one and an advanced one for a total of 8 dilators.
The only issue with these is that they are made of a slightly matte silicone, so use extra water-based lube to mitigate the drag!
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Cheap G-Spot Dildos
I’m going to let you in on a little secret: The prostate and the G-spot are not only nearly identical, but they’re also pretty much in the same spot!
What this means for Pre/Non-Op ladies: This opens up tons of possibilities for nice and intense stimulation without having to actually buy dysphoria-inducing male-branded toys.
What this means for Post-Op Folks: Even if used vaginally, you can still get to your “G-spot” as vaginal walls are quite thin!
You should keep in mind: Hormones can sometimes shrink the P/G-spot, making it less accessible. Though prior stimulation does help making things more sensitive and accessible and that’s a pretty common trick for anyone trying to get to their fun spot ( woman, man, trans, or cis ).
Just know that if that still doesn’t work for you, it doesn’t make you less of a woman, as there are plenty of cis women with smaller skene glands as well ( and in some cases completely absent ones! ) and there are plenty of other great ways to get off!
Lastly, if you’re going to use these toys anally, just be careful as these toys generally don’t have stoppers, so never let go of that handle if you don’t want to lose your g-spot toy!
The Glas G-spot dildo is a double-ended, cheap yet functional, and hygienic G-Spot stimulator in a satisfying shape!
Glass means it’s rigid enough to be an effective g-spot toy even for the most buried & difficult spots. It also means it’s compatible with silicone lube, which is known to last forever and it doesn’t get sticky like its water-based counterparts!
Glass is also great for temperature play, it’s easy to sanitize, and it’s also nearly frictionless, making penetration and play a breeze!
The Pillow Talk Sassy is another great choice, especially if you’re not that into glass and prefer toys with rumbly vibrations.
It’s a nice versatile shape that adapts to being rocked or thrust. No matter your play style, it’ll follow along nicely!
This is also my top pick for a beginner’s toy as this doubles as a nice handheld wand, allowing you to explore internal and external vibrations along with G-spot stimulation.
So if it’s your first toy, once you’re done with it, you’ll be much closer to knowing exactly what makes you tick!
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Blush’s Impressions
Sure, I’ve pointed out a great vibrating g-spot toy in the previous entry, but that option is only available to you if you’re willing to go above our previously stated 60$ limit.
Why am I insisting on having a great affordable powerful vibrating G-spot toy on this list?
Well, it’s simple, they’re the most versatile sex toys around! They can be used as mini wands for external stimulation, used as internal toys, with or sans vibrations, and of course, be used as a g-spot toy.
It’s sort of a jack of all trades for your junk, really!
While powerful vibrating G-spot toys are extremely versatile, the Impressions are probably the most versatile of all!
That’s mainly because they also come with great suction cups! If you didn’t know, G-spot toys with suction cups are extremely rare. So are body-safe vibrating dildos with suction cups. And since these G-spot toys are straight enough to be used as vibrating dildos, the impressions definitely fit that niche as well!
So on top of being G-spot toys, vibrators, and mini wands, they’re also vibrating ( and non-vibrating when turned off ) suction cup dildos! It’s like a whole box of toys in one.
The Blush Impressions are not only nicely rumbly for the price, they also come in 5 unique models, have great suction cups, are rechargeable, and are fully waterproof!
I know it might sound too good to be true for the money, but hey that’s what Blush specializes in: Cheap and Great!
Plus being at 60$ exactly, it’s like they were made for this list!
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Affordable Body-safe Dildos
Shopping for dildos is a complicated matter, no matter who you are. We all have very specific views on what density, texture, size, and shape we’d like after all.
Plus, if you’re going to use these toys for anal or post-SRS, you’ll need to complicate things a tad further by trying to find nicely gradually-sized dildos. Especially if you’re not that into very medical dilators or the slightly boring but effective Tantus Silk mentioned above.
Well, you know what I say? You can always trust a guy called Jim the dildo dealer with such issues! Though I might be a little biased.
This list will be presented with gradually bigger affordable dildos, so it is specifically catered for someone trying to get used to anal or post-SRS penetration!
Though we do get really big in the end so if you’re already a size queen, don’t feel left out. That’s right giant affordable silicone dildos do exist as well!
Small dildos ( 0.75 to 1.25 inches in diameter )
Blush Temptasia Twist Small ( Diameter: 0.75 inches ) has a superbly smooth and silky feel. The body of the toy has a twist built-in, which is subtle and smooth as butter. There’s also the adorable heart-shaped suction cup that is shockingly cute AND powerful!
