When I was a child, I heard the older kids talk about something called “cyber sex”. Ever my gadget lover and collector of weird facts parents didn’t want me to know, I asked what that was.
“Oh, it’s when you have sex with your Nintendo64,” the kid replied, confident and wise in his 10 years of life experience. “It means you can do it with people in Yahoo chat but only if you have a special controller.”
Sadly, I found out this wasn’t the case, but the idea haunted me for decades. As a young adult, I was constantly on the lookout for toys that would essentially fulfill that promise.
I wasn’t looking to hook up with Princess Zelda or her emotional support twink, but I was enchanted by the idea of toys working with the ever-prominent world wide web.
It’s 2025, and while it feels like the world is changing faster than ever, luckily, sex toys have finally begun to fulfill the promise I once expected.
Even better, they’ve become a cornerstone for many long-distance relationships, allowing partners to feel more connected than ever in their private play and webcam stripteases.
If you’d like an in-depth review of wearable vibrators and panty vibes, this is the article for you.
If you are interested in that elven threesome, or just how to connect these toys to interactive porn, games, and other content, check out my last article!
Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.
With that being said, here’s our list of the best long-distance sex toys & teledildonics options, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different!
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Simple and all-inclusive Teledildonic long-distance sex toys |
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Deeply customizable Teledildonics option & pioneer |
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Powerful, Rumbly Bluetooth sex toys with self-thrusting options |
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Amazing Sybian Alternatives for mind-blowing long-distance power |
So you’re in a long-distance relationship. Now what?
You and your sweetheart have tried everything: you’ve had phone sex, Zoomed, and sexted. Maybe, if you’re a millennial or older, you might have even had the ever-popular Skype sex session!
But what you desire more than pixels on a screen is the ability to interact with each other’s body, of moving your hands in a way that doesn’t just feel good for you but also for them.
What are you supposed to do?
Sex toys, dear reader. Sex toys! Let me help you explore the different possibilities you have with the incredible world of teledildonics, sex toys that can be controlled at a distance or control each other. So if you stroke yourself in one way with the toy, your partner’s toy will respond in kind. The future is now.
I’ll run down the three big heavy hitters of the teledildonic world, plus an ultra-luxurious option if you are interested in that one.
Teledildonics
Lovense’s Solace Pro & Mission 2
Who’s it for?
Lovense has quickly become one of the biggest and most popular companies for providing teledildonics.
Not only have they continued to innovate and improve existing toys, but they have managed to make a toy for every desire and in every style one could hope for. (Side note: they might offer a toy for every taste, but they’re limited on colors if that matters to you. It’s mostly pink, and black.)
Reviewing the toys
If you’re looking for a paired toy experience, try out the Solace and the Mission 2. Both toys can be used solo, of course, but where they truly shine is when they’re used together (as in couple play/teledildonics).
The Solace Pro is hard to describe without sounding hyperbolic: it’s a real-feel stroker with a whole-ass machine attached to it.
This said machine moves the stroker automatically. It has preset patterns, can connect and sync to certain types of porn, but can also be controlled using another toy like the Mission 2. (P.S. It can also be controlled by AI, so not only are the robots taking our jobs but they’re fucking our partners. The audacity!)
The Mission 2 is a vibrating dildo that adjusts the level of vibrations by how deep it’s inserted into the body.
Though this technology was first pioneered by companies like Kiiroo, the Mission 2 really perfects the experience. It’s such a novel and exciting way to control the toy solo.
And even though the Mission 2 is equally rigid to the older Kiiroo Fuse, I found it a touch more pleasurable thanks to its thoughtful shape.
But it is even better once connected to the Solace Pro.
You can control how the Solace strokes the user by how you use the Mission 2: if you insert the toy quickly in and out, the Solace bobs up and down on your partner’s dick in the same way. While I don’t enjoy how dang hard the Mission 2 is (I prefer a squishy dildo), I can’t deny it does its job well.
Both the Mission 2 and the Solace come with thoughtful accessories, like a desk mount or a removable suction cup and 180 degrees of rotation.
Really, Lovense is just killing it with this combination I can’t even lie.
Pros & Cons
Pros:
- All around, extremely well-designed long-distance sex toys.
- Both teledildonic toys pair well with each other and are responsive.
Cons:
- The Mission 2 is extremely firm, maybe too firm for some people.
- The Lovense app doesn’t include porn to “show off” or test the features of the Solace like the Kiiroo app does. (If you’re interested in it, check out our latest article on this!)
WHERE TO BUY
Kiiroo’s Keon, Pearl 2+, & Fuse
Who are they for?
In my eyes, Kiiroo toys are for those with exquisite taste and are fashion-forward. They’re a young couple. He’s in finance, she’s in marketing. They go out for martinis, flirt with the bartenders, and then go home to unleash all their pent-up sexual desire.
