Double the dildo, double the fun!
…But it also doubles the number of issues you might have to face while looking for the perfect toy for your needs.
It also doesn’t help that most options are made of toxic materials and that even the good alternatives are either badly marketed or explained.
But that’s why I, Jim the Dildo Dealer, still have a job a decade into my sex toy-slinging career! I have solutions and explanations for almost anything related to carnal pleasures after all.
So listen up my horny minions!
First of all, strapless strap-Ons are not actually strapless.
That’s right! And that’s what I meant by terrible marketing.
To no fault of their own, a lot of folks who have tried these mislabeled sex toys ended up fully discounting them. You see, unless you have Kegel powers on par with She-Hulk’s, chances are you can’t hold these at all during sex. So you actually need a harness to secure these bad boys into place. And not all harnesses are compatible either ( More on these later )!
But horrible advertising aside, they’re still well worth your attention as they are an awesome way to receive pleasure as you dish it out!
You’re probably using double-ended dildos wrong.
Double-ended dildos are also pretty badly explained, if at all.
The main complaint, especially during coupled play, is that there’s almost always someone being left out as the dildo might be sliding in and out of one person while the other is left with a static dildo.
You see, there are two main ways of using these double-dils and both methods actually require you to hold them at the midpoint: So either you hold the double-dildo in place and both of you move around it, or you stay put and move the dildo back and forth between you two!
Another common issue is that double-sided dildos are often equal on both ends, but no one orifice is made with the same build and preferences. So I suggest you read on as I’ll cover some alternatives that can accommodate both of your unique builds!
Why use a strapless strap-on over a double-ended dildo?
Whether you’re a pegger, a lesbian, or a transmasculine person looking for a fairer way to give some mutual internal pleasure, double-sided strap-ons are like a gift from the gods!
If you’re on the giving end, they feel much more “natural” during play as each push and pull will tug on your G-spot as you go.
Plus, if you’re on the receiving end, there’s something quite hot about knowing that even though you’re bottoming ( or power bottoming! ) your partner isn’t left out of the equation. So it feels much less detached and more intimate than using a standard strap-on.
Why use a double-ended dildo over a Strapless Strap-On dildo?
First and foremost, on top of including all the folks mentioned above, gay men can also enjoy this alternative! Though some transmasculine folks might find this method of play to get in the way of their gender euphoria if they’re not into anal.
The big upside here is that while strapless toys offer 2 different types of stimulation to each partner, this one provides penetrative motions to both users ( instead of rocking for one and in and out for the other ). So if you’re both into that, that’s a big plus here!
Some Double-ended dildos can also be bent enough to be used on a single person for some pretty intense double penetration, may it be in singular or different orifices. In some cases, the center of the double-ended dildo can even be used as a handle to control both ends, instead of having to have both hands occupied! So if you’re as greedy as you’re horny, this option might very well be for you!
Also, make sure to see our guide on what lubes to use as well as how to clean your toys to avoid any complications.
That being said, here’s our list of the best strapless strap-on toys & double-ended dildos, not necessarily from worst to best, because everyone’s needs and budgets are different.
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Affordable Strapless Strap-on dildos that come in many sizes & styles ( Bullet vibe Compatible ) |
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Luxurious Strapless Dildos with large G-Spot Bulbs & optional vibrator |
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Best Strapless Strap-On for tops who prefer smaller toys ( Bullet vibe Compatible ) |
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Squishiest strapless dildos in multiple sizes and with smaller ends for the wearer |
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Best strapless strap-on overall with 3 remote-controlled vibrators & many sizes and colors |
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Most stimulating wireless vibrating double-sided strap-on with integrated clit sucker/air-pulser |
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Great affordable strapless-compatible underwear harness |
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Most stable & comfortable harness for Strapless dildos with femme-friendly options |
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Best strapless-compatible leather harnesses |
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Affordable traditional silicone double-ended dildos for every situation |
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Most versatile traditional body-safe double-ended dildo |
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Stainless double-ended dildo for intense G-spot and prostate stimulation |
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Double-sided suction cups for the perfect DIY double-ended dildos Multiple Entries |
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Vac-U-Lock Attachment for the most Stable DIY double-ended dildos |
Strapless Strap-Ons
Feeldoe/Realdoe by Tantus
Since they’ve been around forever, Tantus’ Feeldoes and Realdoes are probably the most known Strapless dildos in the business.
