best couples sex toys

While classic sex toys are fun to use with a partner in ( or out of ) the bedroom, there’s nothing that says “You’re a keeper” more than getting your own couples’ toys.

Sadly, anyone who’s dabbled with dedicated sex toys for couple play knows that they’re mostly just another dumb way of getting rid of money.

But we’re now in the 2020s, baby! Couples’ sex toys are at last becoming worth the investment. We are truly living in exciting times.

Now I’m not saying that classic dildos ( realistic or not ), g-spot toys, masturbators, butt plugs, prostate stimulators, and fuck machines have no place in your couple’s arsenal. Heck, I’d even encourage adding those to your bag of tricks!

But today we’re focusing mostly on dedicated couples’ sex toys over the versatile basics.

We’re also not going to cover pegging toys & strap-ons as we already have a dedicated article on the subject!


Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.


That being said, here’s our list of the top sex toys for couple play, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.

TL;DR

 

Best affordable vibrating cock ring

Charged Cock Rings

 

Best stroker for blowjobs

Fleshlight’s Quickshots

hot octopuss atom Vibrating Cock Rings Best Couples Toys

 

Most powerful & rumbly cock rings

Hot Octopuss’s Atom

 

Best wireless & long-distance vaginal toy

Lovense’s Lush

best waterproof vibrators: Lovense's Hush 2 buttplugs

 

Best wireless & long-distance anal toys

Hush 2

Best coubles sex toys liberator

 

Best waterproof & easy to clean ramps, toy holders, & throes

Liberator

We-vibe moxie best Couples sex Toys

 

Best wireless & long-distance clit toy

We-Vibe Moxie+

Couples sex Toys we-vibe chorus

 

Best wireless & long-distance dual toy that can be used during penetration

We-Vibe Chorus

We-Vibe Vector Review best couples sex toys for the heterosexual

 

Best wireless & long-distance prostate toy

We-Vibe’s Vector+

 

Best wireless prostate vibrator & vibe combo for couples

Lelo’s Hugo

 

Best toy to simulate sex in a long-distance relationship

Kiiroo’s Pearl 2 or Fuse + Pearl 2

 

Cheap Couples’ Toys

Charged Cock Rings by Screaming-O

Charged screaming-o review Best affordable Couples vibrating cock ring

Thanks to their generally inexpensive nature, vibrating cock rings are usually the first couples’ sex toy heterosexual folks try.

But before we go any further, let’s break down the two main components of a vibrating cock ring:

The cock ring itself is worn like any other cock ring, may it be at the base of the shaft of past the testicles. Wearing it past the testicles also applies some pressure to the perineum, which is always a plus!

The vibrator is there to constantly vibrate on the man’s penis, which can be stimulating depending on the guy. During penetration, the woman will feel the vibrations through his member, and once completely inserted the bullet will vibrate against her clitoris as well.

For uninterrupted vibrations, the best position is to straddle your man and rock and rub instead of raising and falling as you penetrate.

Otherwise, if she’s just not that into clitoral vibrations, the ring can easily be flipped upside down for some perineum and testicular stimulation as well.

So why choose the Charged Cock Rings over all the other dirt-cheap models out there?

Well, compared to the unsafe, hard-to-clean, and borderline single-use nature of the classic vibrating cock rings, they’re made of durable body-safe silicone. This means they are non-porous so they can be completely sanitized as needed. Simply remove the vibrator, and boil your ring for a few minutes and you’re done!

While spending a bit more for a body-safe material is already worth the investment, this is not where the improvements end!

Instead of getting a cheap weak bullet with 1 to 3 functions that runs on crappy watch batteries that needs replacing every 45 minutes or so, you get a strong, USB rechargeable, waterproof vibrator with 10 functions to choose from.

So if you guys end up getting bored of the ring, you can still get a pretty good little vibrator out of it!

To top it all off, the Charged cock rings also come with a 2-year warranty.

Conclusion
We understand that Vibrating cock rings are not for everyone and the only way to figure out if its a fit is to try one out. But if you’re willing to give them a shot, the Screaming-O rings are perfect since they’re cheap, strong and body-safe.

Plus, if you end up disliking it, you can simply salvage the great little rechargeable vibrator that comes included. So either way, this couples’ sex toy definitely won’t be a waste of cash!

