Homosexual men are probably collectively rolling their eyes every time the next big new heterocentric couples’ toy shows up on the market.

You know how it goes, straight folks get all the new fancy innovations, lesbos have their strap-ons, double dils, and what-have-you, but what about you lewd dudes?

Of course, traditional butt plugs, dildos ( large, realistic or not ), prostate massagers, and masturbators are all decent choices for couples. But these are not exactly what I’d call couples toys, as they work just as well on their own.

But don’t fret because, here at Tabooless, we sure know our stuff and, in this article, I’ve compiled some of the best couples toys available for gay men today!

So sit back, relax, and read on for all the juicy details!

Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.

That being said, here’s our top 9 list of the best couples toys for gay men, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.

Tantus’ C-Rings

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These are the best “no-frills” cock rings you can get.

For those who don’t already know, cock rings are worn at the base of the penis, behind the testicles, or both depending on the model or if you decide to wear two of them at the same time. This is intended to restrict the blood flow of a man’s erection, giving him a fuller hard-on and helping him to maintain it even after ejaculation.

If worn behind the testicles and if tight enough, the ring will apply pressure on the perineum as well, which can be quite pleasurable to some, especially during orgasm.

This great and all, but why go with Tantus over all the other brands and styles?

The big advantage here is that they’re made of premium platinum cured silicone. Meaning that they are extremely durable and can also be fully sanitized. Therefore, it is possible to share them between partners after a simple 10-minute boil! 

The advantages of silicone don’t end there either. Silicone is soft to the touch and comes in numbers rigidities. So whether you want a beginner ring or a more advanced one, silicone got you covered. With these rings, there’s really no need to invest in the other non-body-safe options out there.

Another big plus is that silicone rings have less of a tendency of getting caught in pubic hair than your standard cock ring. So If you ever ripped a handful of pubes off of your junk, you’ll know how valuable that is!

The only real caveat with silicone toys is that they shouldn’t be used in tandem with silicone lubes.

Tantus offers a few different models:

The super-soft C-Rings are stretchy and forgiving, so they’re comfortable and perfect for beginners. But if you want some serious pressure down there, these won’t be the best choice.

The Advanced and Beginner C-Rings are much firmer and are mostly meant to be worn behind the testicles. But if you’re extra girthy, they could be worn at the base of the penis as well. The only real difference between the two is that the beginner model has a looser fit.

Last but not least, The C-Sling is essentially a middle ground between the beginner and advanced C-Rings with an added flap that targets the perineum more intently than any other basic cock ring.

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Tantus makes some of the best, most comfortable, basic and body-safe cock rings money can buy. 

Made of silicone and being fully sanitizable, it’s also great for gay men who are in more than one relationship!

Best body-safe standard cock ring around
Will basically last forever
Easy to clean
Can't use silicone lube with it


Quickshot Boost & Vantage by Fleshlight

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Even though the Quickshots are the cheapest Fleshlights available, they’re by no means disappointing.

They’re inconspicuous, cheap and feels almost as great as any other Fleshlight.

More importantly, they also double as great couples’ sex toys since the open-ended design allows for your partner to fellate you while in use.

At the price of being a bit less stealthy, the transparent Quickshot Vantage also gives a pretty good view to your significant other as well! And, as any self-respecting homosexual man should know, us guys are all about the visuals!

We suggest using less lube than you would normally use while using it during a blowjob. Since lube will mix up with saliva and, through all that lubrification, you might lose the Quickshot’s great texture.

A good flavored lube will also go a long way in making the experience more pleasant for your SO. Otherwise, if your partner is well hydrated, nothing stops you from going all spit!

The only caveat is that the Quickshot can be quite noisy in use so, if the walls are thin where you reside, this might not be the optimal choice for a nice stealthy BJ.

Unlike most other Fleshlights, the quickshot is almost tailor made to be a couples’ sex toy for gay dudes.

So if you need something to spice up your blowjobs, or simply need to limit the depth of penetration for the sake of your airways, what are you waiting for?!

Open-ended design makes clean up a breeze
Short enough so it can be used during blowjobs
Almost as good as a the Full-Size models ( Minus the suction )
Transparent model gives a great view to your partner
No suction when used by itself


Tom of Finland Head to Head Masturbator

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The Tom of Finland Head to head male masturbator brings mutual masturbation to the next level!