The Feeldoes are Semi-realistic and come in a slick silicone that allows for more frictionless play while lubed up. The upside here is that it offers less drag during play, but the downside is that these are kind of dust magnets, so make sure you store them well!
The Realdoes are a realistic take on the original models. They also have a matte finish that feels soft to the touch and won’t collect dust like the Feeldoes. The matte texture will also add a bit of drag during play, which can be a good thing to some, but you’ll want to use extra lube if you’re not into that sensation!
They’re also the most affordable options in this niche, though it comes at a bit of a price.
These Strapless Strap-on dildos, like most cheaper silicone toys, are quite rigid. So if you’re not into stiff toys, you might prefer the options below.
All “Does” come in 4 sizes and they also have models with bullet vibrators for extra stimulation.
There’s really a size for almost anyone here, which is a big plug compared to a lot of the next models. Though I would probably go a size smaller as rigidity tends to make toys feel bigger.
When it comes to the vibrating models, the bullet placement here is more for the giver’s clitoris as it is situated at the base of the toy.
It’s also worth noting that the included vibe is a bit of a placeholder. So I would ditch the cheap bullet vibe and get something stronger like the Tango if you want it to be actually satisfying!
Fun Factory’s Strapless Strap-On Dildo models are some of the classiest options in the business. I mean look at the beautiful design on these units!
The Share is a semi-realistic, and non-vibrating & tapered strapless strap-on with a subtle but noticeable coronal ridge, which aids P/G-spot stimulation on the receiving end.
The ShareVibe is a non-realistic alternative that comes with a vibrator. It’s a pretty decent one too! It’s rechargeable, removable, and submersible underwater, making it easy to clean and use on its own as well. The placement of the bullet, like on the “Does”, also aligns with the wearers’ clitoris.
The wearer’s G-Spot bulbs here are much larger than average.
So if the top in the relationship isn’t that much into sizable things, this might be a dealbreaker. On the other hand, if intense & filling G-Spot stim is their thing, they’ll feel right at home!
The Share and Sharevibe are also less rigid than the Feeldoes & Realdoes and both are covered in silky smooth matte silicone.
The less rigid build also allows for more versatility with your angles while doing the deed. So if you like getting creative with your moves, these ones will definitely allow for more freedom of movement.
The main downsides are that they only come in one size and that the bullet vibe is much larger than most standard bullets. So if you’re planning on upgrading the bullet in the future, you’re shit out of luck cowboy!
Tango by Fuze
The Fuze Tango is like a hybrid between the Share & the Sharevibe.
Its shape lies between the semi-realism of the share and the non-phallic look of the Sharevibe, but like the latter, its bullet vibrator placement aligns nicely with the wearer’s clitoris.
The silicone is not too rigid and not too soft, so if you can’t agree on the density of your toy, this might also be the best compromise.
Now it’s not all good middle grounds here as just like the Shares, the Tango sadly only comes in one size.
It also has a much smaller g-spotting end for the wearer.
Therefore, if you felt like the above toys seemed almost perfect only to be let down by the girth of their “bulbs”. This is a perfect option for those of us who are far from being size queens/kings!
While it doesn’t come with a vibe, it is compatible with most regular bullets!
This is great news as it’ll accommodate the amazing Tango vibe & its alternatives!
I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or if it was totally done on purpose, but Fuze’s Tango and We-Vibe’s Tango are sort of a match made in heaven!
Vixen Creations’ Nexus
If you’ve read any of my articles, you probably know I’m a sucker for Vixen Creations’ toys. They pretty much single-handedly started the double-density dildo revolution with their Vixskin blend, and even their non-Vixskin standard toys are just as beautiful and squishy.
So if you’re looking for squishy or double-density strapless dildos, this is definitely your best choice!
These Strapless Strap-ons also deliver plenty of squishes, no matter if you pick the standard silicone or dual-density Vixskin options. So either way, they’ll both feel great and natural internally.
What’s more, the pliable nature of the silicones on offer will also allow for more flexibility with your angles. And variety is the spice of life, isn’t it?
The Nexus in standard silicone comes in 2 different sizes & semi-realistic builds.
These two options, named the Junior and the Senior both have beautiful blueish-purple hues and should satisfy most folks looking for “small” to “regular-sized” toys.