Material
8.5
Vibration
8
Features
8
Sensation
8
Pros
Comes with a great bullet vibrator
Rechargeable
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Can't be used along with silicone lube
8.1

 

Quickshot Boost & Vantage by Fleshlight

Quickshot review Best Couples Toys for blowjobs

 

Even though the Quickshots are the cheapest Fleshlights available, they’re by no means disappointing.

They’re inconspicuous, cheap, and feel almost as great as any other Fleshlight.

They also double as great toys for couple play since the open-ended design allows for your partner to fellate you while in use.

At the price of being a bit less stealthy, the transparent Quickshot Vantage also gives a pretty good view to your significant other as well!

We suggest using less lube than you would normally use while using it during a blowjob. Since lube will mix up with saliva and, through all that lubrification, you might lose the Quickshot’s great texture.

A good flavored lube will also go a long way in making the experience more pleasant for your SO. Otherwise, if your partner is well hydrated, nothing stops you from going all spit!

The only caveat is that the Quickshot can be quite noisy in use so, if the walls are thin where you reside, this might not be the optimal choice for a nice stealth BJ.

Conclusion
Unlike most other Fleshlights, the quickshot is almost tailor-made to be a couples’ sex toy.

So if you need something to spice up your blowjobs, or simply need to limit the depth of penetration for the sake of your airways, what are you waiting for?!

Material
8.5
Features
7.5
Sensation
8.5
Pros
Open-ended design makes clean up a breeze
Short enough so it can be used during blowjobs
Inconspicuous
Cheap
Almost as good as a the Full-Size models ( Minus the suction )
Transparent model gives a great view to your partner
Cons
No suction when used by itself
8.3

 


Mid-Range Couples Toys

Atom & Atom Plus by Hot Octopuss

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It seems like every other high-end sex toy company has had a go at luxury vibrating cock rings.

But most of these couples’ sex toys end up being quite underwhelming when you compare them to the big hole they just made in your pocket.

Here’s why the Atom & Atom Plus beat most other vibrating cock rings:

First of all, If you enjoy deep and powerful rumbly vibrations, this toy is a clear winner. It features 5 incremental vibrations that go from subtle rumbles to bone-rattling reverberations.

A nice plus is that the vibrations are strong enough for the reverberations to be felt throughout his manhood, effectively turning any man into a full-on vibrator.

The Atoms are also rechargeable via USB and both hold a charge quite well.

The only difference between the two models is that the Atom Plus comes with an extra vibrator that is meant to be worn past the testicles for some intense perineum action!

While you can’t boil these silicone cock rings due to their integrated electrical components, since they are fully waterproof, they’re still quite easy to clean.

If you want to fully sanitize them still, a simple 10% bleach water solution along with a good rinse should do the trick

The Atoms both come with a 1-year warranty, so use them to death folks!

Conclusion
While most high-end vibrating cock rings don’t live up to the expectations, Hot Octopuss took that concept and delivered in almost every way. 

So if you’re looking for a powerful couples sex toy, look no further!

Material
8.5
Vibration
9
Features
8.5
Sensation
9
Pros
Amazing vibration
100% Waterproof
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Can't use silicone lube
8.7

 

Lush by Lovense

Lovense Lush review best vaginal wireless long distance couples sex toy

If you’re looking for an app-controlled, powerful, and versatile vaginal toy to use in public, in the bedroom, or while pegging, you will love the Lovense Lush.

This great little long-distance toy can be used solo with your own cellphone through Bluetooth.

Of course, it can be controlled from long distances when connected to the internet and you can also grant access to a partner to control the toy over Bluetooth as well.

While it’s perfectly fine to use in the bedroom, you might come across some issues when using it in public.

You see, Bluetooth can be a bit tricky since it can’t go through flesh. So if your significant other is at a weird angle or if someone is in the way, you will lose contact with the toy.

A good fix to remedy this issue is to simply use the toy over 4G/5G or Wi-Fi when in public. It’s also good to allow your phones to stay connected to the Internet and Bluetooth when the screen is off. This can easily be tweaked in your phone’s settings.