As the name implies, it’s a double-ended stroker that can accommodate up to 2 guys at the same time!

This results in a very intimate and kinky experience. The proximity also leaves you in a position that is perfect for making out or doing a quick reach around for some extra stimulation!

The sleeve itself is rigid enough so it won’t just wobble around during play and it feels surprisingly good compared to other similar masturbators.

The head to head also comes adorned with 2 single functions, AAA powered bullets with decent ( but buzzy ) vibrations.

Sadly, the vibrations are dampened by the thickness of the material, so we highly suggest you invest in the powerful Tango or one of its alternatives and replace the included vibes.

The Head to Head is also completely transparent, so you can both enjoy the view while going down to pound town.

Like most traditional strokers, the Head to Head isn’t fully sanitizable since it is made of a porous material, so use it only with steady, STD tested partners.

But otherwise, this masturbator is relatively painless to clean.

Simply remove the bullets and clean it normally with some mild soap. It’s also important that you make sure that it dries completely before storing it if you want to avoid mold.

The Tom of Finland Head to Head stroker is quite a surprise, especially if you believed that all couples’ toys for gay men were all about that butt stuff.

Just upgrade the vibes and you’ve got yourself a pretty amazing couples toys to spice up your mutual masturbation sessions

Open-ended design makes clean up a breeze
Allows for two users at a time
Transparency gives a great view to your partner
Included vibes are on the weak side
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We-Vibe’s Ditto & Lovense’s Hush

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These two excellent wireless butt plugs that are bound to be a hit with gay guys who are into public or long-distance play.

And if you’re wondering why there are two different toys in the same entry, it’s because these two great hands-free sex toys complement each other nicely instead of competing for the same spot.

You see, We-Vibes Ditto is the smallest one of the two and the Hush comes in two larger sizes, acting as the medium and large cousins to the Ditto.

To give you an idea, here’s a picture from LSOP‘s blog of the Ditto being compared to the smallest version of the Hush.
Ditto and hush best gay men couples sex toys We-Vibe’s Ditto is 3 inches long and 1.25 inches wide.

It can be controlled with either a wireless controller or with an app on your smartphone. On the app, you can customize your vibrations and let a partner control your toy from any distance.

The vibrations are strong and rumbly and carry through the perineum thanks to its smart shape. We-Vibes effort also comes in Purple and Navy.

Lovense’s Hush comes in two sizes, one is 1.5 inches wide and the other is 1.75 and both are just short of 4 inches of insertable length.

This time around there’s no wireless controller included but the app works very well by itself. It can also be controlled by a second party from anywhere in the world and just like the Ditto, the vibrations go from smooth rumbles to intense vibrations.

Just keep in mind that both of these hands-free sex toys aren’t perfect. Just like the Lush, the wireless signal has a hard time getting through people or limbs and they have a history of straight up not working with bigger folks.

Sadly, this is an issue with most wireless toys so we really can’t really blame it on Lovense or We-Vibe.

These toys are perfect for private or public play as well as long-distance relationships. So if you’re looking for strong vibrations in a wireless anal couples’ sex toy, both are great options.

The lack of a controller for the hush makes it a bit awkward to use during sex though, as you will need to bring your smartphone along for the ride.

Can be controlled via an App
Control can also be given to a partner
Can be worn on the go or under a strap-on
Easy to clean
Bluetooth can be finicky


Edge by Lovense

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Lovense is mostly known for making toys for sex cam performers, being pretty much the only company making devices that natively react to the spectator’s tips. 

Most of their toys are also pretty good for long-distance relationships or public play since their toys can be wirelessly controlled via any smartphone.

The Edge is no different and while it seems visually and functionally identical to the  Hugo mentioned further down, it does have a few interesting unique features. Like Lelo’s effort, it offers pretty strong vibrations, with motors on both the perineum and prostate, as well as being rechargeable.

Just keep in mind that if you’re a beginner, you would be better off with the more accessible Hugo or Vector mentioned below since this prostate massager is a bit more on the thicker side.

So why would I add a prostate massager that is essentially a slightly larger clone of another product in this list? Well, it’s because tricky old Jimmy kept the best for last, of course!

The Edge features a completely adjustable prostate arm. So If you’ve had issues in the past with the fit of your prostate toys, this is as good as it gets.