The Fuze Star ( Diameter: 0.9 inches ) is perfect if the jump between the Silk small & medium is a bit too intense for you. With the Silk small being at 0.8 inches in diameter and the medium 1.1 inches, the Fuze’s Star meets you right in the middle at 0.9 inches. Plus it has a pretty good suction cup for some hand’s free fun! Just beware that, unfortunately, this toy has a seam that can be a little irritating to some.
The Tantus Compact ( Diameter: 1 inch) is a great alternative to the above toys if you’re looking for something a little more realistic! I still suggest starting with the Small Tantus Silk and maybe the Fuze Star as well before moving on to this one though.
The Tantus Sport ( Diameter: 1.1 – 1.25 inches ) is essentially a Tantus Silk with a nice G-spot bulb a the end! With a 1.1 inch shaft and being 1.25 inches at its widest point, it would be good if you had some experience with the Silk medium at the least. Even better if you’re used to the Leisure!
The Tantus Leisure ( Diameter: 1.25 inches) like the Fuze Star is another perfect bridge, but this time between the Silk Medium (1.1 inches) & Large (1.5 inches). The leisure is a touch pricier than the other options as it comes with a removable vibrator. If you like that feature, I suggest you upgrade to a better vibe like the Tango as soon as you can!
Avant Pride P3 ( Diameter: 1.25 inches ) is a great small dildo sporting the colors of the lesbian flag! But lesbian or not, this dildo is still worth a look, especially with its satin texture, the springiness of the silicone, and its great suction cup. The P3 is very marshmallow-like in how squishy & comfortable it is!
Ergo mini ( Diameter: 1.25 inches ) are the OG affordable dual-density dildos. Before these bad boys came out it was impossible to find a DD dildo under 100$, so you better show some respect! They’re still worth your time too as they are deliciously squishy, though the suction cups are a bit underwhelming on this specific model.
“Regular” dildos ( 1.5 to 1.9 inches in diameter )
Coloursoft & Dual-Density Colours are not only some of the most affordable dildos around, but they’re also body-safe, varied, and come with pretty darn good suction cups!
It’s good to keep in mind that the OG Colours, while most affordable, are quite rigid. This coupled with their intense texture can become slightly irritating to some, so investing a bit more for the squishy Coloursoft or the squishy yet stiff Dual-Density Colours will be your best bet!
Blush’s Neo Elite dildos are extremely affordable dual-density dildos with great suction cups that come in gorgeous eye-popping colors.
For those who don’t know, dual-density means these dildos are naturally squishy on the outside while hard on the inside. Dual-density dildos are awesome to squeeze on while remaining hard enough to be functional!
BMS’ Naked Addiction 6 inches & 8 inches dildos are probably the most natural feeling affordable dual-density toys in the biz. Anything of that caliber is usually from high-end sex toy makers like Vixen Creations & Uberrime! So that’s huge coming from such a budget option!
Neo Elite Glow in the Dark toys are gorgeous glow-in-the-dark dual-density dildos ranging from abstract to semi-realistic. These are the perfect toys for those who are into the realistic feeling of dual-density but not so much into the realistic look of it all.
Glass Dildos
Glas Glass Dildos are the best affordable glass dildos in the business! They have tons of options, they’re made of durable borosilicate glass so they won’t break on you, and they won’t break the bank either!
For those who aren’t in the know, glass is a great body-safe material for folks who prefer rigid toys. They’re awesome for temperature play, see-through action, and it’s the most frictionless material around ( except for stainless steel, but that isn’t exactly cheap ). Couple these with a good silicone-based lube and never struggle to insert a toy ever again!
XL Dildos ( 2 Inches + in diameter )
Neo Elite Dual Density 10 & 11-inch dildos are the rare affordable exception when it comes to large toys. Usually, size queens need to whip out the big bucks for their big toys as silicone is quite expensive per pound.
But these are almost impossibly cheap with some pretty good suction cups to boot!
Fantasy Dildos
Addiction Tom & Ben are the unicorns of the fantasy sex toy world. Your usual suspects are quite the luxury items, which is a shame considering how popular fantasy/dragon dildos have become.
The Suction cups on these bad boys are pretty good too but again, the silicone can be a bit too rigid for some!
Creature Cocks is a pretty big step up when it comes to affordable fantasy dildos. It’s a pretty welcome addition as these are quite rare. The silicone is better than the above option.
The only real downside is that these are white-label toys, meaning that the molds aren’t unique to the brand itself so it doesn’t come with the artistry you’d find behind more premium brands.
WHERE TO BUY
There are a lot of toys represented here. Click through the links in the entry itself to find out about the best places to buy!