It’s also worth noting that the tail end of the toy is the antenna. So if the antenna is between your legs, or in your butt crack, it will be difficult for the signal to reach its target. So it’s better to let the antenna rest over your pubic bone.

Otherwise, the app is pretty versatile. 

You can customize your vibrations and patterns, you can sync the toy to music, video chat with your partner while letting them control your toy, and so on.

The big caveat to almost any wireless toys for couple play is that they’re known to straight up not work for bigger women. So if it’s the case, you’re better off skipping the Lush and the next entry altogether!

Conclusion
Strong and filled with features, the Lush wins over most other wireless egg-shaped vibes out there.

It also helps that this great couples’ sex toy can be used in public, in the bedroom, and over long distances!

Material
8.5
Vibration
9
Features
8.5
Sensation
8.5
Pros
Can be controlled via an App
Control can also be given to a partner
Can be worn on the go or under a strap-on
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Bluetooth can be finicky at times
8.7

 

Lovense’s Hush 2

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These excellent wireless butt plugs are bound to be a hit with couples who enjoy a bit of anal play.

The Hush 2 comes in 4 comprehensive sizes, going from 1 inch in diameter to 2.25 inches! So no matter what’s your level of comfort with anal, the folks at Lovense have got you covered.

It can be controlled via an app on your smartphone or with buttons on the base of the toy. The app isn’t just a fancy controller. Here you can customize your vibrations and let a partner control your toy from any distance amongst many other extra features! Plus the T-bar base is super comfortable to wear over extended periods of time and while on the go, so it’ll absolutely go hand in hand with the remote controls.

Being from Lovense, the vibrations are also strong and rumbly so there are definitely no complaints here!

Just keep in mind that wireless sex toys in general aren’t perfect. The wireless signal has a hard time getting through people or limbs and they have a history of straight-up not working with bigger folks. Sadly, this is an issue with most wireless toys so we really can’t really blame it on them.

But Lovense is definitely the best one at handling those connectivity issues, so it’s still worth a shot with that in mind!

Conclusion
These toys are perfect for private or public play as well as long-distance relationships. So if you’re looking for strong vibrations in a wireless anal couples’ sex toy, this is a great option.

The lack of a physical controller for the hush makes it a bit awkward to use during sex though, as you will need to bring your smartphone along for the ride.

Material
8.5
Vibration
9
Features
9
Sensation
9
Pros
Powerful & rumbly
Can be controlled via an App
Control can also be given to a partner
Can be worn on the go or under a strap-on
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Bluetooth can be finicky
8.9

 

Liberator

Best couples sex toy holders and ramps liberator review

Liberator makes pillows, throws, ramps, and furniture built specifically for sexual intercourse.

All models are very easily cleaned. Their covers are removable and machine washable, so no need to change the entire set of sheets every time things get a bit intense.

Another great advantage is that they also make a lot of positions easier and less strenuous to achieve. So now you can simply enjoy the ride and stop building pillow forts between positions!

They make ramps and wedges made to align any man’s/pegger’s appendage directly onto their significant other’s G-Spot/Prostate.

The angle provided will even work whether you’re on your back or on your belly! 

Plus a ramp allows the person on the bottom to get comfortable and just enjoy the ride instead of getting progressively cramped up, being stuck in an awkward position.

Liberator Fascinator Throw Couples sex Toys

If you want to keep things simple, their super soft, absorbent, and waterproof throws are also a lifesaver.

They’ll also work against whatever fluids you throw at them, may it be lube or your own. So if you’ve got a squirter on your team, you’re welcome.

I also love that they come in multiple colors and sizes.

Liberator BonBon Toy Mount Couples sex Toys

Want to include dildosg-spot toys during play?

If they don’t have suction cups, the Bonbon & the Wing are perfect for that.

Whether you just want to watch the action or live up some kind of threesome fantasy without including other people into the mix, these pillows will hold your toys in place without a hitch.

Couples sex Toys magic wand holder liberator

A fan of the unbelievable strength of the Magic Wand

You probably already know how unwieldy it is to use during intercourse.

Well, Liberator’s Axis and Wanda aim to fix that, giving you a hands-free and comfortable experience during sex or solo play.

Liberator Fleshlight Top Dog Toy Mount Couples sex Toys

For men, there are also their Fleshlight mounts.