The only real issue I have with this prostate massager, and this applies to most Bluetooth toys, is that connection can be a bit hit and miss at times. If the signal has to go through a person, or even just a leg, it might not reach its destination.

Whether you need a customized fit, a cheaper option to the remote-controlled Hugo, or even if you’re just looking for a good LDR or public prostate play toy, this toy will be absolutely fit for the job.
Completely hands-free
Can be controlled wirelessly
Deep Rumbly Vibrations
Adjustable prostate arm
Compatible with most Sex Cam sites
A little big for beginners
Bluetooth can be a little tricky at times
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We-Vibe Vector

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Not all gay men are anal pros, but all men should still have access to forgiving, yet powerful prostate toys.

Well you’re in luck because…

The Vector is one of the smallest, most beginner-friendly vibrating prostate massagers out there.

Plus, being coupled with We-Vibe’s signature powerful rumbly vibrations, prostate pros won’t be disappointed by this toy either. The small size is still absolutely welcome as it is a rare sight in the world of prostate vibrators, with larger toys dominating the scene. 

Like most vibrating prostate massagers, the Vector comes with 2 vibes, one for the prostate and another one for the perineum. You can even choose between which motor you want to be active, allowing you to warm up with the perineum vibe and finish the job with the internal vibe!

Another important feature borrowed from their flagship Chorus is the fully adjustable neck.

A neat feature that will allow almost anyone to find a perfect fit.

Not only can you better adjust the Vector to your anatomy, but you can also deepen the curve for a more intense pressure once you’re ready for more.

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Of course, the Vector wouldn’t be considered a couple’s toy without it’s remote and App.

Just like most other We-Vibe toys, these additions make the Vector an amazing couples’ and long-distance relationship toy.

Your partner can take over the toy in the bedroom, out in public, or even across countries if needed!

Of course, the remote is more convenient to use in the bedroom, but the app offers more options to customize your vibrations. So you might want to bring your phone along if you want as many features to play with as possible.

We-Vibe finally produced a equivalent to the Chorus with men in mind and boy does it not disappoint! Everything is there: adjustable body, strong vibrations, app & remote control, and so on.

Plus, the Vector is as beginner-friendly as it is satisfying for more advanced users as well.

Can be controlled via an App or controller
Can be controlled from any distance
Can be used on the go
Adjustable body
Easy to clean
Bluetooth can be finicky ( Like all other bluetooth devices )


Hugo by Lelo

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The Hugo is a prostate and perineum vibrator that comes with a wireless controller with some pretty unique features. 

Its silicone-covered body is not too big either. So while this might not be the perfect first-time prostate massager, it is still pretty accessible to most guys.

It can be used in the shower or bath without any problems. And to top it all off, it’s USB rechargeable and covered by Lelo’s great warranty.

The real kicker is Lelo’s SenseMotion wireless controller. And what a difference it makes!

First of all, the remote adds much more control over the vibrations themselves. You can customize the 6 function’s strength to small incremental amounts. So if the prostate in the couple likes a more gradual climb, it can be well worth the investment.

Then you can turn on the SenseMotion!

This neat little feature allows you to either gradually raise the vibrations by tilting the toy up to 90 degrees or make the vibrations more intense the harder you shake the controller.

…And this would be just a bad gimmick if the controller didn’t vibrate!

That’s right! The vibrations in the controller imitate any vibrations found on the prostate massager itself.

If hearing this doesn’t spark your imagination, let me help you get the ball rolling.

If alone, you could put the controller on the shake mode and masturbate with it, holding the vibrating controller under your penis. As you get more into it, the prostate massager will vibrate more and more intensely as well, making it a very organic experience.

If with a partner, he could do the masturbating himself with the vibrating controller and you would both be riding the same wave! Or he could put it on tilt mode and act like he’s the Caesar of your prostate!

The vibrating remote of the Hugo makes it quite the versatile couples’sex toy when it comes to gay men.

So if you can afford it, definitely consider the Hugo!

Completely hands-free
Can be controlled wirelessly
Vibrating remote mirrors the vibrations in the toy
A little pricey


Kiiroo’s Pearl 2 or Fuse + Keon

Kiiroo is the leading brand in Teledildonics.

If you’re not informed on the matter, this means that they make Dildos that can sync their motions with another toy, at any distance.

A unique feature that makes long-distance relationships and penetrative sex a possibility!