I still wish there were dual-density options for those who enjoy smaller/non-realistic toys, but the silicone here is still super nice and squishable, so it’s definitely still worth your attention.
The largest size of the 3, the Peacemaker, is the only realistic and dual-density model.
It comes with a realistic and large 2-inch dildo on the receiving end. This large realistic option also comes in Caramel, Vanilla, and Chocolate, so it is perfect for any size queen/king/x with a taste for realism!
The dual-density silicone also makes the insertion much more manageable than you’d imagine thanks to the extra squishy outer layer.
All models come with much smaller internal ends for the wearer.
They’re slimmer and more dildo-like than most other models on this list. But they still put a nice emphasis on the G-spot nonetheless.
So if the top in your duo isn’t into big toys, they’ll probably love this option. Most folks should be able to enjoy these toys though size queens who like to top might want to skip these for some of the larger bulbs on this roundup.
Strap-On-Me’s Vibrating Strap-on
No more pussyfooting around, the toys you’ve been waiting for have arrived! Hell, the following two entries are probably the best strapless strap-on dildos you can get as of today!
Strap-On-Me’s vibrating strapless dildo features 3 remote-controlled rumbly motors with independent controls!
With one vibrator at the tip of the dildo, one for the clit of the wearer/base of the dildo, and one in the G-spot bulb, not one sensitive bit will be left out!
This is especially awesome as most ( if not all ) vibrating strapless dildos only really provide vibrations for the wearer’s clitoris. You might get a tickle from the reverberations on the receiving end, but it’s usually far from enough.
As if it wasn’t enough, each motor has one constant vibration mode along with 2 extra patterns, and each mode has 3 adjustable strengths.
Though it is worth noting that while the patterns can be independent of each other, the strength of the toy will carry through all motors. So you do have to agree on when to turn things to 11 here!
To make things more manageable, individual vibes can be turned off with a long press of a button without affecting the other motors. So if you need a break but still want to let your partner enjoy their vibrations, it is still possible.
The shaft of the dildo is also entirely adjustable thanks to a rigid yet malleable wire running through the toy.
So if the person on the receiving end prefers intense P/G-spot stimulation, a straight dildo, or something in between, it’s all possible with only this one toy!
This strapless dildo comes in 3 different sizes & colors so it definitely should fit most folks!
More sizes mean more potential users, so it is definitely welcome, as no one should be alienated from this great new toy.
Lastly, the Strap-On-Me’s Vibrating Strap-on is waterproof ( but not submersible ).
So not only is it shower-friendly, but it’ll also come in handy when comes time to clean it up.
But if you want a toy that will work in the bath/jacuzzi, I suggest you jump to the next entry!
Strap-On-Me’s Multi Orgasm Strap-on
The Multi Orgasm Strap-On is basically the same toy as above, but with a clit sucker, a bit more power, and an extra smaller size!
The clit sucker/air-pulse addition is a pure stroke of genius, especially for tops who struggle to achieve orgasm while using strap-ons.
Those types of stimulators, popularized by the likes of Womanizer & Satisfyer, are now synonymous with yanking orgasms right out of even the toughest clits, so believe me when I say you’ll appreciate the extra help!
Lining these up during play might be a little tough at first. But with a well-fitting harness, a little adjusting, and patience, you should still be able to get things nice and secure!
The extra smaller size is also definitely welcome, especially for total pegging novices or particularly snug vaginas! Hopefully, they bring this smaller size to the vibrating model as well in the future!
Plus, if the bottom is out of the house, the clit sucker along with the vibrating bulb is a great solo masturbation tool.
With clit suckers being almost universally loved, this is truly two toys in one here and you’d be almost crazy not to enjoy it on your own!
Pro tip: The dildo can even act like a handle to help you zero in on the clit. Plus, it’s something to hold onto as you lose your mind!
With the new electromagnetic charger, this new iteration is also fully submersible underwater!
So while the shower was the limit with the vibrating model, this one is a true little love submarine!
Strapless Strap-On Harnesses
Rodeoh Harnesses
These brief-style harnesses are essentially the most affordable option for strapless strap-on users.
While the photos might be a bit confusing, the panel behind the O-Ring can actually be opened to allow a strapless dildo to go through.