The On a Mission and Top Dog mounts are both great options if you feel like enacting your threesome fantasies without the risk of adding an extra party to your already solid team. It’s also a pretty decent option if she just likes to watch!

Both models are also very easy to clean, even if they’re the only liberator models without removable covers. Simply wiping with a bit of soap and water should be enough for most situations.

Conclusion
Whether you want to use sex toys or not, Sex just feels so much better when things are properly aligned and Liberator will make sure that it’s the case every time!
Material
9
Features
9
Sensation
8.5
Pros
Makes a lot of positions more comfortable
Keeps your bed clean
Toy holders allow for hands-free toy play
Removable covers for easy clean up
Cons
Can't think of any
8.7

 


High-End Couples Toys

We-Vibe Moxie+

We-vibe moxie review best wireless panty vibrator Couples sex Toys

If you guys like the idea of wireless sex toys for public play or long-distance relationships but she’s not that into insertable vibrators, you don’t have a lot of options left.

But let’s face it, most panty clit vibes are utter trash. They’re usually a mix of weak vibrations, bad placement, and horrible connectivity.  

If that’s been your experience as well, get ready to get your mind blown by We-Vibe’s Moxie+!

The Moxie+ is a remote-controlled panty vibe that’s held in place by a powerful magnet.

It can either be remote or App controlled.

Since We-Vibe is a long-time leader in couple’s toys, you’ll also benefit from their signature app, packed with helpful features for folks in long-distance relationships as well as for people just looking to get off on go!

Being the makers of the extremely popular & powerful Tango, I had a lot of expectations when it came to the vibrations.

While the Moxie+ doesn’t reach the heights of Tango, I’m happy to say that the vibrations are still pretty impressive none-the-less!

At its maximum strength, it’s actually pretty similar to the Tango’s 3rd setting, which is definitely no slouch.

The only real downside is that since this toy’s motor isn’t inside the wearer & pretty powerful, it’s noisier than most wireless vibes.

So if you’re all about that public play, make sure to only use it in noisy environments. It’s definitely good for the streets & movies, but absolutely bad for your inlaws and the library!

Conclusion
The Moxie+ is the best wireless panty clit vibe around, PERIOD. So don’t bother with all the other crap and get on it!
Material
8.5
Vibration
9
Features
9
Sensation
9
Pros
Can be controlled via an App or controller
Can be worn on the go or under a strap-on
Stable
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Bluetooth can be finicky
Noisier than other wireless toys
8.9

 

We-Vibe Chorus

wireless long distance Couples sex Toys we-vibe chorus review

I’ve seen every iteration of We-Vibe’s flagship couples’ sex toy. This iconic hands-free sex toy that started it all is now at its 7th installment and I’m happy to say they’ve finally perfected the formula.

And while the last version ( the Sync ) got very close to making this toy indispensable, the Chorus definitely blows it out of the water! 

The Chorus is made to clamp onto a woman’s pubic bone and provides simultaneous vibrations to both to the clitoris and the G-Spot.

This handy shape is great for hands-free play but it is also made to be used during penetration. So if the man in the duo can enjoy some vibrations as well during sex.

It also helps that the Chorus takes very little vaginal real estate. Still, everything will feel more snug making her feel like she’s filled up to the rim!

Plus if you like throwing strap-ons into the mix, the wearer can still benefit from this toy when worn. 

More importantly, little hands-free sex toy rumbles like it’s at least twice its size.

The We-Vibe 1, 2, 3, 4, and 4 plus were all pretty underwhelming in terms of vibrations. Very strange since We-Vibe makes the amazingly rumbly & compact Tango. While the Sync really improved on the vibrations, the Chorus is pretty much on par with what the Tango has to offer!

That’s right, the Chorus is essentially a hands-free Tango with bonus G-spot stimulation!

Of course, the vibrations on the clitoris are more powerful than the ones found on the G-spot. But that’s a small price to pay to keep the insertable part small enough to accommodate penetration as well.

Another issue that was common with all the previous iterations was the hit-and-miss fit of the toy. But again, this was fixed with the Sync with its fully adjustable body. A feature that was thankfully kept in this new iteration of the toy.

we vibe chorus adjustable

The Chorus can either be controlled with buttons directly on the toy or with its handy little remote control. And if you wanna push its reach even further, it is also App-enabled!