But all of these devices work perfectly well on their own as well, so they won’t only be good for connected sex.

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The Pearl 2 is Kiiroo’s basic model and the Fuse comes with a clitoral stimulator attached which can easily be used to stimulate a man’s perineum as well.

The Pearl 2 and the Fuse were originally meant to be paired with Kiiroo’s Onyx 2. And while the Onyx 2 is alright and sports some impressive technology, it’s usually not enough to bring men to climax all by itself. It’s honestly nothing remotely close to real sex.

Thankfully, the Launch changed all that.

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Basically, it’s meant to hold a masturbator and do all the motions for you.

It is also compatible with any of the classic Fleshlights ( though you will have to use them inside the Kiiroo masturbator shell ), so that gives you plenty of choices to pick from. They offer gender-neutral models as well as replicas of any orifices you can normally have sex with.

The Keon can be used alone or be controlled by someone else via the Kiiroo dildo of your choice amongst many other exciting features!

If you’re not inspired yet, I can think of many ways to use these couples’ sex toys.

The obvious being long distance with one playing with his Kiiroo toy and the other feeling the motions being recreated live on the Keon.

P.S.: The Kiiroo toys don’t even have to be inserted anally, virtual blow jobs and hand-jobs are totally acceptable as well!

But if you enjoy looking at each other masturbate, you could simply use your respective couples’ toys in the same room and share the sensations in unison.

Like a bit of BDSM? Strap the Keon on Mr. and stroke the Kiiroo toy with your hands and just look at him squirm.

The possibilities are really endless!

The Pearl 2 or the Fuse coupled with the Fleshlight Launch is simply the best teledildonic combo you can get today.

So I hope you’re ready for that future sex because the future is now, baby!

Makes long-distance sex a possibility
Stroker is completely hands-free
Compatible with Most Fleshlights
Can be synced with interactive/VR content
Can be paired with a partner's toy across any distance
Combo can be a bit expensive


Shockspot Sex Machines

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The Shockspot is simply the best sex machine available on the market today.

They outperform and have more features than any other fuck machine money can buy.

These luxury sex machines offer speeds up to 24 inches per second and about 105 pounds in torque and stroke length will depend on the model you choose. The classic and Dual Thruster models offer 8 inches max in stroke length and there’s also a 12-inch capable device as well.

So not only can the Shockspots accommodate larger toys, but they can also thrust deeper than any other sex machine out there.

The frame of the Shockspot is also one of the most versatile we’ve seen.

It can hit pretty much any angle you can throw at it and you can also completely fold down the Shockspot for easy storage.

This means it is not only easy to travel with but, once you’re done, you can also just stash it under the bed. No disassembly required.

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These great sex machines can be controlled by a PC, a remote control, or even with your partners Fleshlight with the V-Stroker Attachment. 

With the Touch and Feel PC Software, you can either pick from the included presets or make your own programs. Once this is all set, all you have to do you is press the palm button to set the machine in motion once you’re in position.

The Shockspot can either be controlled by you or from anywhere else in the world. This makes the Shockspot perfect for solo use as well as for long-distance relationships. 

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The remote control is optional and gives you control over the depth, speed, and smoothness of the strokes. This way, you don’t need a PC to operate your sex-machine. 

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The Fleshlight and V-Stroker combo is also a favorite for couples in long-distance relationships. During use, the strokes on the masturbator are replicated on the Shockspot no matter how far your partner is. 

So if the top would rather be in control of the machine fucking the bottom in the relationship, the Shockspot, and V-Stroker combo will probably win over the previous entry.

Just like most fucking machines, they come outfitted with Vac-U-Lock adapters by default.
If you need more options, they also offer a pretty good universal dildo adapter as well as a Fleshlight holder.

The Shockspots can act as great threesome third wheels, allow for long distance sex, and more! 

So if you can afford it and you’re looking for the best sex machine experience that money can buy, I have no idea what you are still doing on this blog.

Otherwise, if you’re a bit low on funds, there are still plenty of great affordable fuck machines out there. 

Completely hands-free
Customizable patterns
Beautiful design
Depth can be adjusted directly on the controller
Can be controlled across any distance with a PC
Can mimic the strokes on a Fleshlight with a Vstroker
Limited but good attachments
Extremely adjustable
Easy to store
No App support yet
Most expensive option so far
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