Kiiroo is probably best known for pioneering this futuristic line of Teledildonic sex toys and have recently become increasingly popular with their automatic sex toys primarily aimed at men and people with dicks (especially their Keon autostroker).
However, they’re constantly pushing the limits of how a toy can interact with the user, especially with porn!
Reviewing the toys
What’s exciting about Kiiroo is how each of their toys can control or be controlled by another toy. So a toy like the Pearl2+ (a sleek vibrating dildo) can control the speed and depth of the Onyx+, which is an auto stroker… so essentially a motorized Fleshlight-style toy.
I love that about the Keon and the Fuse/Pearl dildos!
The Keon is a large automatic stroking machine, and pairs with their sleeves of any style and genital preference. (Psst, they also work with the Fleshlight ones as well!)
I got a non-representative sleeve that looks like a sexy blackhole vortex, ready to stroke whatever you put in it. The inside of the sleeve is incredibly plush and squishy, with bubbles running down the inside to add extra stimulation.
But keep in mind that this is a huge toy. I mean, massive. But unlike the Solace from Lovense, it didn’t come with any included desk or wall mounts. This means you have to rest it on your lap, or buy one of the many attachments separately if you’re looking to use it in any other positions!
Before detailing how well the Keon and the Fuse function together, I need to dive a bit deeper into individual stuff I wasn’t super thrilled with. Starting with the design of the Fuse. I am sad to say… I don’t like it.
The Fuse is not as soft or as comfortable as the Keon.
This toy functions essentially the same way as the above Mission 2, which makes sense as it was the precursor to it all.
Not only is it quite possibly the smallest rabbit-style vibrator I’ve ever seen, but it is extremely firm to a fault. It feels like there’s only a thin coating of silicone over a plastic ABS shaft.
While this makes perfect sense (too much silicone would dull the contact from automatic sensors, and it is still a problem with Lovense’s take on the toys), I still find it really uncomfortable to use.
Not to be rude, but it personally felt like I was trying to fuck a gaming controller. Having said that, it’s a fantastic controller but a mid toy on its own, sadly.
I would probably skip the Fuse and opt for the Pearl line of long-distance vibrators instead.
These are their newest vibrators and are actively updated and upgraded, so they might be better in that respect. But I haven’t had the opportunity to try them just yet. So, no promises here!
However, once I got both toys connected, they worked extremely well with each other!
It was so exciting to see how quickly each toy responded to the other.
The Kiiroo Feel Connect app also allows one toy to control multiple toys at a time, so you’re not limited at all! So if you’re interested in adding another level of stimulation, you can also ( for example ) try the Lumen butt plug and have all three toys work in tandem.
Pros & Cons
Pros:
- When paired together, the toys are extremely responsive to each other!
- The Feel Connect app has preloaded pornography, so you can see exactly how well the toy will respond to immersive porn.
- Multiple toys can be controlled all at once!
Cons:
- The Fuse’s design is lacking and not extremely comfortable. So I would go for the newer Pearl 2+ instead.
- The Feel Connect app can be finicky and freeze. I had to reinstall it in order for it to work with the toys.
- Any desk or pillow mounts for the Keon are sold separately.
WHERE TO BUY
Other Long-Distance Sex Toys
We-Vibe’s Bluetooth Sex Toys
Who’s it for?
We-Vibe’s toys are a tiny bit different than Kiiroo or Lovense’s teledildonics options; while they are perfect for long-distance relationships, they aren’t connected like the Keon and Fuse from Kiiroo are. So it’s one person wearing or using a long-distance vibrator, with the partner controlling it using the provided remote or app.
In my eyes, this is for the sophisticated couple who want a good quality, very approachable toy. We-Vibe creates fantastic products, but aren’t as wild or flashy as other brands. In my experience We-Vibe is perfect for people in the prime of their adult years, who know the value of a dollar but also value solid craftsmanship.
Reviewing the toys
We-Vibe is known for breaking the mold by creating some of the most innovative wearable vibrators back in the days when it was all cheap bullet vibes. They make some of the absolute rumbliest toys, so if your fantasies consist of a vibrator with the power of a thunderstorm, you’re in luck!
The Sync O is based on the design of their revolutionary wearable from 2008, with some modern changes and improvements.
All the important parts are made out of body-safe silicone, and the part that goes inside the body has been redesigned to allow for a more secure fit. What’s great about the Sync O is that it can be worn for multiple types of stimulation combinations: wear it solo, or wear it while being fucked with a dick (or toy or strap). Perfect for when you finally get to see that person in person!
You can also grab the Jive 2, which is a rumbly egg-style vibrator, similar to the Lovense Lush.
It is able to press comfortably against your g-spot while still vibrating enough to stimulate the clit with its adjustable tail.
Now, if you’re looking for an external vibe that can be controlled at a distance and attaches to your underwear, the Moxie is for you.