The Sync can be controlled from any distance with the aid of a smartphone or controller.

While the Chorus has plenty of functions by itself, you can get even more through the app. You can even make your own patterns and sync your Chorus to the sound of music, amongst other things!

Speaking of the new controller…

It still comes with all its standard functions, but you do get some pretty exciting bonus features as well!

You can now squeeze the remote to intensify the vibrations. Which is a really natural way of operating the toy as a lot of folks already naturally squeeze anything in their reach when nearing climax.

Additionally, the controller essentially acts as a relay for the Bluetooth signal. The Ankorlink technology ( as they call it ) allows your controller to receive the signals sent from the App and transfer it to the toy itself, allowing for more seamless play and fewer connection issues!

Still, like any other Bluetooth hands-free sex toy, if you wish to have your partner control it in public, you’re better off doing it over 4G/5G or wi-fi as opposed to straight from their Bluetooth.

Also, closing your legs while sitting or being extra curvy might get in the way of the signal, so keep that in mind before making the jump.

Conclusion
If you want a wireless and hands-free couples’ sex toy that vibrates powerfully on both the Clitoris and G-Spot, it doesn’t get much better than this.

Plus, this little toy is so versatile it’s not even funny. Wear it inside, outside, under a strap-on, or while using other toys, the choice is yours!

Material
8.5
Vibration
8.5
Features
9.5
Sensation
9
Pros
Powerful
Versatile
Can be controlled via an App or controller
Control can also be given to a partner
Can be worn on the go or under a strap-on
Comfortable enough to be worn all day
Can be worn during penetration
Adjustable body
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Bluetooth can be finicky
Can fall off during especially vigorous sex
9

 

We-Vibe Vector+

We-Vibe Vector Review best wireless vibrating prostate massager couples sex toys for the heterosexual

It’s understandable that men might feel a little jealous of the two previous We-Vibe toys. But luckily We-Vibe just released the Vector+, a prostate equivalent to the Chorus!

The Vector+ is one of the smallest, most beginner-friendly vibrating prostate massagers there is.

Plus, being coupled with We-Vibe’s signature powerful rumbly vibrations, prostate pros won’t be disappointed by this toy either. The small size is still absolutely welcome as it is a rare sight in the world of prostate vibrators, with larger toys dominating the scene. 

Like most vibrating prostate massagers, the Vector+ comes with 2 vibes, one for the prostate and another one for the perineum. You can even choose between which motor you want to be active, allowing you to warm up with the perineum vibe and finish the job with the internal vibe!

Another important feature borrowed from the Chorus is the fully adjustable neck.

A neat feature that will allow almost anyone to find a perfect fit.

Not only can you better adjust the Vector+ to your anatomy, but you can also deepen the curve for a more intense pressure once you’re ready for more.

We-Vibe Vector Review APP best couples sex toys for the heterosexual

Of course, the Vector+ wouldn’t be considered a couple’s toy without its remote and App.

Just like most other We-Vibe toys, these additions make the Vector+ an amazing couples’ and long-distance relationship toy.

Your partner can take over the toy in the bedroom, out in public, or even across countries if needed!

Of course, the remote is more convenient to use in the bedroom, but the app offers more options to customize your vibrations. So you might want to bring your phone along if you want as many features to play with as possible.

Conclusion
We-Vibe finally produced an equivalent to the Chorus with men in mind and boy does it not disappoint! Everything is there: adjustable body, strong vibrations, app & remote control, and so on.

Plus, the Vector+ is as beginner-friendly as it is satisfying for more advanced users as well.

Material
8.5
Vibration
8.5
Features
9.5
Sensation
9
Pros
Powerful
Can be controlled via an App or controller
Can be controlled from any distance
Can be used on the go
Adjustable body
Easy to clean
Sanitizable
Cons
Bluetooth can be finicky ( Like all other bluetooth devices )
9

 

Hugo by Lelo

Lelo Hugo review wireless vibrating prostate stimulator for Couples sex Toys

The Hugo is a prostate and perineum vibrator that comes with a wireless controller with some pretty unique features. 