Body-safe Budget Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are the most universally appreciated toys across all genders! You’ll also be glad to hear that a lot of the best options around are quite affordable.
So here are a few of my favorites!
Training Butt Plugs
Anal Fantasy Plugs are your perfect affordable training butt plugs. They don’t come in a kit so you can get the specific size you need and work your way up to the size you want! No frills here, just good training plugs.
All-day / Long-Term Wear Plugs
Tantus T-Bar Plugs are a great choice when it comes to plugs you can wear as you go about your business. The T-bars sit comfortably between your cheeks and won’t get in the way when you sit down or walk around!
Everything Plugs
Squarepegtoys® Egg Plugs ( U.K. ) are amazing squishy plugs that can work for training, all-day wear, or just plain old fun! They come in a ton of comprehensive sizes, so just take your pick. Just as long as you don’t buy anything larger than the large plug, you shouldn’t blow your 60$ budget!
Oxballs Ergo Plugs ( Canada / U.K. ) have a ton in common with the above plugs except they come in a bigger variety of colors and levels of squishiness. They also have a nice curve to them which applies extra pressure in the direction of your choice ( if you have a man in your life, this could be their prostate! ). They’re a touch pricier though but if you buy any size from medium and down, it’ll stay under 60$!
Tail Plugs
Tailz Butt Plugs are a decent budget option if you’re looking for faux fur tails.
The main issue with these plugs is that the tails aren’t removable, which makes cleaning up a bit more complicated. Otherwise, they’re great little plugs if you don’t mind the extra clean-up time!
WHERE TO BUY
There are a lot of toys represented here. Click through the links in the entry itself to find out about the best places to buy!
Cheap Gender Gear
A lot of brands charge big premiums for their gender gear. While in many cases it’s a good idea to invest more for quality products, it seems like a lot of brands are just capitalizing on the fact that this is a smaller niche so they can just charge what they want.
But hey! There is still some great affordable gender gear out there, so broke gals rejoice!
Cheap Tucking Gear
Pre/Non-Op, broke, & planning on wearing something slightly revealing? No problem!
For starters, there is plenty of regular & affordable underwear that are great for tucking.
Lace underwear is pretty awesome as the material isn’t as stretchy as what you’ll find in basic cotton undies. If lace isn’t your thing and you like the feel/style of cotton panties better, go a size smaller or just double up for a pretty cheap DIY gaff.
Boy shorts, despite the slightly dysphoria-inducing name, are very popular amongst trans women as they are great for keeping everything safe and contained. If the name is making you feel a little icky, just remember it’s a popular style originally made specifically for cis women. It’s like the boyfriend hoodie of panties!
Tight yoga shorts will also work great on a pretty active day. As long as they’re structured, you should be good to go!
KT tape is another great cheap way of tucking, especially if you’re looking to wear something like a bikini or if you just want to avoid panty lines!
This is a great option if you want to wear a swimsuit to the beach as all KT tape is waterproof. That’s right, no need to invest in Pro tape, they all do it! ( Avoid buying Trans Tape as well, it’s the same thing but marked up to profit off trans people. Yuck! )
Of course, this option is best if you shave your bits bald, though a piece of fabric between your hairy spots and the tape can remedy that!
Gaffers, the dedicated option for tucking, are of course going to be great for the job as well.
While the classics ( like Leoline’s ) can be quite pricey, there are still some great affordable options to be had.
If you’re looking for something cheap, I’m a big fan of the Transform brand as they offer some pretty good gaffing underwear that won’t break the bank. Of course, they’re not as comfortable as Leoline’s but they’re awesome nonetheless.
Just remember to choose the right size, as tighter isn’t better here. It just means more injuries than anything else!
Cheap Waist Training Gear
If you’re craving that hourglass silhouette all the girls dream about, you might want to look into waist training! The problem is that corsets are REAL pricey.
But there’s another option: Cinchers.
Of course, you won’t get as dramatic results with these as with corsets, but they’re also healthier and easier to wear long-term.
Amazon Cinchers are especially a great deal for those starting out with waist training.
Most cinchers will usually allow you to trim off about 1 to 2 inches off your waist, while corsets can easily go up to 4 inches with enough effort & time. Of course, there are going to be fewer permanent gains with Cinchers but you really don’t want to cheap out on corsets as the cheap stuff can lead to some pretty bad injuries.
Plus, previous training with a cincher can get you ready to jump into corsets faster than if you started out with corsets in the first place, so if that’s what you want, it’ll “buy” you some time until you can afford a good one!
WHERE TO BUY
There is a lot of stuff represented here. Click through the links in the entry itself to find out about the best places to buy!