This is a fan favourite with a powerful motor and strong magnet to stay put in your underwear. All of these are perfect for a night of flirty texts, errands, and eventual naked video chat!
If butt stuff is more your style, but you don’t like big bum toys, We-Vibe’s Ditto might be perfect for you.
This is a fantastic little butt plug for someone who is new to anal, or just knows their limits. I don’t mean this in a bad way! It’s modestly sized, quite slim and packs a lot of power, so you don’t have to worry about being overwhelmed.
One of the best things about We-Vibe is its range of products.
So you can always find a toy that works with their app and appeals to whatever you prefer most! Just make sure to double-check the product pages, as not all of their toys can be controlled from a distance!
Pros & Cons
Pros:
- Beautiful toys that are body-safe and made to last. (I still have some from a decade ago!)
- Approachable, mature designs.
- The Sync O is Ideal for PIV or simultaneous dildo play!
Cons:
- Toys don’t connect and control each other.
- The app is pretty barebones in comparison to Lovense or Kiiroo.
WHERE TO BUY
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Lovense’s Bluetooth Sex Toys
Who’s it for?
Lovense also offers a wide variety of long-distance vibrator options that all work with their app. From rabbits to butt plugs, from nipple clamps to fucking machines, you definitely find the ideal toy for every desire on their website.
These are a lot like We-Vibe’s offering, but instead of focusing on beautiful and innovative designs, they are all about STRONG vibrations and flawless connectivity.
Reviewing the toys
Personally, I like their Hyphy, Gravity & Lush above all, as both feature unique designs and powerful vibrations!
The Hyphy is an extremely pinpointed & powerful external vibrator.
And while it looks more like an electric toothbrush, it offers an unparalleled experience. (You really have to try it to understand; it seems alien but in a good way.)
What if you’re missing your long-distance partner’s strap game? The Gravity is here to save you from your sex drought.
It’s a slim thrusting dildo that’s also a long-distance vibrator, but like every other toy offered by Lovense, it can be controlled by someone using the app. Despite its unassuming size, the Gravity can hold its own with some of the best thrusters on the market!
If you need even more power behind those thrusts, Lovense also makes makes 2 app-controlled, full-size sex machines.
They have all the features of traditional sex machines with the added functionality of long-distance controls! Just make sure to check out our Vac-U-Lock article for all the info you need on compatible dildos.
If you’re looking for something less involved but still powerful, the Lush 4 is the newest edition of their popular egg-shaped vibrator.
It’s incredibly rumbly and stimulating and stays comfortably inside the body while walking around or dancing or doing chores. (I mean, sometimes doing the dishes is boring so why not spice it up.)
And there are many more, since Lovense pretty much makes any sex toy imaginable, and they are almost all highly reviewed.
So if you’re looking for powerful Bluetooth butt plugs, wands, nipple clamps, men’s toys, or whatever else you can dream up, they most likely have their version in store!
Pros & Cons
Pros:
- Excellent toy options available!
- Fantastic phone app.
Cons:
- The colors are limited and possibly dysphoria-inducing for trans guys or just plain annoying for non-girly gals. But they often ( not always! ) have more gender-neutral black options.
- Toys don’t connect and control each other.
WHERE TO BUY
Motorbunny’s Long-Distance Sex Machine
Who’s it for?
The Motorbunny is for the person who is not a sex toy novice.
They know how much power they need to climax and aren’t shy about it. The Motorbunny could also be ideal for content creators. It’s the piece de resistance, not just a toy but a massive, beautiful piece of equipment.
Reviewing the toy
This is an EXTREMELY powerful toy. Ever heard of the Sybian? Well, this is even more powerful and packed with App options!
Ideally, I could see this being used on a weekend date night. You don’t want to rush the experience of the Motorbunny.
Set up a webcam, then give your lover control over the Motorbunny through the app for the hottest Skype/Zoom/Facetime meeting of their life.
I can see this also working for an open/poly situation. Imagine your partner is directing the action on webcam while partners B + C are making out on the Motorbunny and you acting as director.
Or maybe you’re in a Dom/sub situation? Well, the sub could easily have to submit, especially with the four points of restraint for wrist and ankle cuffs!
It’s worth noting that the Motorbunny comes in 2 different models:
The Original functions like the Sybian, with the machine’s internal part offering some sweet, sweet rotations.
And the Buck, where the internal part offers in-and-out motions like a more traditional fuck machine!
Pros & Cons
Pros:
- The most powerful toy on this list
- Great for Dom/sub relationships, thanks to both the power and restraint attachment points
- Comes with extra features like games and other app controls
Cons:
- It could be TOO powerful to some, though it’s sort of part of the appeal here.
WHERE TO BUY
We would like to thank Lovense, We-Vibe, Kiiroo, and Motorbunny for sending us the long-distance sex toys and teledildonics models included in this review. This roundup wouldn’t’ve been possible without their help!