Its silicone-covered body is not too big either. So while this might not be the perfect first-time prostate massager, it is still pretty accessible to most.

It can be used in the shower or bath without any problems. And to top it all off, it’s USB rechargeable and covered by Lelo’s great warranty.

The real kicker is Lelo’s SenseMotion wireless controller. And what a difference it makes!

First of all, the remote adds much more control over the vibrations themselves. You can customize the 6 function’s strength to small incremental amounts. So if the prostate in the couple likes a more gradual climb, it can be well worth the investment.

Then you can turn on the SenseMotion!

This neat little feature allows you to either gradually raise the vibrations by tilting the toy up to 90 degrees or make the vibrations more intense the harder you shake the controller.

…And this would be just a bad gimmick if the controller didn’t vibrate!

That’s right! The vibrations in the controller imitate any vibrations found on the prostate massager itself.

If hearing this doesn’t spark your imagination, let me help you get the ball rolling.

If alone, he could put the controller on the shake mode and masturbate with it, holding the vibrating controller under his penis. As he gets more into it, the prostate massager will vibrate more and more intensely as well, making it a very organic experience.

If with a partner, she could masturbate herself with the vibrating controller and you would both be riding the same wave! Or she could put in on tilt mode and act like she’s the Caesar of his prostate!

Conclusion
The vibrating remote of the Hugo makes it such a versatile couples’sex toy.

So if you can afford it and he appreciates the wonders of the prostate, definitely consider the Hugo!

Material
9
Vibrations
9
Features
10
Sensation
9
Pros
Completely hands-free
Can be controlled wirelessly
Sanitizable
Vibrating remote mirrors the vibrations in the toy
Great couples toy
Cons
A little pricey
9.3

 

Kiiroo’s Pearl 2 or Fuse + Keon

Kiiroo Keon and pearl 2 & fuse review best teledildonic couples sex toy for long distance wireless sex

Kiiroo is the leading brand in Teledildonics.

If you’re not informed on the matter, this means that they make Dildos that can sync their motions with other toys, at any distance.

A unique feature that makes long-distance relationships and penetrative sex a possibility!

But all of these devices work perfectly well on their own as well, so they won’t only be good for connected sex.

pearl 2 & fuse kiiroo

The Pearl 2 is Kiiroo’s basic model and the Fuse comes with a clitoral stimulator attached.

The Pearl 2 and the Fuse were originally meant to be paired with Kiiroo’s Onyx 2. And while the Onyx 2 is alright and sports some impressive technology, it’s usually not enough to bring men to climax all by itself. To add insult to injury, it’s honestly nothing remotely close to real sex.

Thankfully, the Keon changed all that.

Kiiroo Keon review Best sex machine automatic masturbator hands-free teledildonics couples toy

Basically, it’s meant to hold a masturbator and do all the motions for you.

It is also compatible with any of the classic Fleshlights ( though you will have to use them inside the Kiiroo masturbator shell ), so that gives you plenty of choices to pick from. They offer gender-neutral models as well as replicas of any orifices you can normally have sex with.

The Keon can be used alone or be controlled by someone else via the Kiiroo dildo of your choice amongst many other exciting features!

If you’re not inspired yet, I can think of many ways to use these couples’ sex toys.

The obvious being long distance with her playing with her Kiiroo toy and him feeling the motions being recreated live on the Keon.

P.S.: The Kiiroo toys don’t even have to be inserted vaginally or anally, virtual blowjobs and hand-jobs are totally acceptable as well!

But if you enjoy looking at each other masturbating, you could simply use your respective couples’ toys in the same room and share the sensations in unison.

Like a bit of BDSM? Strap the Keon on Mr. and stroke the Kiiroo toy with your hands and just look at him squirm.

The possibilities are really endless!

Conclusion
The Pearl 2 or the Fuse coupled with the Keon is simply the best teledildonic combo you can get today.

So I hope you’re ready for that future sex because the future is now, baby!

Material
8.5
Features
10
Sensation
9.5
Pros
Makes long distance sex a possibility
Stroker is completely hands-free
Compatible with Most Fleshlights
Can be paired with a partner's toy across any distance
Can be synced with interactive/VR content
Cons
Combo can be a bit pricey
9.6