Just keep in mind that the integrated stretchy O-Ring and underwear aren’t the most around. So you’ll probably still have to support the shaft a touch as you play if you don’t want it to wobble around.
But at such a low price, this isn’t so dramatic as the other options are quite more expensive.
While the models offered are very trans-masculine and tomboy friendly, there really aren’t any feminine options offered here.
But if you’re not a diehard femme or if you’re looking for a cheap brief-style harness, it doesn’t get any better than this!
Spareparts Hardwear Harnesses
The Spareparts harnesses like an evolved version of your standard harness.
They’re packed with features that really modernize what strap-ons should be in the 2020s.
What’s more, Spartpart Hardwear’s offerings are some of the most comfortable and durable harnesses you can buy today.
The durable Elastic O-rings will accommodate a large variety of dildo sizes and, of course, strapless dildos, thanks to movable panels behind the dildo opening.
The material on all their harnesses is also extremely comfortable and breathable, and is also dries almost as fast as you can wet it! Which comes in pretty handy during sex, as you might imagine.
Another underrated extra feature is the hidden pockets above and under the O-Ring meant to hold small vibrators.
Bullets secured in there are also easy to trigger through the material of the harness. So you won’t have to dig in there every time you want to change speeds.
So if the wearer wants some extra vibrations, they’ll love those handy little pockets!
The Joque is their most stable model as it’s the closest thing to a traditional strap-on. So if vigorous play is your thing, that might very well be the harness for you!
The Tomboi is their standard underwear harness. It’s a bit less stable but often considered more convenient since you can simply slip them on like normal underwear without having to deal with straps. It’ll also fit nicely under clothes if you like to get freaky on the go!
The Lingerie harness is a lot like the Tomboi. But it is more femme-friendly and comes with optional garter belts as well. So if you’re a feminine person looking for an underwear-style harness, this is the one for you!
Aslan Harnesses
If you’re more into the look of traditional harnesses, but still want something that’ll fit strapless dildos, these are the strap-ons for you!
Not only do Aslan’s strap-ons look awesome, but they’re also incredibly comfortable compared to other leather harnesses of this type.
Most of the leather alternatives usually tend to dig and chafe, but by some kind of sexy black magic, Aslan somehow manages to circumvent that completely.
While they can easily be converted from Jockstrap to G-String mode, you’ll want to stick to the G-string position for them to hold your Strapless Strap-ons.
Still, it gives you some good flexibility if you use traditional dildos as well since the jockstrap mode can easily give you access to the wearer’s bits when needed!
One leather harness, so many possibilities!
Double-Ended Dildos
Colours Double & DP Pleasures
During my research & experiments, it was actually pretty difficult to find decent traditional double-ended dildos that were both body-safe and not absolutely rock-hard.
Brands really make it difficult to stay away from unhealthy jelly toys in the double-dil department.
Colours’ take, while still quite firm are still squishier than most alternatives.
As the makers of the super soft Coloursofts dildos, it’s a bit strange to me that they didn’t opt for that silicone instead as it is much closer to the classic jelly toys, minus the toxic materials. But it is still squishy enough to be enjoyable.
Thankfully, they offer 2 different models that should fit most use cases.
Their standard “double” is flexible enough to use with a partner on the other end, but a bit too stiff to do solo double penetration on oneself.
The “DP” model on the other hand comes in a U shape with one standard end and a smaller end clearly meant for anal. Since it’s thinner at the center, it’s great for solo double penetration may it be in one orifice or two different ones at a time. And while the bend is slightly awkward, it can also be used on two different people at a time! So it is still decent for partners with different size needs!
Ruse Double-Ended Dildos by Blush
These double-ended dildos are a lot like the “double” from Colours but maybe a touch more versatile thanks to their naturally curved bodies.
This means that they’ll be good for partnered play but also much more forgiving for solo double penetration. Though for that specific use case, it is a tad less forgiving than the Colours DP as both ends come in the same size! And while the toys still want to splay out when used in the same orifice, it is not impossible to achieve with a bit of effort.
While using this with a partner, on the other hand, the natural U shape is also great for hitting prostates and g-spots if you’re both facing in the same direction.
Both options coming from Blush are larger than the ones from Colours.
So the “Slim” sort of works as a Medium ( 1.5″ diameter ) and the “Thick” as a large ( 1.75″ ) alternative to Colours’ smaller size ( 1.25″ ).
I don’t know if it’s an illusion due to the fact that there’s more silicone involved, but the “Thick” model does feels a touch squishier than the “Slim” model which has near identical firmness to the Colours.
Pure Wand by Njoy
Now you probably think I’ve gone fully insane after complaining about how body-safe double-ended dildos are often too firm. But hear me out!
Being too firm is mostly an issue when it comes to textured dildos or solo double-penetration. But…
If both partners are really into intense P/G-spot stimulation, Njoy Pure Wand’s intensely curved stainless steel body will absolutely provide it!
It also helps that it has two differently sized ends: one smaller, beginner-friendly tip and a more sizable one on the other side. So both partners or orifice types can easily be accommodated.
But the star of the show is really the frictionless & intense curve meant apply a ton of leverage to G-spots and prostates alike. And if you know a thing or two about these little bundles of nerves, you’ll know that pressure is their kryptonite!
Now if you find the curve too intense and would prefer something more akin to a dildo, you might prefer Le Wand’s Arch.
It’s basically like if you took the Pure Wand and straightened it out. So it’ll be a bit more versatile but much more forgiving on your prostates and G-spots!
Double-Sided Suction Cups
Double-sided suction cups can either turn most dildos into suction dildos or turn any of your two favorite dildos into double-ended dildos!
As you may have noticed, there aren’t a lot of choices when it comes to body-safe double-ended toys. So this is definitely a cause for celebration! Especially since there are so many great body-safe toys out there that have MUCH better materials & designs than what most silicone double-ended dildos have to offer.
Plus, orifices are pretty unique to the individual, so it allows you to perfectly customize your double-ended dils exactly to the liking of both parties concerned.
It’s also an awesome way of finding new ways to play with a familiar favorite!
If you need dildo suggestions, look no further than our realistic, abstract & non-phallic, fantasy, squirting, & XL dildo guides for everything you need to know.
NYTC Double-Sided Suction cup is probably the best affordable double-sided suction cup.
It’s surprisingly strong considering how thin it is. Though it doesn’t come in multiple sizes, so you’ll need a dildo that has a bigger base than the cup for them to work.
If you want to build the absolute cheapest, yet high-quality body-safe double-ended dildo, just buy yourself two Coloursoft dildos along with this little guy and you’re set!
Deep Fantasies offer another great affordable and powerful double-sided suction cup.
These are a touch more expensive than NYTC’s but they’re entirely made of silicone. So they’re more durable and also come in multiple sizes. These are a bit of a cheaper rip-off of Lustart’s design, so keep that in mind if you’re torn on who to encourage!
Lustarts Double-Sided Suction cups are probably the most beautiful option.
They come in tons of sizes and gorgeous marbled colors and work extremely well as they were designed to handle large toys. Just expect long shipping times as they’re hand-made and shipped by the same person who makes them!
Sinnovator’s Double-Sided Suction cups are the most powerful Lustart equivalent for folks who want to match their suction cup’s colors with their dildos.
They come in tons of colors & sizes, so it’s super easy to find a perfect match for your dildo that’ll look like it was exactly made for it.
Of course, since they ship from the U.K. expect extra shipping fees if you’re ordering outside of Europe.
CONCLUSION
Let’s face it, the available traditional double-ended dildos kind of suck! They’re either toxic or cheaply made. But these double-sided suction cups allow you to turn some of the best silicone dildos around into top-tier double-sided dildos!
So even if you opt for some of the cheapest dildos found on our “best of” lists, you’ll still get something better than what is currently made today!
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Vac-U-Lock Dildo Coupler
For this option, you will need to get your hands on Vac-U-Lock compatible dildos which limits your selection quite a bit but it’s absolutely worth it since…
This dildo doubler is the most stable accessory available for making a DIY double-ended dildo.
Though keep in mind that you’ll lose some flexibility at the center of your double-ended sexual chimera.
Plus, if you like the idea of endless dildo customization or sex machines, the Vac-U-Lock ecosystem is a great one to get into as there are tons of handle types, suction cups, and machines that are compatible with it!
CONCLUSION
If you and your partner tend to go pretty hard in the paint, this Vac-U-Lock dildo coupler will never separate you!
Sure you have fewer dildo choices to pick from, but they’ll definitely survive the stress you put on them, you wild animals!
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